Sexual Relationships
+1 y

Why am I attracted to middle aged women?

I don't care that I do, I like it. But I just wanna know maybe why I feel this way. I've always gravitated towards older people in general, but older women are just so... and I have a very specific type not just any older woman.
Maybe there isn't a reason why, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I live by that quote. But sometimes there can be an underlying reason. I was molested by my grandfather when I was younger, but he's a guy not a woman so? I am bisexual by the way. I've only ever been attracted to about 4 women and they are all middle aged.
Why am I attracted to middle aged women?
Like this woman^^^^
Why am I attracted to middle aged women?
Same woman^^^
0 3

Most Helpful Guys

    • the average male starts to get more serious with life in his 30's. because that is when he is more likely to have a decent paying job/carrier. so he can help support his partner and his children.
    • however the average female peak ferity to have children is between 16-30. so the best chance she has to natural become a mother is in that window of time.
    • which is why many guys tend to date girls in their early 20's. so them have a few years to build a bond with them. before deciding weather to have a family with them or not.
    • yes it is possible for a female to become pregnant after 30. be typically requires her to be in peak physically, mental and emotional shape. maybe even requires more medical help for her to become pregnant and/or deliver the child.
    • younger females also have a better chance to have multiple healthy pregnancies and children. while having a better chance they can return to their pre-baby or better figure. plus have more physical, mental and emotional - energy, stamina and endurance to raise the children.
    • https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/how-many-eggs-does-a-woman-have
    • https://www.theclever.com/15-reasons-why-women-love-older-men/
    https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ux-WKpjzs38

    • But I'm a woman

    • yes I know that but your more likely to like older guys because their more mature on average.

    • Older women, not guys but thank you!

    • Show All

  • I'm not sure if I can give you the answer to that but I can just say embrace it and go with what you feel. You are attracted to who you are attracted to that's just how it is.

    Maybe in your subconscious it's who you're comfortable around.

    • I like this comment

    • I like that you like it

Most Helpful Girls

  • Generally role models, culture and the environment we grow up in tend to affect someone's preferences.
    Some studies also suggest there might be a genetic component affecting sexual preference. Genes can’t control behavior completely though, so it's not that simple. Environment, like genetics, plays an important role in how our behavior develops.
    Anyway, if that's your preference, there's nothing wrong with it; embrace it

  • Because they look better.

    • Agreed!!!

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Do you think you can have irresistible sex appeal even if you are not very conventionally attractive?
What's worse , being a short man or having small dick?
Have u already fucked a stranger?
I haven't seen this asked before? Has anyone hooked up with a person you thought was of the same sex or opposite sex and find out they were trans?

What Girls & Guys Said

3 7

  • Well, I guess it's because you're attracted to older people in general. That's the only reason I can think of.

  • that's curious... is your mother still around... I know that question has to be on everyone's mind

    • Yes, I have a mother who looks nothing like this.

    • that's even more curious there's something that has triggered this fascination you have with this type of women and this curtain time period of I could ask you question... privately of course I might be able to pin it down but without that there's vertualy no way of finding out why you feel the way you do see I LOVE big boobs but not just boobs but big nipples and the areola around the nipple like the size of a half dollar that's because of one of my father's girlfriends when I was around 8 I walked in on her taking a bath it took a long time before I realised why I like... LOVE them

    • wow that's interesting, you can ask anything here if you want

    • Show All

  • Maybe role models 🤔

  • I mean everyone has a type. Don't mind other other opinions. If you like them, go for it. Have you ever dated a girl at your age, if I may ask?

    • I have not

  • I don’t know why. Maybe you find them comforting?

  • I think you should be free to be attractive to those who want to be... I'm sorry about your misfortune in life when you were younger... You should be free to be whoever you want to be and that includes Bisexual? (( Hugs ))

  • Cool. So you are attracted to middle aged men and women? 😗 interesting.

  • Interesting! Did you notice any type characteristics of those women?

    For example, some men are said to seek out women resembling their mothers; or women, who find men who replace their fathers (like my cousin)

    • I really don't know, maybe you could tell me. I'll put the pictures of them below.
      Why am I attracted to middle aged women?

      obviously the one in the photo my question photo and
      Why am I attracted to middle aged women? lol don't laugh

    • 🤯😳😬

    • what...

    • Show All

  • You know what you like, that’s attractive!

    • Thank you!

  • are you a guy?

    • no wtf rude ass

Latest Questions

I’m 26 and I’m low key scared to have sx?
How to convince my man to do anal with me?
True or False: Females can't rape?
What do you think about casual sex?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Why am I attracted to middle aged women?