Why am I Feeling insecure as I found condom packet in my mom's purse?

I am a 14 years old indian boy, my mom (38) always carry a particular black purse with her, couple of days back I found four packet of condoms in my mom's purse since then I am feeling bit insecure as my dad has not visited us since he got transferred to another city more than a year ago
I am not able to figure out what next?
Why am I Feeling insecure as I found condom packet in my moms purse?
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In June dad visited us and went back after a week stay. I checked the purse after he leaves, there wasn't any condoms packages. And now few days back I found some in that purse again, different than previous one.
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  • She is getting sex elsewhere but not trying to have more kids

    • Can there be any other reason for keeping condoms in purse !

    • Women do that as a backup in the guy she is with doesn’t have any. There really isn’t any other reason for it

    • Has a another guy on the side when your dad is away for so long, maybe they have an agreement? He might be doing the same thing

  • Check again to see if there's less

    • Ooh thanks. I Will try to see again if she didn't return back home for too long

    • Yeah that way you'll know if she's using them or not. That was how I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me

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  • What would your mom find if she went spying in your room?

    • How it relates to my above matter?

    • You were spying on your mom by looking in her purse. How would you feel if she did that to you?

    • I don't have an issue if someone spy on me because I am not a sinner

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  • Congratulations! Your mom's a skank!
    Jokes apart, seems like she had itches that needed scratching and she couldn't wait for her husband to come back home. Way to show respect to those who work for the well being of the familiar nucleum.
    She might be a smart woman in other fields, but do NOT learn from her in terms of sexuality.

    • What is familiar nucleum? And Your last sentence seems like you are mocking her

  • At least your mom is practising safe sex

    • Isn't it morally wrong? Whether safe or not.

  • Ages back: Once I found my Dad's condoms stash, I made it my self service counter.
    He must have felt pissed - but couldn't say anything :D

  • Mom business, not yours. You took your moms right if privacy away

    • Man your worse than Google. What happened to the right of privacy

  • At-least she is considering safe sex.

    Still, she doesn't raid your drawers? So why go through her purse.

    • Even if it's safe. That's wrong. Isn't it?

    • If it is that mom is having sex Whether it's safe or not Isn't it sin?

  • Tell your dad so he can divorce this whore and get his dowry back. And hopefully he will beat the living daylights out of her as a bonus.

    • Living daylights means what? Just to let you know in india bride family gives dowry in wedding not grooms family And your 1st line is too much superfluous as it's only a packets of condoms

    • What if she gets pregnant and makes your dad think it's his?

    • That's worst, I can't even think of it. by the way what I understood is most probably mom is having sex with someone other than dad as manufacture date on those packets are not that older than date of dad went for office in other city. But Can't there be any other reason for keeping condoms in purse?

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  • haha dude let your mom enjoy!
    You can't do anything anyways. She's your mom!

    • That's wrong though... He may not do anything, but you never know till he tries. in my opinion, go talk to her and tell her that if she really goes out with another guy, that she should stop.

    • dude i also live in India and believe me its not that easy! We dont even say anything related to sex with our parents! Here in india, people are so conservative, morals ethics etc etc. So its really hard.

    • Well, yeah I don't live in India so I don't know... But that's the most reasonable thing is to do in my opinion.

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  • Why are you snooping in her purse? She's probably screwing other men, but its none of your business if she is.

    • You must have a cuck fetish

    • @RandomLoser Uh no.

    • I was looking for power bank and some mind Candy's. How is she screwing other men. Because what I can feel is she is screwing my dad, if she is

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  • Those condoms look teenie. But your mom's getting tailed and doesn't want another kid. What's the problem?

    • Problem is dad isn't here, So those packets aren't supposed to be there

  • Gtfo of your Mom's purse, troll

    • Looking for some mint candy and mobile accessorie in mom's purse isn't wrong. And that's not the point here

    • Go buy you own

  • You shouldn't be digging through your mothers personal items but it seems she likes to get her relief every now an then

    • Can elaborate your last line ! Why it seems to you like that?

    • You're young, and it sucks but your improper behavior brought you here. Your mother is sleeping with men that aren't your father.

    • What do you mean by relief every now an then?

  • Why were you trolling through your mom's purse in the first place?

    • Why are you questioning me? It feels like you are trying to say that she isn't wrong with her deeds whatever they are

  • How old is she

    How active Life she has

    • 37 years old She used to work earlier Now a housewife

    • Socially active?

    • Yes Specially in social functions Along with good conversation skills and humour

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  • People need people, she is being safe

    • Why and how so?

    • Your dad is not there

    • So What if he isn't here?

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  • She was the best man...

    • Sorry I didn't understand, can you explain bit more

  • you don't get any meaningful opinion on here as this place is filled with real prostitutes and perverts... most on here are sex addicts. Cheating is cheating, especially when a mother does it

    • That's what I was thinking sin is sin Most of the people here are like Why you went into her purse? It's not your business? Etc etc It sounds like they are more on my mom's side to cover her deeds

  • Sounds like your mother likes her Big Black Purse and carries it in public for all to see.

    • So what

  • Life needed multiple enjoyments

    • Isn't it wrong?

    • It's wrong but she has no option if your dad did not come at home

    • Women don't need sex like men do. The reason they cheat is simply because they're amoral scum that haven't been beaten like they deserve.

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