Why are Black women only seen as sex toys?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It's taboo for a lot of guys especially prominent men. A lot of men are sexually attracted to us be don't want to be seen in public with us, were almost seen as " beasts off the field" ... i give men who are not ashamed of us credit ( although we are beautiful) this is what society is.

[Asker]

I definitely get this. I want someone to be proud to be with me.

[LEADFOOTboi]

q - q i think y'all're wonderful

[Anonymous]

I find us snow bunnies are only seen as sex toys and trophies by black men.

[Xoirwinkan]

An argument could be made for black men being the same thing. I have never held that view. Everyone is human. However, if I were to set a reason to it, I would say that its because I think black women are the most acquired of tastes.

[wankiam]

non of my ex girlfriends that were black were treated any different to white girls i had relationships with but its certainly true that some people will fetishise race

[wankiam]

yeah its sad that racism is still prevaillant in the states

[AustinMan]

I don't see that. Why do you say that?

[RemoErdosain]

If that's the case in the US, I'm sorry to hear that. I assure you it's not like that in every place, though

[Red_Arrow]

They aren’t.

[colelydiason]

You can own a sex toy. Lets them pretend they didn't lose and the confed flag isn't a loser flag

[Mia-Wallace]

Are they?

[Asker]

Yes it’s true

[Secret6620]

Such an ignorant troll post. Smh shame on you.

[Shiome223]

Racism...

[Asker]

That doesn’t qualify as racism being looked at as that is though

[boggboss]

Never knew they where but meh

[Dargil]

Race bating nonsense. Shame on anonymous you. Probably a troll or catfish anyway.

[Ripper_E]

Who says that?

[Browneye57]

They aren't. Quit making racist comments or you'll get the boot.

[Asker]

It’s not racist if I’m talking about my own self and what I have experience

[Browneye57]

You're clearly delusional. You've fabricated this bullshit in your own head.

[Asker]

Their experiences it doesn’t seem very false

[Browneye57]

Quit choosing to be a victim. Seriously. Just don't.

[Asker]

I wasn’t looking at it as being a victim I was just expressing how it was for myself

[Asker]

most black women are very conservative when it comes down to six. And of course it was looked at as bad so we didn’t want to do it. We found out that a lot of more guys like it because you see a lot of white women giving head and doing all of those things and we weren’t in so we didn’t want to lose our men to that so we started trying to do the same thing

[Browneye57]

Is this even English? If you are only seen as a sex toy then that is on you. YOU are the one that gets to decide your value - based on your own self worth, what you portray as your values and morality. If you're a cheap date willing to fuck anybody then you project low or no value. What exactly have you done to create high value as a partner? What makes you a catch? You need to be able to articulate this as a high-value guy will expect it. Most simply never considered it. And you CLAIM to be a victim by make a claim like this - 'all black women are seen...' No, they're not - this is YOUR claim.

[Asker]

Well believe it or not I’m not the only person that feels this way

[Browneye57]

Call the WHAAAMBULANCE. It's always all about the FEELZ isn't it. Just because you don't FEEL something doesn't make it true. Quit claiming to be a victim - it just doesn't look good on you.

[JC103]

Please explain

[JC103]

Where do you live?

[Asker]

USA I wrote it in my statement about

[JC103]

Where in the US*

[hellacray]

Have you seen the music video WAP?

[Asker]

Yes it over sexualize women but not all women are like that. Yes I think we should be proud that we are considered as sexual human being and shouldn’t be penalized for it from a woman standpoint but in all actuality I don’t act like that

[Britney02]

I didn't know this.

[JimboGB]

Inferiority complexes are as dangerous as superiority complexes and result in essentially the same outcomes.

[LEADFOOTboi]

WTF... WHY WOULD THIS BE? I DONT SEE THIS WAY

[Asker]

Explain

[LEADFOOTboi]

but howww... i dont see black womens this way... so i dont know where that's coming from... and i can't fathom why anyone would think that... unless they tthink all womens are just toys

[Posterboy56]

Uhh... huh?
Facts not submitted into evidence there, ace. Present some details explaining why you're saying this because it's not based in reality.

[Asker]

Do you watch TV have you seen the news

[Posterboy56]

... Yes... and yes. Again, perhaps you could provide more details about what that's supposed to mean or what specifically you're referring to.

[Asker]

Like Waze dating it seems like more and more black women have to go outside of their own race in order to be loved or we’re Same as sexualize. Cardi B Megan Thee Stallion

[Posterboy56]

I'm sorry but I really don't know what you mean. I can't understand totally what you wrote.

[Oldman70]

That is NOT my experience at all..

[TallAnon]

I see then as the direct opposite, to be honest.

[TallAnon]

Them*

[Dave31989]

untrue