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Why are guys so into doing anal?

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I think that guys that push for anal with a girl might as well be into guys.
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  • I love having anal with girls, and men do not register on my attraction scale at all. But I've also invested a lot of time and energy in learning how to do anal well, and how to help the girl enjoy it, and as a result, the vast majority of my partners asked for it again by their own choice. That should tell you something.

    It's another way for both of us to experience pleasure - and a different kind for her for sure.

    Anyway, just as everyone isn't into the same food, or the same music, or the same movies, not everyone is going to be into the same sex acts, and that's okay. A couple of my past partners tried anal, didn't object to it or feel pain or anything, but just decided that it wasn't for them. Fair enough. But it also needs to be done right, with the woman's experience being the priority, at least the first few times (it seems common that girls need to do it at least 3 times before they really start to enjoy it), and a lot of men can't be bothered to do that, and I understand that women would not be happy about that. Done right, though, I believe that MOST women would enjoy it, as that's been my own personal experience, with roughly 48/50 liking it enough to ask for it again.

    In the even that you're still reading, I wrote this post years ago detailing my process:

    What's the best way to do anal sex for the first time?

  • Too much porn. The porn producers push sodomy with women because its the first step to being a homosexual. Or at least a psuedo-homosexual experience.
    Its how they get normal guys to do gay shit and become perverted.

    I agree with update.

    • Really happy some women agree with me

Most Helpful Girls

  • they like the tightness a lot of guys don't even want to use lube or any creams... plus it may hurt going in but once it's in it feels good you can feel everything... then there's the guy who wants to go deeper and deeper inside you and that hurts... you can even feel sore if you have a long session... the guy who takes strokes inside feels the best... i don't mind giving anal but not to everyone of course.

  • Yes! I wondered that too. My boyfriend wanted anal but I was hesitant for quite a while. I asked him straight up what the appeal was, and the only way he could describe it was that it was more "taboo". One day in the heat of the moment, I agreed to try it. He was very careful not to hurt me, but it's still not my thing lol.

    • was he able to get it in lol?

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  • Why My Partners and I Love Anal Sex ↗

  • It is tight and rare

  • I agree and so do a few others.. Its slick gay. And i dont see the appeal of playing in a shithole

  • We have seen here how obsessed guys are with their dick size and how in love with their cocks are they are. Pretty sure that extra snug space is a way for them to feel huge.

  • It depends what you mean. Guys like to receive anal because in their butt they have what's called a "p-spot" which is a guy's sweet spot. Giving on the other hand well, they probably just like it in general.

    • @pbandj_nerd have u done anal?

    • @MarkyMark77 The only thing I've done that could be considered anal is enemas. But that was pretty neutral for me.

  • Because statistically, women who do anal orgasm from it more often and report it being more intense then vaginal/clitoral orgasms.

    Kind of hard not to be intriqued by it when their normal orgasms involve them spasming, screaming, speaking in tongues etc. and then your told that this isn't the most intense orgasm they can have meanwhile my orgasm is essentially just a eyebrow raise and thats it.

    In addition as some women have explained it, its more intimate, they can feel when the guy cums in them and in turn the guy can feel when they climax so they feel more conected and more intimate. Then you have the naught factor and the fact that its something most women don't give away to just any one so its actually more special because you know your if not the first then one of the first to enter that part of her.

    As for the gay argument, thats stupid. Thats like saying since a guy likes a blowjob from a woman he must want a blowjob from a man, I mean thats just irrational across the board, it doesn't even make sense.

  • Guys that are very into Anal def have Gay Tendencies

  • Its taboo probably the only reason. I tried it with an ex and it was okay but I prefer vaginal sex better honestly.

  • I don't know that I am in to it when I've done it it has just happen I can tell you this it was maybe 6 months apart from each other I was doing at the time girlfriends in slow motion and kinda even happen the same way but felt something wet on my arm and stoped and relized they had been crying and said I'm so sorry you should have stoped me and they both said the same words. No no don't stop they are happy tears

  • Personally, I don't understand it, and WHY? She has the most perfect parts for loving, and some idiot wants to go Roto-Ruter, in the Garbage shoot? WTF?

  • The tighter the hole, the quicker they'll shoot from their big flagpole!
    (because it's far tighter than a poontang)

    • LOL 😆

  • It doesn't look appealing to me.

  • Nope, I don't like anal. Tried it and gotta say no.

  • I'm not, never was and doubt Ill ever be. Tho I'm not against it if my partner asks me to.

  • You must have a really nice butt because normally guys aren’t unless you have a great butt

  • over exposure to hardcore porn from an early age usually... its why older folks aren't that bothered about anal maybe

    • I disagree

    • @Guardian45 great

  • "I think that guys that push for anal with a girl might as well be into guys."

    I really do not understand this logic. So if a guy likes blowjobs he's gay as we'll cause guys have mouths? If a girl likes to be fingered she's a lesbian because girls have fingers?

    Nothing about it makes any sense, please stop trying to use it as "logic."

  • I can't be bothered that much about anal. My ex-girlfriend wanted to try it and we did it when I was 18. She even asked for it and she seemed to enjoy it when I fucked her ass. It was exciting as it was something new for us. I never had anal with any other girl ever since and I don't miss it. I've never asked or pushed for it with other girls. I would do it if they initiated it, but that never happened. And although my anal experiences were nice, I prefer pussy.

  • I'm not into anal but my ex-fiance loved it and could orgasm from anal so I did it to please her.

  • It's simple really. First of all, a very tight and strongly embracing hole is always a turn on for most of the guys. Then, it's something more or less different than regular vaginal sex. People love trying new things and living new experiences.

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