Why are guys judged when they sleep around?

[Anonymous]

Yes I know women do to but it’s not as bad. A girl that sleeps around is called a slut by guys AND girls. People like to think female slut shaming is a gender issue when it isn’t. Girls that don’t sleep around hate sluts because sluts get boyfriends to cheat and take attention away from “good girls”. So it’s not a gender issue. Now, when it comes to men, they are judged more. While a girl that is a slut will be called a slut... that’s the extent of it. Guys will still give her attention and guys (beta males) will be willing to date her.

But when it comes to guys, a fuckboy (male equivalent to slut) is seen as a toy to women. Girls wanna have casual sex with him nothing more. He is blacklisted as an “undateble” guy. Ya he’ll get lots off pussy but good quality girls will stay away from him.

So so why are guys judged more harshly than girls? If girls in this modern society are “entitled” to sleep with hundreds of men before they settle down, and it’s socially acceptable, why can’t guys?

[Florancerose404]

i Do judge men if they sleep around and of course I judge women somewhat more.

If a man had a past where he had slept around I would probably be a bit weary that he’d be inclined to cheat or want more than what I could ever offer him sexually. I would look at him as unstable and just lack of respect for himself, usually men and women now adays see sex as just ‘sex’ that anyone can do it doesn’t matter if there isn't any deep emotion behind it, that is where it causes concerns for the women and men too when selectively choosing a partner. As when selecting a partner you need someone who can trust someone who can say ‘NO’ if ever someone tries anything on. I mean if you had known that someone had a history of cheating or slept with a lot of people they clearly struggled with that word No.

[Ms725]

Guys are not judged more than girls. Men can have multiple sex partners and stories and KIDS. And no one bats a eye he’ll still have a girlfriend or wife or whatever. But a girl? If a girl does that shit everyone knows about it.. guys brag about it. Her pictures are shared places and it’s just known it’s commonly unacceptable for a girl to sleep around without being named a whore or slut. But a guy does that and he gets a pat on the back from his friends and moves on to another.

[Asker]

Well it’s difficult for a guy to sleep around. A guy that can sleep around has to be good looking and be able to get girls into bed. Even though girls these days are easy it still requires a bit of skill. But for a girl to sleep around all she has to do is open her legs. So it just makes her seem worthless that she let many men into her body...

[Ms725]

So the argument isn’t who’s shamed for having sex, but who’s more easy? Ugly girls get laid too because men don’t have as high of standards and will fuck anything. Thus why MORE men are pedophiles... and rapists.. and pay for sex from prostitutes. It can go both ways.

[Asker]

Most good looking girls are stuck up bitches that rarely hookup. Which is why the best looking men sleep around with ugly/average women. Because the hot girls are giving it up easy and men have to lower quality for more quantity. And because ugly/average girls are shallow they only want the best looking men and use sex to get them. So good looking girls often get hurt and are single for long periods of time. Because at college parties for example all the hot guys will know that the hot girls are hard to get so they go for the average/ugly ones and those girls deliver.

[Ms725]

thats just straight up ridiculous. “Attractive” men sleep around with fat, trashy girls Because they can’t get the “attractive” women? Maybe everyone should have high standards for themselves. Maybe it’s not about how people look but how they perceive themselves and others. Maybe men need to just keep in their god damn pants and be decent human beings. Girls sleep with men usually because they’re tricked into thinking they like them. Yeah there’s the occasional slut bag. But don’t blame women for men having low standards! I know LOTS of men who have cheated on their beautiful girlfriends or wives, with a trashy whore who’s fat and ugly and has no morals. What’s the excuse then huh? There is no excuse. Men are in control of their own actions just like women are.

[Asker]

But I’m correct. Good looking men can date good looking girls just fine but when it comes to causal sex/hookup/one night stands scene... good looking men lower their quality because typically attractive women don’t sleep around. So if men want to sleep around they lower their standards. But the trashy women only want the good looking man whores

[Anonymous]

Is this a satire? In what world are girls more "entitled" to sleep around, as compared to men? If. a girl is entitled to sleep with 100 men, men are already entitled to sleep with 10,000 women.

I'd say men do get more shit than women for being virgins or sexually inexperienced. But I've never seen someone slut-shaming straight guys.

[Risslove]

Its looked down upon because men a lot of times lie to just have sex. They waste women's time. The whole I love you and basically tell women what they want to hear to get pussy. So if men were more upfront about what they wanted, i think it would be less looked down upon

[BuenoLeche]

I'm not sure if this is really as common today considering that there are so many women who are down for a dynamic in which only sex is involved. There's not reason to lead women on when there are so many women who are willing to put out with no strings attached. That's how I looked at it at least. I was always straight forward with my intentions

[Asker]

I can say now that no most men that sleep around don’t lie. Most women these days are easy. They are willing to go home with a random guy so long as he’s cute and she’s drunk. So no, it doesn’t take a lot to get girls these days. So your argument is invalid

[Risslove]

Some college women sure can do that. But the majority of women have a lot of problems because they're told what they want to hear. Guys get pussy and they're gonna. They don't want s committed relationship. Why not just say from the jump that's what you want? Because the women they're going after wouldn't just fuck.. They want relationships. So they have to fake it to make it

[Asker]

But most girls (especially at college) don’t want relationships and like to sleep around with random guys. So once again your argument makes no sense

[Risslove]

Im not talking about college girls at all. I'm talking about other women.

[Asker]

What other women? Most girls go to college. And college girls are little sluts. So most girls are sluts that have had countless dicks in them. But guys stoop get judged more

[BuenoLeche]

I've slept with a lot of women, and ended up marrying a quality girl. Guys aren't judged negatively for sleeping around for the most part. It's the reverse. Sure, I'll have radical religious nuts who are turned off by it, but they're of the minority.

If anything, me having a lot of sexual experience has worked in my favor. As soon as you display yourself in a way in which a girl can take you seriously, then all of a sudden that experience of sleeping around is seen a plus.

[Asker]

Or maybe she’s lying to you and she was the campus cum dump in college. You can’t trust these girls bro. How do you know she’s telling the truth?

[BuenoLeche]

Lol because I've known the girl since high school. I also don't equate quality to her body count. She's beautiful, intelligent, witty, and sexy as hell. Perfect GPA en route to med school. I think I did pretty well.

[Asker]

College girls are often skanks. Especially the highly educated ones.

[BuenoLeche]

You live your life on the internet dude. Go out and experience the real world.

[Risslove]

I agree college girls are way more known to just sleep around.

[Asker]

I graduated college. Trust me girls at college are sluts, no natter what they tell you. Their young, horny, single and there’s lots of hot frat guys dying to fuck them. College girls like cock.

[Risslove]

^ agreed

[BuenoLeche]

Yes, I went to a huge party school. I know how slutty women can be lol

[gobsmacked3]

The only judgment men get for sleeping around is being viewed predominantly as a 'stud' As compared to a woman being viewed as a 'slut'

Polar opposites

[Underduress]

Who the hell cares what anyone thinks? Just find new friends and solve that problem quick. If someone starts judging someone they are usually hypocrites that are worse or they are jealous, ft all.

[BonniePipers]

Women are studs!

[QueenofCups]

I have never seen this happen. A lot of girls are drawn to bad boys because they want to tame them. Even girls who should know better (like me) fall prey to this mystique once or twice.

[ShesAmerican]

that's because guys get praised for fucking but for a woman oh no she's a slut lol

[dwiller943]

Ummm... Women are actually judged more harshly.

[disgustingweebtrash]

Women like guys who sleep around

[Dimmu]

These are stuff made by woman so they can find someone after they are leftovers
They force these ideas and shaming tactics into society instead taking responsibility to their choices

Now calling a slut by the word slut is wrong , as if they don't exist

[Justin907]

Since when do guys get judged for sleeping around? New news to me

[Anonymous]

Most women would not date a man who sleeps around.

[Asker]

Exactly but most women sleep around and still expect men to date them