Why are girls so submissive?

Why are women so passive, submissive, and obedient to men? Women's fantasies almost always include a powerful or physically dominant alpha male just having his way with her. It's like women want to be a man's sexual plaything. 99% of women want a dominant partner. Why do women love submitting to men?
Why are girls so submissive?

This is true. Women naturally want to submit to men
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Women don't want to submit to men
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  • It's just natural.
    Women can be submissive often but take a hard stance on others

  • Not all women are submissive and not all women want to be a guys play thing.

    • Most are

    • Eh not most of The girls I know

    • Interesting

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  • In the bedroom yes outside nope

  • This is true. Women naturally want to submit to men

    • I submit to you

    • @PrincessPie I know

  • We all like this arrangement. It's one of the few things men and women agree on 100%

  • This is true. Women naturally want to submit to men

  • It's in their genes dude. That's just the way human beings evolved.

  • May he make us submissive, so we can follow all his instructions and obey the commandments, rules, and regulations he commanded our ancestors.

    • Amen

    • Amen

      Praise be to God 🙌 b 2 😇

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    • Revolver 11:42

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  • It's part of nature

  • Submissive does not mean servitude, it means recognizing the man as the head of the household.

  • We are not submissive to men just because we are "wired" that way. I know more females than males who are dominant. If we do "submit" to you often its because, in my experience, feel safe that you will not hurt us. the majority of females can be submissive and have a fantasy about an Alpha male protecting us and making us feel safe enough but more often than not it isn't because we are wired that way. Many of us make that conscious decision to, many people look at biology to decide this but just because we are more caring and not as willing to go into confrontation does not, I repeat, DOES NOT make us the weaker sex wishing to find are own prince charming, if we don't find them then we will be are own prince Charming, while many people who identify as male will keep looking for the princess that will take care of their every need. If anything you may be the physically stronger sex but females are stronger mentally.

    Part of it is what society has stated since most of the world was colonized by the English. Females are the weaker species in every form so they must be protected from every type of abuse. But, if you look into the history of any other society, females are viewed as strong and many would not like to see a pissed off female in those cultures. In many places that had a ruler who was Dutch Females could own land, vote, and divorce their husbands if they felt as if the husband was being unfaithful instead of blaming the wife for not giving him whatever he needed to not stray from his path of God. only in Christianity, and other monotheistic religions, do we see this, the female being subservient to the male.

  • It's just biology. It's not a coincidence that women are smaller, weaker, more tuned into people and feelings, nurturing and being agreeable, and less prone to confrontation. While men are larger, stronger, more into things and perceiving, protective and more aggressive, and more prone to confrontation. Which would you expect to be more submissive during sex?

    Also, we seek out the qualities that we don't possess ourselves, as they say opposites attract. Although 99% isn't correct. It's more like 75% - 80%, and even then, not all of those want the same thing exactly. That being said, I definitely am the kind of woman that you're talking about. LOL

  • I'm curious where you get the 99% statistic from.

  • 99%? I think not, maybe about 70% or less, at least 25% of girls are switches, and about 5% of girls are dominant.
    Personally, I'm always dominant.
    Girls who are submissive were indoctrinated for thousands of years by patriarchal religions (judeo-christian-islamic)... they are basically deluded into thinking that so called "gender roles" are "natural".

    • Thought it was natural for women to be submissive

    • Nah, that's just a fairy tale invented by priests (who are mostly pedos anyway).

    • Interesting

  • Without cultural conditioning, we really don't know how many women would be naturally dominant or not, or how many men would be naturally submissive. We tend to train these traits out of people.

    And we define many neutral things as dominant or submissive because we see them as male or female. It would be quite impossible for us to really know what women naturally are unless we eliminated some of these cultural expectations.

  • Because of how our brains are wired... anthropologically speaking human beings repeat themselves, which is why we study history in the first place. We have evolved and grown so much that we forget we are animals and still have animal tendencies. In ancient times woman would want to be with a strong man who can protect her and children and the tribe. You would want someone strong, broad shoulders, big arms, someone who could kick the shit out of a wild animal or something. And you still see that it our society today, not always I mean we have adapted to this world and see no need for that strong man anymore and we look for other traits. Anyway since in ancient times you wanted a strong big man he was going to be more dominant, strong guy like that probs had boat loads of testosterone. So woman learned to like being submissive to snag one of those dominant guys. And since we are still imprinted with that past we still crave that submissive instinct because thats what woman had done for a thousand years. But then again now more and more women are rebelling against that instinct because it makes them feel threatened because they don't want to be owned or belittled.

  • If I'm being completely honest I couldn't respect a man I could boss around. I would however respect a man who takes my needs and feelings into consideration and does his best to make me happy. But I like a man to be a man and keep me on my toes when I need it, not a pushover who will give into anything. I'm sure men find that appealing in women too. You should aim to bring out the best in each other. Men are protective, women are nurturing.

    • how does nurturing translate into being a push over.

    • partners keep each other on their toes thats normal.

  • because they have a vagina and it needs to be penetrated.. how can it be penetrated if they aren't... a little bit submissive. even if they aren't fully submissive and they are the opposite, they still need to be a little bit.

  • Horses for courses! Some are sub. Some are not.

    It is nothing to do with wanting an alpha male. That is a fallacy. My guy is not a so-called alpha male, but he is not only dominant in the bedroom, but gentle outside.

    • 99% are sub

    • Possibly. We just want to please our guys.

  • Funny dude!

    For anyone who's considering of answering this question seriously, don't!

    It's a troll.

    • Whoever lies with an animal shall surely be put to death.

    • Errrr... rrriiiiggghhhtt?

    • You okay, buddy? @Revolver_

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