Why am I masturbating so much?

[Anonymous]

I am so horny all the time. I don't know what to do anymore. I masturbate maybe 3-4 times a day and I still want to cum again. i know you'll all say 'get a boyfriend' but, I'm not comfortable with asking a guy out. Guys hardly approach me, they just stare/look. I know I can get almost any guy to have sex with me but, I don't want to just give my virginity to just anyone. I don't know what to do anymore! I'm so horny. My mind is always at work. I'm always fantasizing... Is is this a turn off in a girl?

[Applefan1]

Well the reason you are masturbating so much is because of your hormones going crazy in side your body. The hormones going crazy will give you a high sex drive and then you will need to masturbate a lot. I see you said guys stare and look at you a lot but never approach what kind of looks do they give you a scowl, blank look or do they smile. This is important as it is a give a way to what a guy is thinking. I would not stress out about it as many girls masturbate 3 or 4 times a day, most would not admit it though. Also it is not a turn off, for most guys it is a turn on.

[Asker]

They just stare till I look

[Applefan1]

Ok if they are staring and giving you a blank look they may well like you and are trying to work out if they should approach or not. Men have a way harder time approaching women than they will admit, they fear rejection and some women treat them like total rubbish which does not help either. So men will sit around and watch the girl for a bit and look at how she behaves towards him and also other people. Women need to let men know they want to be approached. You can do this by smiling at him, playing with your hair, letting him catch you looking at him (but don't over do that) or even going and talking to him yourself. Most men are ok with women making a move.

[R3d_Anonymous]

I'm sorry, but not doing anything to find a boyfriend and then complaining is not doing you any good. Get your ass outside and active and on dating sites and make it a point to meet as many guys as you can. Approach them, flirt with them, and if they respond, ask them out. No one is comfortable asking anyone out. But when one wants something enough, they are willing to overcome such obstacles.

Moreover, it's 2015, the age of women's equality. Such is currently socially acceptable.

[Asker]

I'm outside I said no one approaches me unless theure drunk

[R3d_Anonymous]

I said, "Approach them."

[Asker]

I said I wasn't comfortable with that.

[R3d_Anonymous]

And I said that no one is, but they do it anyway if they want something. I am literally repeating myself here. Read the fucking post.

[Anonymous]

I am the same way. Do you get wet from your own fantasies as well and do you have to have an emotional bond build up with the guy in your "dreams"? I'm saving my virginity too. Do you think this means we have high sex drives? if so this will make us valuable partners.

[Asker]

Yes! Omg yes! I usually focus on someone I like... And it's like I can't stop. I don't know what this means lol

[Ronnie20]

Its cqlled being sexually aroused hence the masturbation to channel the sexual energy

[R3d_Anonymous]

lol I'm like this too, but with genders reversed (I am reserving my virginity and sex in general too, but not for marriage, but just for exclusive romantic relationships).

[Opinion Owner]

Haha, that's great to hear from the both of you. I thought I was the only one. My frequent masturbations makes me wonder why people have sex issues in marriage and in relationship. Does the sex drive diminish over time or do people stop feeling sexually attracted to their partner? Is it too painful for the women? Because right now I feel I can have sex everyday

[Ronnie20]

Madam i hear what u saying. Im a virgin waiting till marriage and i tell ya. i feel i can have sex non stop. Masturbation is so awesome. i get to enjoy orgasms without compromising my virginity. everyday im masturbating. so i can understand how thegirl here is feeling. tHigh five my friend. Best of masturbation to you. heheh

[Asker]

It probably has to do with lack of communication and stuff like that.

[Ronnie20]

Why u say lack of communication? i dont understand

[Asker]

I wasn't talking to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, that's the only explanation... lack of communication or just growing apart emotionally.

[insert_title]

Just keep masturbating until you stop being horny. I mean I don't think there's anything you can do to stop it.

[complicated_soul]

Physical exercise helps to calm down.

[Asker]

I work out almost daily

[complicated_soul]

If you want to reduce the urge to do it, then stay away from movies or pics or books, etc that causes you to feel that way.

[Asker]

It's usually in my mind

[complicated_soul]

Then, maybe you have a lot of free time. Do activities that uses the brain. So you won't have time to think about fantasies. :)

[GFEDATY]

Wish you were not anonymous!

[Asker]

Why?

[GFEDATY]

So we could talk!

[reptocarl]

Not at all I'd love to watch you do that

[Asker]

Watch me masturbate? that does nothing for me

[reptocarl]

Maybe if we masturbated together

[Asker]

That would just drive me more crazy

[reptocarl]

That's the point. I'd love to see you crazy horny

[Asker]

It's very frustrating

[sexyphil]

Raging hormones babes.. just keep masturbating and don't go looking to get fucked until you are ready... get a dildo then you can remove the hymen if you ave one and be ready for sex when the time is right

[DavidNYY]

THIS IS A TURN ON YO NOT NO TURN OFF

[Ihav2fart]

Cause it feels good.

[Asker]

I know that I wanna stop

[Ihav2fart]

Find yourself a boy toy.

[Asker]

Did you read anything I wrote?

[Ihav2fart]

Nope, not trying to strain my eyes.

[Asker]

I don't understand?

[Ihav2fart]

Me neither, one of the worlds unsolvable mysteries.

[Asker]

I don't understand why peoplenhave to be so rude

[Ihav2fart]

Another mystery! The world sure is full of unsolved mysteries.

[chnapo]

Do you just rub your clit? Or put fingers in? Maybe rubbing clit does not make you satisfied.. Also try to make it stronger somehow, try a vibe. Young girls and especially virgins have very high sex drive.

[Asker]

Mostly rub my clit

[chnapo]

try vaginal stimulation (without braking your hymen) sometimes vagina just needs to "stretch" and in this case, clitoral orgasming makes you only more horny and willing for sex. Or try a small dildo, just put something in.

[Asker]

It hurts when I go too deep it's not pleasurable

[chnapo]

not too deep, 2-3cm should be enough

[Asker]

I'll wait for a guy to do that

[James19]

Good luck have fun

[subzero007]

Not at all at this age its normal :)

[Asker]

Don't see what age has to do with it

[subzero007]

If you are under age its normal for both girls and guys its all about hormones anf if you didn't have sex ever the chances are high uou will masturbate or will get horny oftwn so chill

[Asker]

No one I know masturbates so often and is always horny like this

[subzero007]

Well i do know

[SkaterDude]

probably because your hands are idle

[kstatham]

Because you are so horny, you want to a man. ☺☺☺

[Asker]

Obviously.

[Anonymous]

I need a girl like you in my life! Why aren't there more like you?