Why am I never good enough?

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I realized that I will never be able to satisfy a man, I'm so ugly and fat. the only way a guy wants me is when I send nudes. that's why I post them.
Nobody wants me, I'm just that ugly I guess. nobody ever takes interest in me. Unless he's talking to a bunch of girls. And never focuses on me. Other girls dont have this problem, just me. My sister doesn't have this problem, guys all the time just focus on her. Just like her soon to be husband... she gets football NFL players, bandmates, doctors. I can't even find one guy, she's gorgeous and I'm not obviously. like I said I'm fat so I'll never find a guy without him staring her up and down. He will secretly want and lust her. Same with my friends. my one friend is talking to 8 guys, I can't even find one man who focuses on me. What's wrong with me? my mom even gets more men then me. And she's got a boyfriend too. gets flirted with in front of him. they are constantly told how beautiful they are, I never get that unless like I said I'm naked. but I'm fat so nobody ever takes interest in me. then he will have to follow half naked girls online cause he isn't satisfied.

but just lose the fucking weight right? everything will become suddenly normal? haha wow. fucking shallow people. a fat guy gets a hot thin chick he's a god but if a guy gets a fat chick he's felt bad for. guys want the hottest girl, they will try to tell me differently but it's not different. it's the same bullshit, different man. guys want hot women I'm ugly with a bad personality at least hot girls have a hot body you know? lol oh wait they dont exist. they are too busy chasing hot women and sleeping with them
Why am I never good enough?

Matieux · Accepted Answer

Stop complaining and do something, I know it's hard, it's really hard see your mom and your sister being told they are beautiful but you you're ugly and fat, that sucks really, but you can change that you do all you can, if you fight ok, you're too fat sport do workout and loose weight, you're ugly put a lot of make up that's should do it (there is a lot of not good looking girl that are really pretty and beautiful because they wear make up), there is a lot of other things you can do, if you have enough will you can success

scuff1986 · Accepted Answer

It's never easy to find the right people anymore, media, celebrities and porn have pretty much made everyone feel inferior or not good enough for anything... Alongside people becoming generically shallow making it a lot harder.
I found that it's easier to try and be content in myself regardless of what others think

Guffrus · Answer

Never occured to you that the raging insecurities, self loathing and total lack of confidence could be the problem? If you want someone else to love you, you have to love yourself first.