Why are guys so insecure about their dick size?

You guys need to learn to accept what you got
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  • Some men are insecure about their penis size because having a small penis is often considered an undesirable characteristic. Small penises are often the subject of many jokes and are often believed to be unable to sexually satisfy a woman compared to bigger penises. Because of that, some men might believe that entering a lasting relationship would be hopeless. Many women also claim that they prefer bigger penises and some would even break up with and/or shame a man when they discover that his penis is small. Because these men don't want to be the subject of ridicule, leave their partner unsatisfied, desire lasting relationships, and don't want to be shamed for their penis size, some men are insecure about it. By the way, it is 100% possible to "accept what you got" and still be insecure about it.

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  • I feel ever since porn has become so easy to get and watch online, men feel that what they see on the video is "real life".

    Women also fall into this trap.

    My man told me when he was in high school, in the locker room there were a lot of black guys and YES, most of them did have huge dicks..

    Since there is NO surgery that works to enlarge a penis, men just have to live with what they have. Us girls at least can get boob implants and other "surgery" to enhance what we have. Have lady parts you think are ugly, see a plastic surgeon to get them fixed.

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  • Why are girls so insecure about their breast, they should just learn to accept what they have... *im being satirical*...

    Its basically in the same category as women being insecure with their body, yet the discussion on dick size and breast size are often vastly different.

    A lot of guys are confident with their penis size and its never stopped them from satisfying a partner before but men largely antagonize other men about penis size. And sadly sometimes women encourage it.

    Men wouod appreciate some body positivity just as much as women appreciate it.

  • Because we learn about sex in porn. There most guys have big cocks and balls, so we start comparing. Most guys don´t have the same sizes. So we get insecure especially about the question if we could pleasure a woman with our cock.

    Telling us to learn to accept that doesn´t help. That´s like telling a woman whose insecure if she´s flat chested: "Get used to it." It doesn´t take the insecurity what helped me most is to learn that long cocks can be painful for women if they have sex in the wrong position.

    • Bigger cocks are easier to film. Just like bald pussies are.

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  • Because women and girls always talk about big dicks or at least that's what I hear.
    So for guys punching on the low or average size, we feel like girls will just not be satisfied with it

    • Nothing wrong with average size

    • Girls get jealous tho if 1 of their friends has a guy with 8". Like why ask why men are insecure if women talk about dick size to their friends?

    • I never talk to any girlfriends about their guys size

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  • Women are just as insecure about their butts and breasts and bodies. Men are the same, but it's about penises, then bodies.

  • Take a culture that constantly pushes the same ludicrously idealized version of their body that women get. Cut the intensity of that pressure by about 40%. Then remove 95% of the empathy that women get about it. Why WOULDN'T they be insecure?

    • Exactly this.

  • Ikr. Like we gotta accept our boob size.

    • A lot easier to change boob size.

    • Not really. Breast surgery is kinda dangerous.

  • Because they think every girl wants a 9 inch cock, and no matter how many times they are told that's not true there's still that lingering thought of maybe it is. Your dick is not for pleasing me, you are, I don't care how you do it, find a way. I've cum more times to a tongue and hot breath then I have a man's penis.

    • This kind of reply is the kinda reply that legitimately hits the nail on the head. I've had sex, made girls cum before even and still occasionally get insecure about "what if women are wholesale lying to save our feelings" It feels good that someone actually gets it.

  • I think it's the same reason as to why anyone is insecure about their body. Many of us love our bodies but we sometimes (for whatever reason) don't like a certain body part or "flaw" that we see.

  • Completedly agree. Werk what you own 😛💁🏻‍♀️ LOL

  • Why are girls so insecure about their boob size? You girls need to learn to accept what you got. Guys are insecure but very few ever have a penile implant; how many girls get boob jobs every year?

    • I'm not insecure about my body so I really couldnt tell you why women get surgery. I do know there are tons of women that get breast implants because they had cancer and want to feel normal again. For those that do it cause of insecurity I have no idea why

    • Most boob implants are not done as a result of breast cancer and a need for reconstruction after a mastectomy. Most are done due to simple insecurity. Both genders have some insecurities

    • Both genders have some insecurities about their anatomy based on misperceptions about what the opposite sex wants. Many, many girls think that ALL guys prefer huge boobs, the bigger the better; that is not true. There are as many guys who actually prefer small boobs as those who prefer big boobs, and an equal proportion who have no preference. Guys think that all girls want a guy hung like a horse but I have heard many girls say that a guy who is average (5 1/2") satisfies them and a bigger guy scares them because they are either afraid it will hurt or they have had the experience and it did hurt.

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  • Our Puritan-lip-service hypocritical culture DOES NOT promulgate sexual 'skill' and 'technique'
    in One's impressionable formative years (Saints forbid!)...
    it simplistically focuses on 'quantity' over 'quality' ... stuff it in and pump enthusiastically til you squirt! :(

  • Because women make men insecure about them, just like they do with height, income, and everything else. (Women also usually make women insecure, as well, as women are the worst people to women.)

    I'm not anti-female or anything; just spittin' truth, here. And yeah, I have a small one. But I don't care that much, cause I'd have to actually get a girl first in order to worry about that, and being less than six feet is more of a detriment to that than being less than seven inches.

  • Because they watch too much porn.

  • Porn rarely shows guys with an average sized dick. Its usually fairly large n in charge

  • every single movie and TV show (especially bad comedies) makes it seem like that's the most important thing

    • Yeah its really not that important at all

  • Please don't assume all guys are so insecure, and obsessive about this! I have been with a few women, and none have ever complained that they didn't enjoy our time together!
    Why is it always sex, for most guys? Most of the women I have known, even as just friends, say that they really love just being close, and sharing things together, and sex, penetration, and so on, is really not that important, and they prefer "Intimacy".

  • I think porn has a lot to do with ut but also there's a lot of girls and guys that body shame people for it even though it's wrong to do so no guy should be insecure about his size, if the girl really likes you and actually cares size won't be important to her.

  • now for for dick sizeing. is just like wemon doing boob sizeing. in anime. pretty much

    big cus big bad doctors cut off their forskins

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/e088fT9nZYo
  • I'm worried she might get hurt by it that's all.

  • Similar reason with females and their breast size.
    "You girls need to learn to accept what you got"
    Same with butts, waist, hands, feet, etc.

    • Oh dont you worry these hands and feet are absolutely magnificent!!! 🤲🦶🦶

    • Haha I'm sure they are. But what about after a workout?

    • They dont change after working out

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  • True

    However, women do like a larger than average size dick. And if we want to be a Bull or a part of a group scene, then the bigger the better.

  • I stopped being insecure about my dick size once I got out of that Teenie-Bopper stage where you do anything to be accepted.. The porn industry has warped peoples perspective on dick sizes since its more theatrical to see a large penis on the screen. Those that fall into the "porn trap" are the ones that purchase male enhancement gimmicks, or insist on a guy with a large penis.
    In reality, virtually any woman prefers skill over size any day of the week.

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