Why are 30 and 30+ guys acting like they are teenagers?

All they want is to have sex and nothing else. Did they forgot to grow up past 15?
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  • Because many of them ARE teenagers, emotionally-speaking. Society is made up of selfish, impatient, irresponsible idiots. When you are surrounded by self-serving idiots, society is bound to be depraved.
    Maybe you’re witnessing the results of that. I know this isn’t a popular thing to say and I don’t care.

  • Dunno, maybe because you project out to the world to be worthy of nothing but sex. Men who see a quality woman showing signs of being relationship material are not going to fuck things up, but rather pursue her with the thought of having a relationship. Especially at that age. What are you wearing? How do you carry yourself? Do you flirt with multiple men? ton of makeup? Or are you just finding the wrong type of men (like in clubs)?

  • Sex is all you have that’s valuable is it not? I mean what do you bring to the relationship? Your going to make me take more responsibility and demand so much out of me but then get upset when I expect sex and peace and kindness from you? That’s why men aren’t growing up. Not only do we not have to but it’s not necessary.

    • You think you only get sex out of a relationship?

    • Sex is the only thing you can’t easily get elsewhere is it not… and technically I meant children as you can but sex or just sleep around.

    • Only thing you can't get easy anywhere else? You really think that the company, care and warmth that a loving partner gives you can be obtained anywhere else? It's very different. And on this day and age sex is far easier to get.

  • Wanting sex has nothing to do with maturity. You should get that stick out of your butt before it festers.

  • Because of sexual liberation.

    Women used to use the privilege of their companionship to corral men into settling down. If a man wanted a woman, he had to commit to more than dinner.

    But then someone decided that sex should be, like, free, man. It's just a fancy handshake after all. It's just fun and people shouldn't be so puritanical about it.

    And so, in the name of "liberation", women threw away their primary tool for taming men. Casual sex was offered up, and men started taking it. With no incentive to grow out of their youthful hedonism, they don't. So when the "liberated" women finally get tired and look around for the mature guys to settle down with, they can't find any. Imagine that.

    Although, not all guys have access to that casual sex buffet, so it is worse for them than the old system where marriage was there to pull competitors out of the dating pool. Those men are going crazy now, and pretty soon they'll destabilize the entire world. So we have that to look forward to. But once that works itself out, we'll probably go back to more traditional norms. Then men will be responsible providers again, and all will be well, until someone makes the same mistake again.

  • If that’s all your offering, then that’s all he’s going to return…

  • Because clearly what they see as being grown is a different definition as you

  • Most feel it's just what the world is all about, sadly.

  • Nonsense. Older guys aren't just after sex. Plenty of them want to catch up on their gaming since they can easily afford it by then. :)

  • The good guys had a lifetime of being told that men's advances were unwanted and "harassment" the good guys listened, the player S and bad boys took advantage of the fact women won't risk rejection and took over dating.

    The psychopath is rare, but he approached everything with a pulse. The good men ONLY APPROACH when certain it's wanted.

    Womens rediculus Disney dating strategy selects for the worst men, this is why women think the majority of men are terrible because they are over represented in the sample of men who are "bold"
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    If you only date guys who are approaching, you aren't going to date good men %99 of the time.

    Don't blame men for this.

  • The percentage of the population that is not monogamous has increased significantly and hook-up sites facilitate casual sex. A man in his 30s will typically seem higher-status, less awkward, and often more attractive, than a typical man in his 20s. These men have figured out that if they’re not very out of shape they can have no strings attached sex. Also, there is a lot more awareness now about risking alimony and loss of assets in marriages that don’t work out as many of these men saw what happened to divorced fathers. Short answer: They just want to have sex because they can.

    That said, there are still some stable, reasonably fit men in their 30s who want committed relationships. Most of these will already be married and remain married, but some will be single. Such men will find dating in their 30s to be much easier than when they were young.

  • same reason girls in their late 20s act like they're sitting on a high horse judging everyboy else's behavior when they don't realize how stupid they look

  • If all dudes are like that then does that mean all women are lying cheating sluts?
    Not all dudes are like that just like not all females are the same.

  • I agree with you but I'm sure not all guys want sex and act like they are teens

  • Most guys 20’s were usually spent alone and struggling to get on our feet financially. By 30, most guys have decent jobs, a little bit of money, have matured physically and are found more attractive by the women who wouldn’t give them the time of day when they were young and broke. So now they’re getting to experience what many women already experienced in their teens and 20’s. Some might be looking to settle down, but many just want to see what’s out there without getting tied down.

  • I got my shit together, but still act like I’m 12 at times lol. Caught myself taking life too seriously for a while. 100 years from now, everyone on this planet will be dead. Embrace that inner child when it comes out. It’s pure.

    • Embrace the inner child , What else are you going to make your retarded mother that was useless to raise you right to clean your room? Us woman we want a real man not to adopt a little boy. Grow up get STOP LIVING IN A FANTASY LAND. This is the real world. Mommy will not always be to here for your lazy ass.

    • @Alwayreckles93 What do you mean by grow up? I’m a veteran, have a degree, and make a boatload of money. I’m also married. I’ve caught myself spending my entire life on these things, and have found through experience that it’s best to have balance. I’ll embrace my inner kid as much as I want. Most people spiritually die at the age of 25

    • You're married your wife better be your same age or 30. I am tired of you man living us beautiful mature 28 year old woman that we can actually cook and clean. Unlike a stupid 20 year old their all gold diggers. Oh and I am not jealous of a 20 year old.

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  • Maybe they are just tired of being burned and decided to just have fun.

  • As a “guy past 30” I can tell you that yes some guys are immature. However when I was younger I acted very chivalrous and got burned very badly in the friendzone. That made me act much more forthcoming to show women where I stand. That doesn’t mean acting like a creep but it’s not hiding the ball either. If I am interested I am not going to waste my time, effort, money and heart beating around the bush about it just to ultimately get screwed over with friéndzone bs. I learned my lesson on that crap.

    Also while older men often get stereotyped for acting immature there are plenty of grown ass women who never grow up either. I’ve met several grown women who think it’s okay to ghost, flake on dates, play dumb, act entitled, etc. For every Peter Pan there is at least one Wendy out there.

  • Because the internet has no repercussions. They can act any way they want without consequence.

    The side of them that society frowns apon, the internet welcomes with open arms!

    At least, that's my opinion

    • Where’s the ballot for slut when?

    • Women.

    • God damnit… let’s try this again. Where is the call out for slut women?

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  • Because investing in a relationship takes effort, and a lot of men don't think it's worth it.

    • Sheeeesh! 5 dislikes 🤣. God damn. A 😍 from me on this one 👍

    • @Jaximus-Lion apparently some people don’t like the fact that things worth anything at all take effort to obtain and maintain..

    • @Subarugirl You're absolutely right. However, a lot of times, those men are actually correct in their assessments. (Not saying it's worth it for the women, either. But it is what it is.)

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