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8 mo

Who was in the wrong here?

My brother always comes out of the shower in just a towel and sits on the lounge butt naked next to me! It's so gross and I always tell him that it's gross because I lay on that lounge sometimes where his butt crack and balls sack are sitting.

So he did it again and he was sitting with his legs together and his knees up near his chest and leaning on the arm of the lounge chair on his phone and his towel rode up and I could see his butt and his nuts squished in between his legs peaking under the towel. SO I decided to just give them a quick whack with the television remote to teach him a lesson. He yelped like a dog with his tail stepped on and he jumped up and grabbed his balls and got really mad and then hobbled his way to his room and my our Mom got really mad at me but I feel like he is the one in the wrong because it's gross what he does and he does it almost every night.

Thoughts?

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8 mo
Update: he didn't do it after his shower tonight lmao! He went straight to his bedroom and got changed into pj's and then came out and he even took less lounge space 😂😂😂 Sorry nay sayers but you can't argue with the results lol
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  • You were both in the wrong. He should not be doing what he’s doing, and you should not have hit him in the testicles. Striking a guy in the testicles can cause serious physical harm, it’s not just playful fun.
    Hey, here’s a great idea, why not try using words and actually just asking him not to do that anymore and explain to him why. You might be surprised to find out that he actually changes his behavior, and without being smacked in the balls!

    • I have tried that! Many times! So has my Mom!

    • Okay, so you got the results you wanted. Good for you. But the fact remains, you should never strike a guy in his testicles just to make a point. Testicles are internal organs that hang outside of the body. And they can be seriously hurt by being struck. You still should have found another way to deal with the issue.

    • Already tried and he didn't listen. It was a little trap with a television remote boo hoo. If testicles get damaged that easily then all men should be wrapped in bubble wrap. I've seen way worse.

Most Helpful Guy

  • The naked human body is not "gross". I am pretty much always naked when I am at home, just because I feel most comfortable that way. My wife doesn't mind (I told her very early in the relationship. If she objected... I would not have married her two years later; it is just something I never intend to change). Being free of clothes should be just normal.

    • I did not choose my brother, I did not sign a marriage contract and decide to live in the same house. My naked brother and your naked wife are not the same dude..

    • She doesn't want to see her brother's junk. Did you even read post?

    • Believe it or not you should have thumped him on his balls... lol

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  • So that’s his house too, he lives there. It’s up to your parents to do something about it and correct the situation. Now while he should respect that you don’t want to see him naked he didn’t deserve to be whacked on the balls and I can understand why your mom got mad. That’s just an asshole move and I wouldn’t be surprise nor would I sympathize if he exacts revenge. He did deserve the whack just not to that area.

    • My Mom has told him too! He just doesn't listen because he's a stubborn idiot. All he's done is brought himself a bigger towel and said it covers more when it doesn't.

    • Then she’s the one to discipline him and make up the punishments and I still maintain she’s within her rights to be angry. I grew up with brothers they were sometimes assholes and would do that, but I would never have done what you did to them. I’d consider blackmail of sorts or I would mention to a girl they may have been interested in on how he’s like at home as opposed to physically harming him.

    • That all sounds meaner to me than a light whack with a television remote?

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  • You could have tried to ask your mom to fix it, or tell it. Maybe he didn't realize what he was doing

    I guess you didn't really aimed for the balls and it worked as you said because you got him. So fair enough, but don't do it again

    • We did tell him! We both told him many times and he still did it. All he did in response to us both telling him was getting a bigger towel and said that it covers more, which it didn't when he sits like a idiot obviously considering I could still see his butt and nutsack hanging out underneath it. Well I kinda did aim for his balls. Because I could literally see them squished between his legs poking out in my direction 🤢. So it was just to tempting to get him by surprise and send a little shock through him to get the message across that I'm not playing around anymore. And I think he heard (well, felt) the message loud and clear because he didn't do it since so far.

    • That sounds a bit excessive to do that on purpose, it hurts a lot the guys I guess you mom already explained that but it shouldn't be done to your brother again

    • Probably don't need to do that again lol. He still hasn't done it since!

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  • He deserved a whack, but not on his nuts. It's extremely painful for males.

    You were either wrong, or not wrong, depending on if you knew that, or didn't.

    Next time, whack him elsewhere. Like the butt.

    • I guess.. I was aiming for his butt area but I could see his balls there too so I did kind of aim for them because I knew it would get it threw his thick head that I'm not playing anymore.

    • Balls were perfect for it. He'll remember it next time. High five 🙌🏻

    • @Brando10222 🖐️🖐️😜

  • You really shouldn’t be attacking that area! My sister use to do that to me a lot, and trust me, you don’t want your brother to hate you or be scared of you because that will happen. Your brother yelped and waddled because you struck him where he is most vulnerable. You should really think twice about WHAT you’re hitting and how much it must hurt him…

  • If what he has done is "wrong" . . . how is what you did "right?"

    • That's a good point I guess. I don't think what either of us did was "right" but I do think it became necessary because he has been told many times not to do it and he still does.

    • She doesn't have an answer, she feels entitled to hit him in his balls. She needs to see the inside of a jail cell.

    • @KrakenAttackin exactly but as a female, she could probably kill him and successfully use the "he sexually assaulted me" excuse and never do a day in lockup.

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  • I would be tempted to sprinkle itching powder in his clothes.

    • Lmao 😂😂 I wouldn't go that far. He is just rude, like I don't want to see his bits mound through his towel every night 🤢

  • Not thinking right or wrong, but his behavior is definitely rude and inappropriate.

    • Right? Thank you. Some people are ignoring his part in all of this.

  • Is the lounge in the bathroom?

    • No! Lmao

    • In that case I blame your brother for what happened.

    • Thank you! PLUS! He's been told before not to do it because it's so unhygienic that he's sitting his bare butt on the leather lounge and his ballssack is rubbing on it when all of us lay down on that lounge.. 🤢

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  • Personally, I don't think violence is appropriate ever, so in my opinion you were in the wrong regardless of what else he might've done.

    • What else am I supposed to do tho? I have told him so many times and so has my Mom but he keeps doing it. And "violence" is an overstatement... It was like a tap..

    • I dunno. If it works, then who am I to argue, but I can't imagine he's just gonna wake up and think you're right. And also, you say "tap", but it's the balls we're talking about, so I wouldn't be surprised if that still hurt. A little violence is still violence. Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like you acted more out of spite than reason. Maybe you wanted to get him back for doing what he's been doing. Maybe you just wanted him to feel your pain in a way, or maybe it's a bit of both, but then it didn't come from a place of reason. He might be wrong about consistently putting his balls where you sometimes sit, but I doubt the best solution is to hit him, in which case you're wrong for doing that. You're never gonna see eye to eye with him on everything, and if you can't get him to see reason (and unless he's a homicidal maniac), then I would say let him know in some way that you're not okay with it, accept the shitty situation (he's probably annoyed about some things about you and/or your mom too), and pray for time to pass by quicker so you can get out of the house and out on your own sooner where you can make your own rules.

    • Well I only tapped them lightly because I knew it would hurt a lot if I did it hard or punched them or something so I didn't do that even though I had the opportunity in front of me. I did do it out of spite, but I had a reason to be spiteful because he doesn't have any consideration for me or our Mom. I'm sure he wouldn't like it if I sat on the lounge in my towel and he could see my vagina and butt and I sat butt naked right where he lays on the lounge. He's only started being an @sshole since he started puberty. I have tried letting him know many times that I wasn't okay with it and so did my Mom and he ignored us so I feel like a small tap on the nuts with a plastic remote is the least I could do. And so far, it looks like it's worked because he hasn't done it since.

  • Talk to your mom about that. Tell her how you feel and that your brother has no self dignity.

    • I did! She has told him not to and all he has done differently is gotten a bigger towel and said "it covers more anyway!" Which is doesn't really, especially when he's sitting down.

    • Ok tell her it’s not working - do something else about it. Ground him or whatever.

  • You did right thing. Watch out for revenge tho. But he is kinda weird for doing that. I wouldn't do that if it was just me and girlfriend in house. Bedroom another story. Not on couch.

    • Right? I don't know who he thinks he is. He walks around with his towel just covering him and he does it for like an hour after showering and just sits on the lounge. I can literally see the outline of his butt and balls on the leather after its disgusting.

    • He might be doing it to annoy you. Just like brothers do. But that is a little far.

    • He honestly just doesn't give a sh*t about anyone besides himself.

  • This is definitely not the Brady Bunch.

    • Some things I have read about the off screen antics of some of the characters would suggest it is the Brady Bunch.

  • He's inconsiderate, but you're a horse's derriere.

  • You’re in the wrong completely. There is no reason you should ever hit a guy down there. I’ve had to deal with girls like you, it sucks. What’s so funny about hitting us in the balls?

    • It wasn't to be funny, it was to get a point across. It was like a tap, it wasn't even hard. He's punched me in the arm 100x harder than that.

    • Last weekend I almost fell over in pain because a woman’s purse tapped my balls in crowd. Even a little hit hurts

    • Wtf that's ridiculous

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  • You did the right thing. I would say im proud of you. He got what he deserves.

    • See it was perfect what you did

    • Lmao thank you!

  • You are wrong for physically assaulting him. What you did was actually domestic violence.

    • Domestic violence? Lmao guys are such wimps these days. If he tapped me with the remote as lightly as I tapped him with it I don't think I would even react I would probably just ask what he's trying to do.

    • Are women this stupid these days? YES, you literally did commit a felony. And yes, brothers and sisters have been arrested for domestic violence. Stop being an entitled, violent, cunt, and grow up.

    • Lmao! Your such a little p*ssy 😂 if that's domestic violence then he's commited attempted murder against me! Lmao

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  • First of all, you don't own that lounge and he lives in that house too. Secondly, you have no idea how much it hurts getting hit down there. How about you use your words? I don't care how many times you tried. We all know it's your parents not raising him properly from the start of his life.

    • He might live in the house too but that's the keyword, too! He is not the only one that lives here and should not be sitting around with his ass and nutsack hanging out on the shared lounge, especially when he's the only boy in a house with two girls. My Mom tried to raise us right but it's hard because she is single and works a lot and my brother has always been stubborn, he is just worse since he began puberty.

    • Then you should have gotten there first or you move on. Your mom still needs to try harder and it is also no one's fault why she and your dad brought you two into this world in the first place. And the fact that you hitting his nuts doesn't make you any better

  • absolutely he is wrong... and u shouldn't see his penis&balls..
    but am still unable to understand wht did u do with the tv remote?

    • I went to the sink and took the plastic cover off that made contact with his nutsack and washed it 😂😂😂😂

    • hahaha so it pushed off 😂

    • Sorry? 😂

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  • First of all how old is he? You have told him multiple times not to do it.

  • How old is this kid?

  • you are in the wrong. DON'T hit people!

    • You'll have to tell him that lol. He hits me more then I hit him.

  • You got a weird family.

    • He is literally the only one that does weird and gross crap like that and I always have to just deal with it.

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