Why are guys so obsessed with girls watching them cum?

I used to go on chat apps a lot, and boys on there would absolutely beg girls to just watch them cum. No lead up, no flirting, they didn't even need to see me do anything sometime. Just jerk jerk splat bye. I've even had BFs who would ask me to hang out while they spank it before. I just don't get the appeal... 🤷‍♀️

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  • Porn... Porn... Porn!

    Most girls don't like it squirt which is what they want like my hubby adores me orgasming when he is inside or fingering me like I adore!

    He feels me pulse inside showing I came! Then it makes him do it! No women single online wants to watch random dudes grossly cum! It is all thier excitement 🤣We just sit look pretty and are bored! 🥱. I block any one who even attempts that or demands I send them nudes.

    There are 3 fake pinks and 3 dudes who scream I'm fake cause I said no to nudes or them jerking off.

    Don't want that ever yuck

    • Why are you even talking to other men?

    • @KrakenAttackin cause I wanted their comments but nothing more! Lmao most guys say what are you not giving them your nudes! Those losers deserve it

    • @roseysarah. You are married but you still want the attention of other men.

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  • As close as I can figure it, it's some type of fetish, like guys who like to shave girl's pubic hair or kiss on their toes. I've dated girls before that liked watching me cum, so I figure it's the same for guys who like a girl to watch them cum. To be honest, sometimes I feel embarrassed having a girl watch me cum. I don't know why. Maybe I'm shy about my body, but I sometimes get nervous about that part. I'm weird like that though!

    • I take a zero-tolerance stance on any type of offensive speech. If you are found to be using hateful or derogatory language, I will take it upon myself to report you. So, if you wish to stay out of trouble, think twice before you speak.

  • Most women don't want to just watch some random dude on the internet stroking it on webcam. However, a lot of women do love to watch a guy ejaculate if they are dating or know the person well enough. A lot of these guys trying to do it randomly might have got the idea to do this because at one point a woman really did want to watch, but they have gone overboard and want to show it to everyone.

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  • That is kind of strange, isn't it? I'm not too interested in having a woman watch me squirt, because you'd need a magnifying glass to even see my little tiny dicklet... lol

    • Aww poor little feller...

  • They are?

    • You have no idea...

    • I really don't lol

  • If girls are young an inexperienced, guys want to see their reactions.

    • That actually makes a lot of sense. What do you think is the ideal reaction?

    • Kind of shock and surprise.

  • We are? News to me! I prefer to cum inside of her so, how could she WATCH me cum when I'm buried deep inside her?

    • I'm talking more about online interactions

    • I see! Well, I've never dealt with that so, I know nothing about it.

  • No idea. I’d rather watch her cum

  • It’s a special gift they can give the girl if they can’t have sex. Sort of a personal shooting off the fireworks 😉👍

    • 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🎆🍆😫

  • I'm kinda new to sex but some girlfriends loved to watch me cum when they gave me handjobs. The orgasms were incredible.

    • #humblebrag

  • It puts the girl in a position of power. A guy's mind basically goes down to just that of animal when he's consumed by lust. The girl watching him is isn't involved/having sex so she's thinking clearly and is therefore much more in control and not mindless like the guy jerking off. Puts the guy in a sub role. The girl is smarter and much more in control than the guy is at that moment.

    • Wow, that's fascinating take

    • Better if the girl is into the dom role, too.

    • by the way what chat apps you use where you saw this? 🙂

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  • Because it tells me I have done a good job and you will feel happy and satisfied. :)

    • Huh? That you have done a good job whacking off? How would a girl feel satisfied seeing you cum?

    • Sorry, I misread your misread your question. But girls do it for same reasons. They like their man to be satisfied.

  • Not so much for me, her watching me do it, it's, her telling me to do it, and how to do it. JOI/JOE. I like being told that I'm allowed to do it, and even how to stroke it. Watching me do it, is just a bonus

  • Some girls like to see guys cumming , it makes them horny.

    • I'm not asking about the girls mindset though. It's different if someone is asking for it.

    • Some people like to watch other people having sex and other people like to be watched, it's just a personal choice.

  • guys are exhibitionist in nature

  • Not sure cause I'm not into it

    • At least you're honest

    • Yeah, I am