Why am I turned on when guys call me whore, slut, and things like that, I don't respond to it positively, I tell them to "F Off" but I get excited :(?

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  • What's the question? In public you don't let your kink out unless you're loud and proud in the lifestyle. Seeing as you aren't even living it yet I doubt you're ready for that. You have a kink, explore it. See if you enjoy talking dirty to other people as well. Getting slapped a little, on the ass, thigh, arm, breasts, back. Just experiment and see how much of a sub you are, and in what ways. If you're in a large city there are typically BDSM groups you can talk to about such things, and recommend clubs to find fellow fetishists. I found 3 clubs and 4 groups, 1 of each that I like within 2 weeks of coming to Vegas... with the clubs that's just the public ones too. There is some dark territory you can stumble into like anything sexual. So maybe stick to the clubs and people with a good reputation at first.

  • A lot of women are turned on by that kind of talk. To my mind, it's indicative of a sexual submissive. When you have sex, who do you want to dominate?

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think you like the dirty talk like that. Like if you find a man who's willing to do that in bed, yeah good times!

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  • That’s because your nature shows a submissive response.

  • You probably discoverd one of your kinks.

    • Ya looks like

  • i dont understand it fully but it is very similar to me being called a wanker or dirty old pervert i should imagine ;)

  • I don't know u might be submissive or love humiliation, etc
    tbh it's sad when people have fetishes they dont want, just dont hate yourself for it and keep your self respect

  • Coz most women secretly like being objectified, but also have a need to preserve social standing in public.

    • Possible I guess

  • Tell us why.
    What is your question.

  • Most girls enjoy it in the heat of the moment

  • Because girls like humiliation and being put in their place. It's extremely common.

    • That makes me feel a little better

  • It's pretty normal to feel that way

  • If it's during sex then thats quite normal and I guess the time in which it is said makes a difference

  • You like dominance sex. You like to feel inferior or thought of as inferior during sex

  • That's normal because you have low self esteem. You know subconsciously that sluts are humiliated and degraded by men and you know deep down that deserve that.

  • Some girls like dirt talk on bed, its pretty normal

  • You're a submissive. Just look into a little further before you dive into saying you are there is a lot to it andnit spices up the sexual life a lot.