Why am I 19 and still have a sized breasts?

I have really small boobs and I feel really insecure about it. I’m 19 and am still an a cup. Is there anyway I can get bigger boobs naturally without the need of implants. I’d honestly rather die than have the smallest breast size. I’ve had suicidal thoughts over this before.
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  • Ok stop
    Let's play pretend for a minute let's pretend you and I know each other and I really like you and I want to date you the reason why it's because I look into your eyes I can see how beautiful you are on the inside I can see that you have a very beautiful heart and that you care about things you're smart you're intelligent you're confident I'd love being around you you make me just glow you make me happy that I know you there's an energy connection that we have that is just so beautiful and deep and I love that you are you

    Okay now let's play pretend again I like you I want to date you because I absolutely love your boobs your boobs turn me on the things I want to do with you because of your boobs is crazy I want to make love to you I want to feel your boobs I like you so much because your boobs are so big you turn me on I want to have sex with you everyday because I love your boobs I want to feel them on my chest

    Okay so which guy do you want to be with a guy that likes you just for your boobs it's going to get all you're going to break up you're going to be used love yourself your boobs are perfect your boobs are natural that's the best part of that boobs they are natural

    Okay so the first guy he loves you because of who you are truly are and you're going to become and the outside of your body is all just an extra bonus it doesn't matter what size you boobs you have is part of you you have great sensation if he's going to make you feel good no matter what which guy would you rather be with

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  • Everyone can understand why you may feel insecure about your bust size. That's normal. But a woman's bust size isn't what defines her as a woman. It will play a part yes, but despite what the world saturates everyone with, not everyone is into large breasts. It's actually been quite surprising to many just how many people like small and medium breasts too.

    As for natural ways, I'm not super sure, I'd ask your GP or a doctor you're comfortable with about the idea. Some women's breasts do grow a little larger on birth control, but again, check with your doctor.

    Also, if it's worth anything, here is how a very large amount of people feel about breasts. Imagine you have a dollar bill. And imagine you have four quarters. They look different but they both have the same value. All breasts are created equal!

    • It’s hard to accept that I have small breasts that might not ever change.

    • I don't doubt it, especially with something that is difficult to conceal. It can be difficult to accept something that you don't want to and the fact that it is permanent (maybe). But for the sake of your mental and emotional well-being, as trite as the saying is, if you accept the things you have no control over, it does make life much more manageable. "Is there something that you can do right now or will have the opportunity real soon?" If yes, hopefully it won't be a worry for long. If the answer is no, then not accepting it is going to make life harder. And nobody needs that. If you want any advice though, I would strongly encourage you to make peace with the idea that it is a fact that it may be permanent. It's not worth the stress or anger; you have no control over it. There are things out there that may help, I know some of my friends wear a pushup bra when they want some extra confidence. If it hurts your self confidence, then maybe confide in a friend that might know what you're feeling. They may have useful advice for you. If you're worried people will judge you for your bust size; that only proves that one, they're idiots and need to brush up on biology, and two, that if they're that shallow, they're someone whose approval you wouldn't want to have anyways. If you're worried about it from a romantic aspect, I wouldn't worry too much. I don't know your sexuality but umpteen millions of men and women love small and medium breasts too. Your partner is not going to care, they want you, not just your chest. I hope there was something in there that you found useful or helpful or comforting. I'm not sugar coating anything either. That would make any advice pretty much worthless. However you choose to go about this, I wish you the best of luck.

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  • I was an A cup until I was a freshman in college and I finally got into a B cup. at 21 I got pregnant and Went from a 32b to a 32c, I just had my second daughter and am still nursing and this time I gained a little weight between pregnancy's and I went from a 34b to a 34c. I look good in a c cup bra but my body fits a b cup better and the smaller bra size the more nice selections you have. There is nothing wrong with being an itty bitty tittie girl. and even when you get pregnant you will probably become a b cup or c cup while your breast grow to be able to hold the milk that your body will need to store for the baby.

    • I want there to be another way besides pregnancy. It’s so hard to accept the fact that I have small boobs and am the smallest size. But thanks I appreciate the compliment.

  • It's possible they might grow but in many cases they won't at that age. They might get bigger after pregnancy but that shouldn't be a factor in deciding about children.

    If it's bothering you to the extent that you feel suicidal about it, you should try to talk to a mental health professional about it. Feeling insecure or unhappy about one's body is normal. Feeling unhappy about it to that degree is unhealthy and alarming.

    • I am sure lots of guys and girls love smaller breasts! :)

    • @mVCyberduVm That's true. I find them very appealing myself. Unfortunately if someone is unhappy with one's body to an extreme degree it doesn't necessarily help knowing this

    • You are right :( I understand insecurity though been fighting it myself too but for other reasons.

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  • You might inquire about breast growth hormones.

    I mean guys who want to look like girls are using them so why shouldn't you? ... just saying

    Why am I 19 and still have a sized breasts?
    • Guys that cross dress or that "want to look like girls", are likely trans and are finally realizing it. They're probably just nervous about making the switch, as it comes with stigmas, and of course republicans trying to make it "illegal"

  • Holy cow! There are ore guys who prefer smaller boobs than there are who prefer bigger boobs. Really!

    Guys: small, medium, large, or don't care? ↗

    16% of guys prefer 36D or larger
    31% prefer 32A to 34B
    26% have no preference

    There are plenty of guys who would think that your smaller boobs are absolutely perfect.

  • Really don’t stress about small boobs.

    a lot is social media etc spreading crap things about what guys apparently like.

    be happy and confident with what you have.

    They may potentially grow a little.

    Look at your mum, sisters, aunts to see how they are.

  • I prefer something between A and B. Anything larger than a C is too large, wasted space.

  • Be glad you don’t have the weight to carry around. It won’t effect most men. And those it does are chasing other girls anyway.

  • A cups are nice. No need to be suicidal over this there are lots of guys that like smaller sized boobs

    • I hope so thanks

  • You asked if there's anything you can do naturally to enhance your breast size. There is. Exercise. Particularly your "pectoralis major" muscles. Search exercises for women. They will support your breasts and make them appear larger. If you exercise more generally, being fit improves overall appearance for all of us.

    If you decide to get implants, remember that they are fake boobs. Most guys prefer women with small breasts. They're just better. More fun to play with. More pleasure for you.

  • I wrote a personal story that I'm sure would soothe you and make you feel great, but I feel bad posting publicly so please follow me and I'll send it in a message to you.

    • Ok I started following you

  • They could grow a little more. Mine grew a bit from 18-21. But still small and that's okay. Nothing wrong with small boobs. It's just genetics. The only way to make them appear bigger is to gain weight.

  • Don't worry about them, lots of guys, me included like small breasts.

  • Breast size is mostly inherited. At 19 your breast won't get any bigger except during pregnancy and breastfeeding. No need to be suicidal, save up and get a boob job instead.

  • Please get over this. There are plenty of young men who would be very happy with you.

  • Eat more phytoestrogen laden foods.

    Jeez, did you not pay attention in biology class?

  • I don’t see a problem with small boobs, but an advantage. You’ll stay perky longer and not have to deal with back pain later in life. Subjectively I like smaller boobs, and so do most guys on here. As I’m assuming getting a real boyfriend/husband or whatever else you are into is the goal vs. societal approval, you really have nothing to worry about. It is sooooooo unfortunate that the nonstop drumbeat of bodily perfection advertising and popular entertainment keeps persisting, but you have to see it for what it is: attempts by advertisers to make money, whether it is directly a commercial or not. This in no way impacts real people’s tastes; people who do care are not being real honest with you or themselves about their own issues, thus are not in consideration. Are your female relatives also small in front? At least your mother? She successfully reproduced, which has to count for something.

  • Honestly, nobody gives a damn about your breast size. I'm pretty sure I've literally never been attracted to a woman because of her breast size, but rather her face, so maybe that helps you.

  • I prefer small ones. Keep them the way they are. Don't get implants. Recently implants have been linked to developing cancer in some people.

  • Small boobs are my favorite, I find them super attractive and elegant, very cute and pretty, I’m sorry you’re insecure about them but I don’t believe there is any reason you should be

    • I just want to be blessed with great genes I feel like I’m cursed.

    • You have great ones miss beautiful 💞

    • Thank you. I just hope one day my breasts grow a little bit.

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  • It is possible that puberty is not finished with you yet. If you are slender, normal weight gain in your 20's may give you a bit more. But I will tell you this.
    Whether you have plumbs or grapefruits. I would love you and them just the same. My experience and opinion is that, at the moment of intimacy, cup size does not matter as much as you think and out in the real world, you can buy a padded bra that will make your clothes fit right.
    And Good G0d Almighty! Contemplating suicide because of boob size is damn tragic. You are judging yourself needlessly. Think about it this way. Perhaps 1/4 of all East Asian girls are the same size as you and they just accept themselves as they are.

    Why am I 19 and still have a sized breasts?
  • I've never looked at small boobs and thought less of them or the person.

  • A cups are hot af, be happy with what you have. Plenty of guys like smaller more than bigger

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