Whose orgasm lasts longer: Men or Women?

I know it varies depending on the person but in general is there one that usually lasts longer than the other?
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And this is disregarding multiple orgasms... I am talking about just one orgasm.
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So guys, when you orgasm you don't twitch, or have your eyes roll back, or groan/moan, or anything?
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  • Orgasm for orgasm, I think it's probably women. It certainly seems that way anyway.

    Have just done some (mid answer) research and found that the average male orgasm is 3 - 5 seconds long and for women it is 5 - 8 seconds.

    In addition, boring but true, orgasmic contractions in both sexes occur at intervals of 0.8 seconds.

    Hope that helps

    • Would like to point out that the research was internet based, I didn't take a stopwatch to bed.

    • hahaha when I first read that, I thought you did your own research, in which case I would have given you best answer for all of your hands on experimenting ;) lol

    • Damn my honesty

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  • Women. At best, mine are like 5 seconds. I gave my ex one through oral, and her legs were still twitching over 20 seconds later.

    Yeah, I know one guy and one girl doesn't constitute a significant poll, but women tend to have stronger orgasms in general, so I figure they probably have longer ones too.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think it's kind of a toss up because. Men's orgasms are shorter BUT they are far easier to achieve. Whereas a lot of women never have an orgasm in their lifetime : ( It's more difficult for a woman to reach orgasm so it seems fair.

  • Women get better orgasms but men come quicker and easier. I fintd it hard to orgasm longer than a few seconds.

  • My as I have been told last around 15 to 20 secks, guys usually 5-10. Hope you got the answer :).

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  • For your update...I've never had the eyes roll back...there may be a grunt or two depending on intensity. Twitches are rare. (In my experience at least.)

    • what? I never knew that... why the heck do guys want sex so bad then? my eyes roll back every time and I can stay quiet if I need to but it's so easy to let out sounds, orgasms COMPLETELY take over. I will say though, that they are so powerful that I almost can't even remember what it felt like... almost like I was in a temporary coma that felt amazing lol

    • Nobody wants to admit it, but guys' orgasms are seriously disappointing. You get to climax, feel a bit of stuff shoot out, and you're done. There's hardly anything to it. And yes, I wonder it myself. It's probably evolutionary in that men aren't the ones stuck with the children if the woman is impregnated. If who desired sex most was determined by those who got the most pleasure out of it, women would certainly lose their favorite method of control in relationships.

    • Yeah no wonder women feel more for their partners after sex. Men must seriously be disappointed with whoever they were in bed with... why would they even want to go back for more? lol

  • Women for sure. They can last up to 2 minutes. Men have about 5 seconds if they're lucky.

    • mine blow. I get like 2 seconds if I'm lucky lol. (pun intended) I was hoping I'm not alone lol.

    • Really... I feel like my orgasms last like 8 seconds or something!

    • ahh f***.

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  • Re: Update 2

    Of course we do, or at least I do. I may even say Geronimo. Also have this thing where I can't move my legs for a little bit although after a brief discussion with some mates, this is apparently just me.

  • My wife's orgasms always last pretty long so I'd say women's orgasms last longer.

    • about how long do your wife's last?

    • She says between 2 - 3 minutes. The longer ones happen with oral sex (what a ride for me).

    • what!? I can't imagine being in an orgasm that long, I'd probably die or something ha ha I mean how can someone climax for that long? So let's say you and her are having sex... and you both climax, can you feel her vagina contracting and see that she is orgasming based on facial expressions and everything for 2 minutes? that blows my mind.

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  • Women. Statistics (or so I've read) say a woman's orgasm is something like 5x the intensity of any male orgasm. Not sure about time tho

    • If women's orgasms are 5x the intensity then why do men want sex so bad? And why are women not as interested?

    • It's harder for them to orgasm.

  • women. when your body can twitch and your eyes roll back I think its pretty damn powerful. as for time, I'm not sure.

    • Lol! so your body doesn't twitch and your eyes don't roll back?

    • i wish mine were that good! sh*t, if I had orgasms as powerful as women I would be all over sex. I don't get why women don't love sex more than men. the only conclusion I've ever been able to draw from that is that women need less sex because their orgasms are way better and last longer, where as men need sex at least once every few days to feel satisfied to the point of where women are.

    • lol honestly I love orgasms... and have been masturbating often since I was in 6th grade. It feels so amazing and of course some are wayyyy better than others. I also think about sex all the time, maybe women are just taught to act like they don't like it. Then again, I read in some book that the probability of a woman having an orgasm is based upon how close her clitoris is to her hole... if it's less than an inch away, she will orgasm more easily.

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  • Women.

    • Nope.

  • I think women's orgasms last longer. Sometimes when I orgasm I can't remember it after a second.

  • women I think. They get better ones I'm convinced

    • haha why are you convinced?

    • they way they can uncontrollably shake and breathe. It looks so damn amazing and mind blowing. I want to experience a girl orgasm but that can never happen

    • some of mine are good and some are meh. The best ones my thighs have tingled. And feet and toes have curled and tingled and legs shaken. But that doesn't happen very often :(

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