Why are guy virgins considered losers, but women virgins are cherished?

[Anonymous]

i see it all the time. girls making fun of men for being virgin basement dwellers (one girl on here is notorious for saying it), but when a girl is a virgin, every guy wants to be with her

p. s. not a virgin

[oboeyoudidnt]

It depends on the attitude of said virgin.

If it's a guy saying "ALL GIRLS PUSSIES STINK AND I NEVER DO ORAL" and has a bad attitude they'll use him being a virgin as an insult.

A comparison I see is how some guys say "you hit like a girl!" To other men. They're not really insulting girls, they love them, it's just kinda an expression that might have some truth (like in my example a virgin may be more likely to be averse to oral due to never trying it.)

[MikaC98]

fuck the girls who think guy virgins are losers. shit ass double standards man. I think it makes everything more special when two virgins come together and unite. (that sounded so fucking pathetic LOL my bad). Honestly though, if you ever hear anyone say that kind of dumb shit, nize them. It's like making fun of someone for not having a big dick/big boobs.

[Asker]

i would never make fun of a girl for small boobs. i won't date them, but i would not make fun of them

[MikaC98]

good to know you're a sensible guy m8 (thumbs up)

[cumslutally]

same reason why if a guy sleeps around his cool but if a girl does it she's a slut

[Bandit74]

It's part of the same dynamic that leads to promiscuous women being looked at more negatively than promiscuous men. It is funny tho, because the same girls who are firmly against slut being used as an insult towards women are completely fine with virgin being used as an insult towards men.

[JDavid25]

I told some girls that I was a virgin years ago, and they basically praised me, and acted all proud of me and whatnot.. But, it's cause in their eyes it shows a lack of aggression/weakness on the guys parts.. And to society, guys are suppose to be the ones going out and gettin some..

[MrNameless]

Being a virgin at 20 isn't that big of a deal. Once you get to your mid 20s though, people really wonder why.

[JDavid25]

@MrNameless Where I grew up it was... "Black" dudes ain't known for keepin they virginity pass 16.. I saw people making fun of people at 14 for being a virgin.. But, I'm still a virgin and almost in my mid 20's.. Lol.. Soo, I guess people will start to wonder.. LOL..

[MrNameless]

I wouldn't worry too much about it. Everyone goes at their own pace. Have you been in any serious relationships? Apps like tinder are your best bet if you're looking for something casual.

[JDavid25]

@MrNameless Aw, I'm not worried about it.. Lol.. It was actually pretty much my choice.. LOL.. And yeah I'm on Tinder, and even if I wanted to it would be hard to find girls as many of them seem like they want a relationship, and Tinder is not a "Black" man's friend.. Especially in Chicago..

[MrNameless]

You're gonna find a lot of matches in cities and college towns, if you happen to be in one. You'll be alright. Presenting yourself (your profile) on tinder is just as important.

[JDavid25]

@MrNameless I get matches... I actually have a good number, it's just that none of them actually message back, and most of them ain't that cute.. LOL.. But, I'm givin up on Tinder.. First cause nothin good won't come of it.. Most of my matches are "Black which isn't a problem, but I would like a chance with every group.. It's better in real life.. And also I ain't lookin to get it in, or to get in a relationship.. So I'm all good.. LOL..

[ButtHurt]

It's a gag thing.

[Decentguy]

double standards

[Anonymous]

I don't think guys virgins are losers

[Asker]

why not

[Opinion Owner]

Because so am I

[Anonymous]

I never think virgin guys are losers.. actually i think they are cute lol

[Asker]

yeah, but why do a lot of women think they are losers

[Opinion Owner]

Because that some women only want experience guys I guess? Think the inexperienced one can't pleased them in bed?

[Asker]

nah, i dont think that's it. you don't have to be experienced.. to know what you're doing

[SinghSong]

And cute=weak=feeble=pathetic=laugh-out-loud=losers.