Why am I horny all the time?

My husband and I have sex everyday. Well, except when I am on my period and if he goes overseas for business trips (there are times I follow as well). We have a very good sex life and every time we have sex we will both have a couple of orgasm before we stop and go to bed. We have been married for two years and we always had a great sex life since dating days. We used to have sex every single minute we have with each other when we first got married. Although it decreased to every night it never really bothered me because he has always been the one with higher libido and I am the one who has always been easily satisfied but recently I noticed I am much more horny than usual. I will sleep halfway and wakeup feeling like I need him. I will try to return to sleep but is unable to and ended up having to wake him up and try to get him in the mood. He brought up that he noticed that I am more needy sexually recently and even though he wishes to comply with me. He has a job that requires him to wakeup every morning at 6.30am and get off work at 6pm. Even so, the rest of the night will be spent having dinner with my family until we retreat back to our bedroom to have sex before going to bed at 12am. He says that it is okay if I wake him up once or twice a week but he is unable to wakeup at 3am every night just to have sex with me because he have a job and he feels lethargic after a long day at work. My friends encouraged me to masturbate in my own time, but no matter how many times I get off. I just keep thinking about my husband and needing him. I was once so desperate that I drove to his office just to get a mid lunch quickie from him. I don’t understand why am I being this way but it just felt like I needed him so badly. Even when we went to the Maldives in the beginning of the year, we did nothing but had sex in our room. Now that he’s has to work, I don’t wish to affect his daily work performance by waking him up every night. Is there an issue with me?
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  • Theirs nothing wrong with you. It's awesome the connection you and your husband have. For your husband's sake though please don't wake him up. He needs that sleep and it will be detrimental towards his work performance. Your at an age where your body wants you to reproduce which makes you exceptionally horny. It's perfectly normal but you have to try and release those urges in the time y'all spend together sexually

    • But it just doesn’t seem to satisfy me and even trying to get off doesn’t satisfy me as much as if I had sex with him. So I don’t really know what to do about it and wonder if I have a problem because it started only 4 months ago.

    • You don't have any problems it's natural. Men feel like you do except 10 times worse from the age of 13 to 30. Welcome to feeling a fragment of our life. Unless you cheat on him I don't think your going to be able to satisfy that itch. Your just going to have to keep living as you are.

    • 🤣 But I only want him... I doubt cheating will ever help (Not like I advocated for it. I am not into that idea).

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  • You sound like a nymphomaniac , it can be too much if it starts to interfere with everyday life and work, I’m guessing you don’t work

    • Not really. I was not sex crazy before. It just started this couple of months and it’s increasing slowly. Yes, I don’t have a stable job. I mostly do freelance or via a commissioned basis so I work from home in my own time. My husband earn enough for us to lead a good and comfortable life.

    • Well you’re probably at your peak sexually because of your age so it’s that biological clock ticking and your body wants to reproduce

    • Right... so what should I be doing? Any suggestions?

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think it is hormones and it is a phase, do you find you are still this horny when you are on your period?

    • Not on my period. But even more before and after my period

    • when you masturbate, how long does that cure your "horniness"?

    • it didn’t. 😐

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  • No your perfectly fine I think it’s awesome and he should enjoy while he can

    • 😂 He does just that it start to affect his work performance because unlike me he has to go to work and cannot sleep in.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No its not you. You are just more horny then him. Same thing here at home.

    • ? What do you mean?

    • I am hornier than usual. Like few months before

  • I am sure he loves it

    • He does but it affect his work performance

    • A fuck a day keeps the hoes away

    • erm... if you read my post. We do have sex everyday for at least two hours.

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  • Hormones.

  • You and me both

    • Huh?

    • I'm horny all the time too

    • Okay. Then?

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