Sexual Relationships 
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It won't be news to tell you that back in the day, men used to be the biggest cheaters but nowadays, the tides have turned and women are the least loyal ones. What I'd like to talk about is: who do they cheat with?
Men:
For men it's really simple. They have sex with whoever they can. That's a little too bold of course, but what I mean is: it's not easy for a man to have sex without a commitment. Of course it is for a small percentage (the all to famous, and also hated, alpha male) it is. But most men don't just get sex thrown at them. So in most cases, they cheat because they feel so lucky that a woman is offering him sex without commitment, since he has a girlfriend or wife. So who he cheats with is pretty unspecific. If he does have a choice, the answer is even more simple: the hottest one.
Women:
Women are more complex about choosing who they cheat with. First of all, it's a lot easier for a woman to simply have sex, especially when she's good looking. One thing seems to be the biggest attraction to us though when it comes to sex: dominance. The man she would bang behind her partners back is one that she sees as more dominant than her husband. In other words, superior. The guys most women cheat with are the following:
-The husband's/boyfriend's boss. It's a stereotype but it does seem to hold a lot of truth. There are an awful lot of stories of bosses letting their employee work overtime so they can go over to the man's house and take over their role to fulfill the wife's needs. I myself have seen this situation with my parents and my dad's boss when I was young, and it wasn't just one time. Women seem to get aroused by a man who orders around their own husband, even if they love their husband and the boss is being a dick to him. When it comes to sex, dominance seems to be more important than love for many women.
-The high school bully. Believe it or not, most girls in high school loose their virginity to the type of guy that bullies others. A lot of girls have a boyfriend but are not sexually active. They often loose their virginity to someone else though, and the boyfriend won't be pleased to find out who. Mostly the relationship ends at that point anyway. Bullies tend to show more confidence and masculinity than the average, sexually unexperienced high school boy.
-The rival. This is a painful one. Many guys have a friend, who they also kind of hate. He has a lot in common but seems to be slightly better at everything. To a girl, this is kind of an upgrade to her boyfriend. He seems to be in competition with him but always comes out on top.
So these are the most common guys a girl cheats with and they al show a certain dominance to her own partner.
What Girls & Guys Said
13 28Makes an entertaining read. You describe a teen's behaviour, though.
Shit like that will get you killed!!
A civilian
Cheat on me... I dare you
"I double dare you, motherfucker!!! Cheat on my just ONE time!!!"
@GreatnessRevamped... and you will know, my name is the Lord when I lay vengeance upon thee!
@sp33d lol..
I'll make this real simple women cheat cause they like sin
also you are a man not a women
with whom a partner cheats is not right or wrong. shit happens...
Girls are vastly, exponentially, hornier than men. A woman will do just about anything, sexually speaking, so long as she is fairly certain she won’t get caught. For example, we will occasionally go out of town in order to rendezvous with a man we’ve been longing to fuck, and/or to have multiple sex partners in the same evening, and/or at the same time.
This is something that hot women do, most especially. In our minds, it is a natural desire, and a natural thing, and so long as nobody else finds out, it’s “game on”. Women are receptacles for cock, that’s how we have been biologically designed. Nothing feels better to us than being completely filled up with multiple penises, than being the center of sexual attention, than being the object of unbridled group lust. Since it’s something we can’t risk doing on our home turf (don’t shit where you eat), we have to think outside the box, in order to get our boxes completely satisfied. And you might find this shocking, but many women – many, many women – have sex with dogs on a routine basis. This is just one example of how insatiable we truly are.
I can see why you might not believe it, to which I say, look really hard at all of the women you know who have dogs. Look at women who have dogs whenever you see them out on the street, in the act of walking those dogs. Or at the park. You will notice that most of them have male dogs – the vast majority, in fact. This isn’t a coincidence. And look at all the female teachers who are exposed in the media for having sex with underage students. We have no self-control when it comes to sex – or anything else, for that matter. To our way of thinking, losing control is what makes sex great. Doing anything that is taboo is what makes sex great.
If a woman ever tells a guy, “If we don’t have trust, we don’t have anything,” she is either cheating on him or planning to cheat on him. trustt here are no exceptions to this rule. We use that as cover, to try and make the man feel guilty for questioning our fidelity. What we are really saying here, is, “I will fuck whomever I want and you’d better keep your nose out of it or I’ll cut you off from my pussy and I’ll ruin your freaking life if you keep pressing the issue.” If we really cared about you, and if we really weren’t cheating on you or planning to cheat on you, we would tell you something like, “I am not cheating on you, I love you, and I would never do that. I don’t care if we have to stay up all night, for the next week, and go over every single shred of doubt that’s currently troubling you about this. I have nothing to hide, I would never cheat on you, and I don’t want you thinking these things about me.
... Please tell me exactly why you think I am cheating, point by point, and I will do anything and everything that I have to do to prove to you that I’m not cheating, in order to ease your worried mind.”
We lie to our so-called female friends and pretend we are loyal and faithful to them, just like we do with the men in our lives. Secretly, we are jealous of each other, and we want all of the desirable things that other women have—most especially when it comes to our female friends’ things. And we consider men to be things. If one of our friends has a hot man, we want him to want us. We will do everything we can to seduce him. Not because we really want him—we don’t really want anybody. We do it because we are rarely happy, and we don’t want our girlfriends to be happy, either, and we want to boost our own egos more than anything else. And after we get him to fuck us, when our girlfriends find out that he has had sex with us, that’s when we finally get what we wanted in the first place. If we break up the previously happy couple, that’s fine, too. It’s all about our pussy, not hers. It’s about winning.
All women dislike themselves and because we dislike ourselves, we fervently hate any man who doesn’t see through our bullshit. The more a man loves us, the more we hate him. The more he overlooks our sins, and the more he fails to see how corrupt we are, and the more he gives us the benefit of every single doubt – the more we despise him. We will escalate our bad behavior until we finally break him and he wakes up and realizes how worthless we are and what a fool he has been for believing in us.
All women want what they can't have. We want a man whom we can’t have. We want a man who honestly doesn’t give a fuck about us, who doesn’t care if we come or go. That’s the kind of man we will pursue. Call them bad boys or call them whatever you want, that’s the kind of man we want – period. The kind of guy who will make us orgasm, crudely, and give us a huge sexual thrill in the bedroom, and then discard us like used toilet paper, and fuck our female friends afterwards, just because he can. (Just like we would do with his male friends.)
We girls lie about our number of partnrrs. We also lie about not wanting men with large penises. If we told the actual truth about the number of different men and women we’ve slept with, and if we told the actual truth about our fervent desire for big dicks, our pool of potential suitors would shrink drastically, to the point where it would completely dry up. So we lie. Most often, we will claim that we’ve had between three and eight sexual partners in our lifetime. And, to our way of thinking, it isn’t a lie, because if we had five sexual partners last Saturday evening, and our man asks us how many sexual partners we have had, and we answer, “Five”, well, technically, we aren’t lying.
All women are narcissistic masochists. We hate it when things are going well, especially if they continue to go well for long periods of time. We know down deep that we are fucked-up and not worthy of anything that is truly good. So when things are going well in a relationship, we eventually sabotage it. We just can’t help ourselves in this regard. We could have the greatest, most handsome, most well-hung husband in the world—a one-of-a-kind man who makes all of our girlfriends jealous; we could have the greatest children in the world, who are beautiful, well-behaved and ambitious; we could have the most enviable career imaginable; we could have all of the money and prestige and the truly good things in life, and we could repeatedly tell ourselves over and over, and believe, on the surface, that we would never cheat on our husbands. But down deep we know that it’s a lie. Because one day, we could walk into a grocery store, and some bad boy could whisper just the right combination o
of words in our ear, and the next thing you know, we’re at the Motel 6 getting it in the ass. That’s just how we are, and any woman—especially a hot woman—who says otherwise, is a liar.
Our faces are fake (makeup), our hair is fake (dyed), our boobs are fake (some of us), everything about us is fake. Most especially when it comes to what is inside of us. We lie constantly, because we are far worse, character-wise, than even our closest friends or lovers will ever know, and we desperately fight to keep all of that hidden. We are looking for our true daddies, basically – the idealized daddies that we never had – somebody who can see through all of our false fronts and call us out on our bullshit and put us in our place. The problem is, those type of men are very few and far between.
We are constantly poking, prodding and testing a man, in order to find out what his boundaries are. If he has no boundaries, we will destroy him, especially if he loves us. A man has to have boundaries, and he has to outline them precisely, and he has to force us to adhere to them with the power of his conviction and the power of his action. If he doesn’t do that, we will beat him over the head with his weaknesses (his lack of boundaries) until he breaks.
As nasty as all that shit is, i pity you coz you never had a father. Still, id never date a chick with a dog , but just because i hate dogs
That's pretty dark... I think you should come outside more
Oh im out all the time. I just dislike dogs is all, since i was a kid. Even have one at home. But dont like him, always tried to jump on top of me. Now i just avoid him. And i dialike moat other dogs. Or by dark, did you mean my reply to her? Well, maybe but true, she said it herself.
@slimstiffy I meant her whole speech, who I actually think is a he who needs to get in the sun a little more
Ohh okay. That makes sense. Yeah i didn't think of that. there's a good chance thats a he. Lol.. My reply was irrelevant then :-D
@slimstiffy must be a man if you dont like my opinion.
You can be whatever. I dont really care anymore.
@slimstiffy well im all woman and all I said is true
Nope. In your case you are a bitch. Hehe, dont blame me , you were asking for that one. And im not gonna reply anymore. I lost interest for this thread.
@slimstiffy trust me most girls won't be this honest.
For men, why did they leave out female co-worker friends that the man sees every day? In past relationships the female co-worker friends are always the ones who he ended up cheating on me with. As far as married women cheating, I see a lot of them trying to relive the past and cheating with old high school sweethearts and such.
The fact is though most women deny it they want Alpha males. It was true for me in my first high school but when I moved schools I was able turn it around by bullying the weaker kids. I was dating this nice girl next door chick during school and she had this loser that she friend zoned tgat used to follow her around. So one night I beat the crap out of him at a party and she went crazy calling meva bastard and shouting and screaming at me. So I got in my car while she waa helping the dweeb up and shouted at her "bitch get your fat ass in the car". So she saud sorry to her friend and got in the car and we screwed all night.
Im married now, my wife thinks of our marriage as an equal partnership but when all said and done I call the shots, if I dont want her to do something or go somewhere she knows instinctively to obey. Women crave dominace and their natural state is to be submissive and subservient to their husband, when a woman is not she is unhappy. Thats why so many feminists are on anti depressants.
Recognize both situations. My dad was submissive to my mom and deffinately his boss, so she let the boss take dad's place where she needed dominance (in bed). And as to you screwing the girl, that happens daily at schools.
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Well your Dad was a weak man if he stayed with her and didn't beat the shit out of his Boss.
nope, hey stayed with mom and is still working for that boss who doesn't give a shit about the whole situation since he got what he wanted.
then he deserves what he gets,
So you beat him up just for that. Sorry if you think you are anywhere close to being alpha. You are the lowest piece of beta shit there is! Alpha men are top tier men who dont beat up other men for womens attention. Alpha men already have their attention due to their natural charisma. They dont do shit for women. They filter out the pussy they want and it isn't even a priority to them. Alpha men dont need to break down another man to feel powerful , they build up other men to try and reach their level of success in life. Thats why true alpha men are very very rare. And a bunch of wannabes like you are around every corner. You may get some insecure pussy but thats all you will ever have. I bet you have never met a real alpha. I have met a few in my lifetime and i respect these men. You are just pathetic.
@slimstiffy wtf are you snorting. By you comments its obvious that you are lower than a bitch. You respect cuckolded men like the @asker 's dad likely because you let an alpha screw your girl at the weekend.
Yep, confirmes that your just on of them wannabes. I dont respect cucks, and my girls definitely dont get screwes by wannabe tough guys. They have a real man to take care of them. Be careful not to let your wife around one.
@slimstiffy too late I am one and she's ten years younger.
Real men, dont need to tell me they are real men. And so what if she's 10 years younger? I hope you dont still go around beating up weaker guys to impress her
@slimstiffy only the ones sniffing around her. Women like a strong man who can take care of her thats why you at the moment get only std infected college sluts.
Yea they also like a strong man who is not insecure enough to have to be all over every guy she talks to. And i find it amusing how you make assumptions about me. I tend to get classy chicks but why am i even explaining that to you.. You ar least 10 years older than me. Grow up, man! And by the way, take it easy on the little guys and dont get yourself locked up. because when that happens, these sniffers will have plenty of time sniffing your girl. Add to the bunch a whole lot of wannabe tough guys like you too. And since she seems to go for that, i'd be a bit concerned if i were you.
@slimstiffy Dude I give tge ladies what they want it's called gane. Get some.
Gane, huh? Im sorry , did you mean gains? Yeah ill try bro.. We can go to the gym and make all kinds of gains. And since you are an expert you could teach me. So i haven't been making gains, ohh niw i get it. THATS why i have only been getting them std infected college sluts! I get it mahn... ( oh and by the way, if you haven't noticed, i was being sarcastic). But lets wrap it up here. This whole post was kinda sad. This thread was even more depressing. To know that grown ass men like you are still out there acting like hs kids. Im done here.
@slimstiffy Sorry game not that I need game anymore. Acting like a kid I've got three of my own.
I've made it in life and am enjoying my success I hope you are at least half as successful in life as I am. Always remember to pursue what you want out of life not what society tells you what you should want ie when it comes to a partner. Be selective when choosing a partner, loyalty is key.
you are no man in my opinion, you are a low life psychopath that does not deserve to be called a man. Just like most psychopaths, you bully others because you have a low self esteem and you are unable to connect with other people. Karma will get you one day, maybe that dweeb will become your boss one day and he will put your ass out on the street.
or maybe the dweeb got in shape and won't hesitate to kick your ass next time he sees you
@Eric644 the dweeb is still a dweeb, funny story im actually his boss now, he eventually married my ex but only years after when she had a few kids and got obese so its kinda like a romantic comedy for my ex only with lots of cake. @Eric644 I dont know why your sphincter is all tore up about this chill dude, point is a man takes what he wants no one give it to him. Its dog eat dog out there so you gotta alpha up.
That is actually one of the statements psychologists use to diagnose a person with psychopathy "i have no problem with achieving success at the expense of others". You might need to see a psychologist, I think you may have some form of Anti Social Personality Disorder (Psychopathy, Sociopathy, etc). Being a man and being a leader does not mean being a psychopath that lacks empathy
@Eric644 www.relatably.com/.../...use-a-chainsaw-694b5d.jpg
A bit of a leap but im successful.
that was actually a pretty clever response i'm not gonna lie. Nothing wrong with being successful as long as it isn't at the expense of other people. Good leaders rise to power because they are ethical, confident, well liked by others, hard working, work well with other people, and have empathy for others. The man with the psychopathic mindset is most likely to become a tyrant that is not well liked by others. At your age it is pretty hard to change your personality but i would try to be a better person if i were you
@Eric644 www.tag-pictures.com/.../funny-middle-class.jpg
This is how I see the world. I came from the gutter and worked my way up to middle class and hope to move up to the next pirch. I'm a pretty good person im just know that bring at the bottom gets you shit on.
that is true, but don't sacrifice your ethics too. Some of the most successful people that are admired have done it the right way. You don't want to be a hated leader, you want people to respect you, not fear you
Not surprisingly romantic psychology doesn't confirm any of this at all. It's just pure heresay.
I cheated when my boyfriend was not giving me the care and attention I wanted. I spoke to him about it and he really did not seem to care. Needless to say it did not feel right, and that really broke the relationship. He forgave me, and has changed since
A slut is a slut...
I know women in my life who are so good that they would never cheat... They have really Goof morals...
You mom was a whore that's why she cheated on your father...
Is she had even a little heart then she wouldn't have done that
*good
I don't like this MyTake but it's true so I say it's a good one. What things do you think contribute to how dominant a man is in this sense?
Let me rephrase the question.. do you prefer a man controls others through respect or fear?
But isn't it also true that "some" women also get bored hearing that theyre beautiful or whatever everyday so it loses its meaning, hence they can also get bored with that too & still cheat?
There's truth to that. The don't want a man worshipping them, they want to worship a man above them. A dominant one.
Dominant how?
think of it this way: husband < wife < the boss/bully/rival. The dominant one is the one who gets what he wants first, who stand higher in the social/sexual hierarchy, he controls the woman AND the weaker man.
I have to agree with you on what you've said about "the rival", know this by experience. I dated a girl who was about a decade or so younger then me several years back. She was 22 I was 31 and we met through a party and started dating. She became a model in a alternative goth scene which I frequent who I also saw as a rival despite him being my best friend.
She and I were together for a while but we couldn't see or have sex with each other as often as we liked (three times a week) but she never complained and always claimed how much she loved me.
I began to bring my friend reluctantly out together at nights and met her friends within the circle she knew in the modeling group there. She definitely had many admirers there but always stuck with me. I saw her and my friend hit it off good and the three of us had fun doing things together despite the closeness they seemed to develop. Thought it was just natural friendliness but I did feel, and have always felt insecure about having females I know and like around him because he's always so outgoing (younger too 26).
All the attention she had in the scene, then seeing their friendliness made me more insecure. Eventually she grew kind of distant and began to dress more provocatively there. After one time, called me up to confess that she had been cheating on me for a month! Which was about the time my friend knew her. Broke up with me over the phone. I never asked who and she wouldn't say, I wasn't angry but more hurt, Tried to talk things over but she didn't want to. "one thing led to another with a guy I met and.. we hit it off)
Instinctively I knew it was him as they spent more time together. I didn't want to end things with my friend as we're so close but it stung. SO yea. "rivals" are a major possibility.
Doesn't seem to hold true from my experience, not that these things don't happen. Especially the bully part, you're probably talking about specific type of girls, hence I would be curious to know what type of girls you are talking about.
Also what would your definition of Dominance and Masculinity be. Are you only talking about Dominance during sex or a relationship as a whole.
Both in bed and in the relationship, although it usually stays with only sex with these guys.
But what exactly would your definition of Dominance be? How about Masculinity? Dominance can also easily be controlling.
Hey was talking to my buddies about your take, you know what you said. Do you mean these girls cheat simply on impulse, because their boss is being dominant to their husbands/BFs and it turns them on, or that their husbands/BFs are not dominant with thhier partners. If their husbands were dominant with them, would they still want to cheat with their boss for example, who is dominant to their husband hence superior. Husband's will he still be more attarctive even if husband is dominant in both relationship and sex.
you are the classic cosmo bimbo type but i give you that: good job at exposing the nature of women once again. these articles are treasure for the mgtow library... .
as for the highschool boys: kids reading this article, you dont have to be affected by this bimbo's words. keep being who you are and dont change into something worse for noone's perverted fetishes... .
Interesting point of view but I slightly disagree. If the husband or boyfriend takes good care of his girl than there is no need to look for other opportunities
Yea the dominance thing is not a big deal