Why a guy is reluctant to have sex even if the girl herself is asking him to get into her pants?

Is he some kindaa "MORON"of some case of impotency?
I am KINDAA sure he is not impotent loll
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  • there could be a lot of reasons
    the ones that comes to my mind are these :
    Maybe he's asexual
    Maybe he's too tired
    Maybe he masterbated earlier
    Maybe he doesn't find you attractive
    and so on. . .
    you need to explain more of his actions, otherwise judging him behind his back is not the right thing to do!

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  • Maybe the person isn’t ready yet, that is completely normal behaviour. I learned that being ready is part of a positive relationship advice & real & true sex positivity. Need to respect each other’s likes & dislikes, don’t cross boundaries & limitations, which varies from person to person, I reckon.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lack of attraction can be a huge one.

    I have a friend, a guy friend, who actually this weekend turned down sex with a woman because he didn't feel any chemistry, and she had been good to go if he had agreed.

    A man is not necessarily someone who'll just jump on anyone at any time if they can have sex.

    • Yeah , it's good to know someone understands lol. More women are so selfish in matters of sex. If he approaches his sex addict If he doesn't maybe impotent or gay. And the ladies complaining that men have only one thing on mind when rejected they become gays or not manly. These mind games are tiresome

    • @Aakash_Hangargi Having friends of both genders is super important in my book. Especially when you're able to talk with them about these things, it gives good insight into different thought processes instead of just what you hear from the news and social media.

  • Maybe he's not ready for babies yet?

    Why a guy is reluctant to have sex even if the girl herself is asking him to get into her pants?

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  • He may be afraid of child support, or having kids as no BC is a 100% and there is always a very small risk.

  • Well either you are not very sexy, or he is not attracted to you, or he might be gay or something.

  • or, he just doesn't want sex right then?

    • He wants sex..

    • Or he obviously doesn't if he's saying no.

  • Well he may be reluctant if he has a girlfriend or is married. However most guys are so horny they would go for it. Has this happened to you?

  • Contrary to popular belief we don't just fuck any skank that's throwing themselves at us. In fact it's actually a real turn off when a woman throws herself at us so blatantly, it's just so cheap.

    • I actually love that and wish it would happene to me

    • @DownIndaDumpz I have more than enough luck without women throwing themselves at me, I don't need some desperate hoe thirsting.

    • Lucky lol

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  • Why is not important. What is she doing to do about it? If she wants a sexual relationship she's going to have to find a different partner.

  • he's clueless

  • Having sex requires willingness by both partners. Maybe the guy isn't attracted to her or doesn't like the girl to be the one to initiate sex or maybe he's saving himself to have sex with a girl he has an emotional attachment to.

  • He deserves the same amount of patience you would expect from him. Come on girl

  • Perhaps performance or equipment anxiety.

  • Maybe you're not as attractive as you think you are or simply he think this is some kind of joke or ways to trick ways or he's in love / have a crush on someone else and thus don't wanna have sex with you.

  • Maybe he doesn’t want to have sex with you.

  • Maybe he is not in the mood.

  • Maybe you're not doing it the right way.
    I think you're supposed to just walk up to him, get firm grip on his balls and say, "Are you gonna fuck me or do I have to rip these off?".

  • Maybe you are a random stranger girl and not his girlfriend, and he thinks it's some prank

  • Maybe he finds you annoying

  • Don't get nasty because he doesn't like you.

  • Not everybody want sex. Some people just want to have a nice dinner/movie, etc or just want to enjoy each other’s company.

  • He probably not getting the hint or just don't feel like he taking advantage. Also some guys might not feel ready which is very few. Sadly another reason is maybe he not that really attracted or interested in you and might have some side piece.

  • Maybe he’s scared.

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