Why am I so horny these days?

[Anonymous]

I've been so horny the past two weeks it's actually getting annoying. p*rn does nothing for me - I hate it. It just makes me want it more (which is strange cuz I think the sex looks so planned, whatever) Im waiting for the right guy to lose my virginity I won't just lose it just because. Any ideas? How do I get my mind off of this?

[Lovinu20]

Sex toys and manual masturbation helps. I am glad to see you are waiting

Here are some helpful articles for encouragement and inspiration

hb-blog.weebly.com/.../why-virginity-still-retains-value-even-in-modern-times

hb-blog.weebly.com/.../10-celebrities-that-waited-to-have-sex-or-are-still-waiting

https://i.imgur.com/MGFKs1W.jpg

[Asker]

Thanks those were interesting. I'm happy with my decision no regrets whatsoever but, I've been super horny these past 2 weeks more than ever and it's so annoying! p*rn does nothing for me, I hate it so...

[Lovinu20]

I think p*rn intensifies it because you are watching 2 people have sex which you want to place yourself in one of their shoes. If you are pleasuring yourself with your own effort not involving visual aides, you will not crave another person's involvement as much while pleasuring yourself. Get what I am saying?

[Asker]

Yeh I get it but it'll prob take me 4 hours to get off. It already takes me a while when I'm watching p*rn lol

[Lovinu20]

Women receive more pleasure from clitoral stimulation more so than penetration (whether that be with a penis or an object). Your clit consists of many many nerve endings, which give intense pleasure upon stimulation. Some women also enjoy anal stimulation, but not all. If you enjoy fingering yourself, try inserting one in your vagina and one up your butt at the same time.

[Lovinu20]

Also, fantasize. Think of a situation that turns you on. If you have fetishes, think about them. Sometimes reading erotic stories can be just as helpful as watching videos.

[Asker]

I think it's more about me wanting to be with d guy than actually getting off. Even after I masturbate the feeling comes back even more like it does nothing for me besides a few seconds of pleasure. I prob make no sense lol

[Lovinu20]

Well at this point you are a conscientious adult. You are insinuating you just want to go ahead and have sex. That is your choice at this point. But let me warn you that will only provide temporary relief, then you will still continue to crave more and more. You can keep continuing to crave masturbation, or you can keep continuing to crave more sex once you have it. Either way, there will always be a continuation of urges from here on after

[Asker]

Of course I'm not jumping into anything that would be stupid lol

[amnatural]

Its because of that phase of your life where your hormones are on an overdrive, there's nothing wrong in it, everyone has experienced this.. You just keep yourself engaged in some way with your daily activities to take your mind off it..

[Asker]

I'm 19 I shouldn't be like getting over it? I don't mean not to want sex but, not to think about it so often

[amnatural]

Thats what i said if you are busy its less likely that you will think about it, and there's always an option of masturbating when its really difficult to concentrate on other things

[Asker]

I feel like masturbating makes it worse. And I hate p*rn so... I just gotta keep busy I guess

[amnatural]

Any activity that is mind gripping and requires a lot of concentration will help you a lot indeed

[Asker]

I'm usually busy but once I have time to just let my mind wonder it always ends up by that. And I get super horny

[amnatural]

Thats indeed very normal, and with age and maturity you will develop more control over your feelings, its always good that you plan a backup thing to do as soon as you become free

[Anonymous]

I know exactly what your talking about I am also a 19 virgin and p*rn does nothing for me I know sometimes if I madturbate really hard I'm sore so then I don't want to do it but if that doesn't work you could always try do something that would turn you off like watch a sad movie or whatever takes you out of the mood

[Asker]

So good to know I ain't the only one!! Yeh I've done that once and I really hurt myself. Believe me I'll watch the sad movie and something will still turn me on lol

[Opinion Owner]

If you do play around does that just make you more horny or not?

[Asker]

I feel gross (cuz I hate p*rn) but afterwards I just want it more

[Opinion Owner]

Do you finish? Like once or multiple? Because if I do multiple then I'm good for a while

[Asker]

No so I would reach a orgasm but I just get frustrated after it's the strangest thing and I want more and more I can't explain it I guess it doesn't satisfy me maybe because I find p*rn to be so fake.

[Asker]

Sometimes i would go for even four times.

[Opinion Owner]

Try not thinking of it like p*rn just whatever turns you on and just keep going till you can't anymore I think if you were that satisfied it wouldn't be on your mind anymore

[Asker]

Lol... I'll try it ends up hurting after a while from the pressure tho

[lolaluva09]

You should know that the whole virginity thing is really about intimacy not so much sex.. their two separate things in reality. You'll know whan I mean once that v card is gone.

[Asker]

I know I think it's more about intimacy than sex for me

[Maxemeister]

Fantasize about your dream guy and masturbate while doing it.

[Asker]

I don't have a dream guy lol. Am I supposed to 😳 Anyways, I think that would make me want it more.

[Maxemeister]

Well, what's your ideal attractive man you want to satisfy you?

[Asker]

I have things in guys that I like and want but not a specific guy in mind and please don't tell me a celebrity or something.

[Maxemeister]

Not at all! Combine your most wanted qualities into one fictional guy. Maybe he has a sexy name too.

[Asker]

Haha I'm trying here. Lol this is making me more horny! Dafuq dude?

[Maxemeister]

Lol. Okay, Bernard the Wizard.

[Maxemeister]

Am I making this worse?

[Asker]

Yes! How is this helping? Lol I wanna take my mind OFF of it!

[Maxemeister]

Imagine a maggot-infested turd on your lawn.

[Asker]

Ugh! So here's my 2 choices think about sex all day OR Imagine a maggot - infested turd AWESOME!

[Maxemeister]

This is a hard situation. But at least the turd turns people off. Trust me, it turned my friend off.

[Asker]

Haha yeh I get turned off by lots of things though still doesn't seem to help lol I'm so dang horny it's weird.

[Maxemeister]

Well you're in a hell of a pickle

[Findesemana]

Its normal.

[Anonymous]

I don't know but God love you for it!!

[Asker]

Umm ok? I don't think most would agree with that