Why are guys so afraid of moaning during sex?

I honestly don't understand why so many men are afraid of making noise.

If a girl was riding me with her tight pussy, I know I would be reduced to nothing but whimpering and moaning as I filled her up with my hot, thick cum. And I wouldn't care if the neighbors heard me either.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, a lot of us are focused upon listening to *her* moans, to see if we are hitting her right places, so to speak. So we are quiet for that reason.

    • I would just let her guide me and tell me when I'm hitting her right. Also playing with her clit probably really helps.

  • Honestly I trained myself not to moan when I masturbated as a teen at home... and it kinda stuck.

    • Yeah, I'm only quiet when I have to masturbate with other people around. Otherwise I'm pretty vocal.

Most Helpful Girls

  • i don't understand why guys are afraid. i find it so hot. like it turns me on so fast and honestly makes me feel so wet. it's hot.

    • I agree. Like if she’s moaning that can turn me on more.

    • guys moaning are so hot like fuck that can make me so wet. like I've masturbated to audios of guys moaning

    • Same haha

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  • I don't know. I like it as long as it’s not excessive

    • I get what you mean, I can tell whenever a girl is obviously fake moaning in porn, and it's more of a turn off than turn on. I only moan whenever I feel really good. But you can tell it's genuine because I'll typically start shivering a bit, my and legs will get weak, and my eyes will roll back into my head as the pleasure makes it harder for me to control myself.

    • Yeah the genuine pleasure is what turns me on. Not some of the fake stuff in porn

    • It is unfortunate that most moaning in porn is fake. That is one of the reasons I turn the volume down in porn, I just find the fake moaning annoying and not hot at all.

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  • I dont get why they hide it if it comes naturally just go for it i think it adds to the pleasure just dont fake it

  • I’ve never heard any of my ex’s moan but it would be a little funny. My ex’s would either curse or talk dirty.

  • Well then my brother is the opisite of that, when he's in the shower you hear clap clap clap, after a a while gpes ahhh ahhh oooh,,,

    • wow, I guess he is loud in the shower

    • What is he clapping?

  • You should get into porn. They fucking LOVE to cast motherfuckers who can't fucking shut up.

    • 😂😂 Don't forget the majority of the porno focusing on the guy's ass and ballsack either.

    • That's why the only straight porn is lesbian.
      Why are guys so afraid of moaning during sex?

    • Yes, and solo porn of girls masturbating. I find it easier to imagine myself in the situation when it's solo videos.

  • Men dont yell out like women do

    • Why would anyone yell during sex? Lol.

    • Women do

  • I am not hehe

  • Most if us grew up masturbating in our parents house where they could hear us. We learned to keep quiet.

    • LOL true. You have no choice when you've got parents always listening.

  • moaning isn't a considered a manly sound.

    Grunting, or more animistic sounds are considered manly for men to make during sex.

    Moaning for others to hear might sound like the woman was too much for you, even if the moaning is good for her to hear.

    It is more about the type of noise for the neighbors to hear

  • I don’t understand it either. Make some damn noise and let us know it feels good. The last guy I slept with made no noise at all... nothing. It’s dead quiet during sex. No moans, no he’s y breathing. I’m lying there wondering if he thinks I’m lame. Does it not feel good? Is he not into me? Am I not sexy? Then he nonchalantly reaches down and pulls out and I can see him shooting off. Obviously he enjoyed it but he could’ve clued me in so I’m not wondering the whole time.