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Why am I slut-shamed for having bigger breasts?

Women around me love to talk about how I “show skin”, because I have bigger breasts. Even if I wear a top that is not very deep, my cleavage still shows and I cannot help it. I find it really hypocritical because if a chubby/bigger girl shows cleavage (even if it’s a lot), no one slut shames her. I’ve noticed this all around me. My boobs are disproportionately large compared to my body, and are more visibly out there. It really annoys me when people talk about it so much.
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  • Well, I don't really understand how anyone can have "accidental cleavage." Like, WTF? Really?

    It's funny cause my friend's friend is this Mexican girl who has MASSIVE huge gigantic all-natural boobs. (Well, I'm exaggerating a little, but they're hard to miss.) They're like a 32DDD and she's only 5'5". She showed up to our event tonight and it was insanely hard not to look at them, even though she was wearing a sweater. They are, like, legitimately perfect breasts. Huge, but perky. Round, but 100% real (cause she's too poor/insecure to ever get implants, anyway). And she was wearing a light-colored sweater and her black bra could still be seen through the sweater... Jesus, as a man, it's hard not to be mesmerized by them. Like a snake charmer. She was sitting directly across from me at the table too, so it's not like I was going out of my way to look at her literally perfect breasts.

    With that said, I don't think she was a slut or anything because she was dressed for the season. Any woman who is showing cleavage WANTS men to look at her and be noticed. I don't know anyone who "gives a chubby/bigger girl" a free pass. if anything, the guys I know would assume she's more prone to looking for attention and assume she's "desperate for the D" because she's chubby/a BBW.

    I wouldn't slut-shame you (the only "sluts" I hate are OnlyFans trash, cause they're lazy, ugly, fat pieces of crap too unattractive for real porn, abusing pathetic simp men out there). However, I do hate it when women want to show skin and express their bodies however they want, then bitch and whine when they act like all men aren't gay/asexual. Again, if a woman's showing cleavage, she's going to make an impression out there. I'm not sure if cleavage "allows a woman's breasts to breathe and get some air" or some other practical reason for them being out there. But MOST of the time, women show them because she wants to get laid, or at least, make guys around her want her. You can't deny that.

    I wouldn't think of you as a slut, but if you have some chest monsters out there and everyone knows it, cleavage is going to be the assumed "I want sex tonight" signal.

    Now, for your enjoyment, here are some pictures of some great boobs.

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    • Well, I wore an outfit because it was cute. I’m straight and was at a party with only 2 men, out of which one is my gay best friend. So no, it wasn’t to get laid haha

    • "I wore an outfit because it was cute." Well, that just kinda proves my point. Unless you're gay (which you said you're not), wearing something "cute" is to get positive attention from other people, including yourself if you think it's "cute." Otherwise, people would dress for comfort, regardless how it looks.

    • 32DDD is a pretty small size though...

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  • Ignore them. Many are probably jealous. They are not thinking of some of the problem more well-endowed women face every day.

    You could try a "minimizer"(TM) type of bra to distribute your breast across a larger area rather than just point your breasts out like two cannons.
    Visit a good corset shop and get measured so you know you are wearing the correct band size and cup size.
    Choose a style with wider shoulder straps.
    Consider reduction surgery if you feel this is compromising your physical and/or emotional health, but do not- do NOT do it because some lame-o complains about your breasts- they can always look away!

    Get a well-fitting bra.
    Get a well-fitting bra.
    "Minimizer" (TM) style with wider straps.
    "Minimizer" (TM) style with wider straps.

    • I second getting a well-fitted bra but instead of letting someone else measure you, you're much better off to do it yourself! Check out the 'a bra that fits' calculator.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think it is the size of them, but how much of them you display. And they do have things you can wear that show no cleavage at all so don't say you can't help showing it. If you wear something that barely keeps your nipples in that is not by accident and is definitely something you can help.

    • Literally half an inch of cleavage shows. That isn’t even a lot, is it? I don't know

    • No 1/2 inch is nothing, but you didn't provide that information in your post.

  • I get that. I have bigger breasts, and I wear tank tops when I go to the gym (unisex shirts feel like they strangle me when I work out), and my team has remarked how it looks like I’m “showing off.” It can be annoying to be sexualized when you’re just trying to be comfortable.

    • Exactly!!!

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  • I'm with you. Tell them to shut up and go away. Learn to ignore or shame them back. They're just envious.

  • Breasts that are big always pull a lot of attention, sadly that can lead to negative actions of others. When it comes to other women I believe they feel insecure or inferior around you and want to push you down to push themselves up. Those are not worth your time or care.

  • Usually if people pass remarks like that, its because they feel inferior or feel you will get more attention from men.

  • It's wrong they do that they are basically jealous of how good you look and resort to slut shaming you out of a lack of other ways to insult you. Basically they think you look that hot they assume your sleeping around.

    Only ways to counter it are: -
    1 ) ignore them
    2 ) turn round what there saying i. e. they call you a slut and say "thank god you got it that's the look I was going for"
    3 ) come back with a comment that makes them feel ashamed of trying to insult you i. e. say something like "if the other sisters at the convent could hear you talking like that they'd have you doing hail Mary's" you can sell that by pretending to fiddle with a Cross on a necklace.

  • Fuck da h8rz. Theyre a lesser evolved life form and dont deserve to breathe the same air as you. Pity them and nothing more.

  • From experience, people will use any excuse to be rude, dont take it to heart because thats just how people can be

  • I don't know. I have big tits too and I have been called a slut before by a couple of girls who saw me walk by Wearing a deep v neck tank top and I was laughing so hard about it later because I thought they were a couple of teenage boys but they were actually girls dressed in guy's clothes. 😂 Either way I give ZERO fucks what people think. Just because someone has a big ANYTHING doesn't mean that they are sexually promiscuous.

  • This post is Useless with out PIcs.

  • Just say you wanna show your cleavage and humble brag on gag LMAO.

    • What will I get out of humble bragging to strangers who don’t even know me?

  • Don't take people too seriously they should care about their own body's. Embrace your big boobs, Girls like me wish we had bigger boobs.

  • They're jealous.

  • Jealousy prolly

  • I do not understand body shaming. You have what The Creator gave you and it is not a reflection on your character.

  • That's just jealousy. Typical behavior from such girls. Don't mind it.

  • What do they expect you to do? Hide your body? Be embarrassed by it? They think you have a superior body and are jealous of it, and that's not your problem. Dress however you want, be proud of your body, what other girls think of you doesn't matter.

  • It's none of their business. Just be yourself and keep the jealous haters out of your life. If your breasts are causing physical discomfort speak to your doctor about reduction surgery.

  • Well, "a top that is not very deep" depends on what you are talking about. It could be not very deep or it could be equivalent to some women saying "I am curvy" while they are clearly obese.

    But assuming it is in fact not very deep cut - the reaction mostly comes from envy towards the male attention you gather for "doing nothing", but being fortunate in the genetic lottery.

    • I usually avoid wearing bras with padding to make my boobs less visible. If I wear even a basic bra with a little padding, my cleavage is literally just an inch short of my neck. This is what I mean when I say my tops aren’t necessarily very deep every time.

    • Then the answer of my second paragraph remains.

  • Odds are they're just jealous of your breasts, otherwise they probably wouldn't even comment on it.

  • Cuz they are jealous.

  • Petty jealousy. Unfortunately. And you can't stop them, but you can make it harder for them to attack you.

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