Why are men in the West such simps and don’t like virgins or want virgin wives?

Why can’t men have standards like the olden days and not settle for anything less than a virgin wife?

who wants women who had illicit sexual relations before marriage even? Nobody with self respect. I would not marry such a man.
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  • I agree. Thats why my girlfriend was a virgin but i had to search far and wide for her. Almost every girl is a skank.

    • Exactly! Pretty much every girl who isn’t genuinely devoutly religious is a complete skank. They don’t have self respect.

    • I know. They think its actually good to sleep around. Then they never marry and complain about being alone or marry a cuck who they can't stand and eventually divorce or marry a loser who has anger towards the whole situation and abuses them to cope with having a disgusting wife. And then think all men either won't commit, are unattractive wimps or abusive. Totally not the case. Thats just how men react to hos.

  • I am a virgin waiting for marriage. I hope to find someone like me to marry.

    • Very good

    • Thanks

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  • Live and let live ‘sister’. You stated your opinion, most people here see it differently, men as well as women. Mixing cultures comes with advantages as well as disadvantages. Your family’s cultural roots are most likely in the Middle East. Just know that what you feel ‘proudly’ is here considered backward and misogynistic. You wouldn’t convince us otherwise as most likely us not being able to convince you, so, have a nice day.

    • Middle eastern women are actually sluts. Only Indian women are holy and virgin.

  • There has been a guy posting here who is desperately looking for a woman in your age range who has no previous sexual history. He's willing to PAY! That's right, he'll take on a second job to support you.

    I ended up blocking thre guy, but If anyone remembers his user name, link it to Ms Sarahr123. I think that they will be perfect for each other.

  • They do like virgins and virgin wives. But they also like sex and want to have it before marriage. Girls aren't getting de-viriginized by themselves!

    PS: I'm worth a hell of a lot more than some little flap of skin between my legs.

  • What are you gonna do if you get married and then your husband dies? Be single forever because you're tainted now?

    • She’ll be ruined forever. And, apparently, her only worth is as a virgin and then a child rearing woman. So it’s all being pure, popping out babies, and dying.

    • In my culture women don’t tend to remarry because we are super dedicated to our husbands and I believe love onmy happens once so yes his memories are enough for me

    • well you're gonna be in for a shock thats for sure…

  • Why are men in the West such simps and don’t like virgins or want virgin wives? They probably do, however there are not many left by the time people in the West get married.

    Why can’t men have standards like the olden days and not settle for anything less than a virgin wife? Not enough virgins to go around and they would end up never marrying.

    who wants women who had illicit sexual relations before marriage even? Apparently its not a big deal in today's society.

    • Yeah. But I still think it's a big deal, though.

  • Exactly when in the golden age?
    have you got a year for that

  • About a hundred years ago 12th grade very last day of school. My very last class was history about 30 minutes before the class is over the teacher hands it's all a piece of paper. It had 15 questions on it we have 5 minutes to answer the questions.
    When we were finished we ended our papers back to the person behind this they handed it a person on their left this class had three of my best friends and probably about five or six the most popular girls and we all know each other and one of the questions when you get married will you would you rather marry a virgin or a nonvirgin. It was the hardest question on that test I thought about it. And said. well I'm going to be honest. And I wrote down virgin I knew my friends were going to give me shit but I didn't care one of the most popular girls was the one that got my end result test but when the teacher asked did anybody pick virgin that was the only person in the class it says I would rather have a virgin and I mean everybody looked at me and said what and I said yeah so what's the big deal. And I say the same thing right now. Don't get me wrong if I fall in love with a girl that's a non-virgin that doesn't mean that I wouldn't be with her that's for sure it is what it is. and eitherway I will behappy

  • I'm sure there are sooo many men here upset they don't live up to your standards. If you don't like the West, stay out of it.

    • When did I say I don’t like the West? There are a good number of men who will only marry virgins in the West but it’s disappointing that people have such low standards and that the total amount of those men aren’t closer to 100%. I mean hoes are completely being wifed up these days.

    • By all means, marry one of those virgins. Marry him and take him to a country where the majority of the country disapproves of such a lifestyle. Do it now. Please.

    • The man doesn’t have to be virgin. The woman does. Female virginity is of great value. A woman’s honour is more important.

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  • Wow you’re a prude girl. Get over it everyone is different. Nothing wrong with having a healthy Sex kids.

    • “Everyone is different” is a favorite saying of mine, and I truly believe it!

  • There isn't enough virgins to go around for that kind demands. Especially since women don't value virgin men. So that would require some women to be sacrificed to teach guys sex, but they would in turn never have a chance. See how the math doesn't add up. Having one chance in a lifetime to find a good partner is simply like saying that you want a world full of losers. Who benefit from that society? Especially in today's society where quality of people is plummeting rather than improving. Because that is the easy path. Do what you want, blame others for the result, and ask the government for help when you burned all your bridges.

  • People have different preferences. Some men want virgin wives but there are probably a lot who don't care if you're a virgin or not. And there's nothing wrong with having sex before marriage

    • But the one thing I will NOT do is have a child out of wedlock

  • Because most men are desperate insects that beg for any little scrap of pussy and female attention.

    Though, it's not like being a virgin is popular amongst females. Wanting a virgin woman is literally asking for too much these days. Ugly and gross virgins don't count.

    • You sound well adjusted. Totally don’t need therapy.

    • @okeydoke Do you have a counterpoint at all? Or are you just butthurt because I described you?

    • @okeydoke you’re the one who likes torn pussies lol you’re probably one of those men who wants to watch his wife have sex with other men. No standards. Who needs therapy now?

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  • Virginity does not define a woman. Men like women for who they are, not whether their hymen is still intact.

    by the way, in olden days, women weren't always virgins until marriage... that's a historical myth.

    • But there were more virgins overall than today. Today it’s only girls from ultra orthodox communities who are virgin.

    • @sarahr123 I'm not sure about that. Every woman is a virgin... until she isn't. Current times or hundreds of years ago. I think you may be swayed by movies and books that tell stories, not necessarily historical fact. by the way, every man is a virgin... until he isn't.

  • Good luck

    • 😉😉

  • I didn't know preferences made you a simp lol.

    I knew what I wanted in a wife, I set my standards, and I didn't compromise them. If you can't respect that then I don't want your respect.

  • Virginity matters only to the more sexually neurotic followers of the Abrahamic religions.
    With few exceptions, white men do not care.

    • I’m not a member of the Abrahamic religions. You seem to leave out Hindus and other polytheists. You do realise there are a lot of different types of people in the world?

    • @Sarahr123 Hindus…whose ancient temples are decorated with relief carvings of people fucking and who created the Karma Sutra. I thought that Hindus would not be hung up on virginity.

    • Indians culture is conservative. Sex is great but within the constraints of a sacred marriage and not with 100 men before marriage. Nobody said you can’t have sex. You just can’t be a tart.

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  • This is really stupid.
    I thought you were smarter than this.
    The only dick you need to care about is the one you want for the rest of your life.
    Don't insult a whole group of people just because you're an ignorant parasite.
    Marry your polygamist abusive greaseball and stfu about things you don't understand.

  • I'm from the west and having sex or not doesn't matter to me. I would be totally shocked if I met a virgin woman at my age. Her sexual experience isn't important at all to me. There's far more important things about her I look for.

    When it comes to sex with your partner, not every relationship or marriage works out for everyone. That's life and reality. Some have kids then it didn't workout. There's a lot of important intimate things to know about your partner and experience before marriage. Also marriage shouldn't even be a requirement, I don't require that from a woman I'll be with. What's most important is the love between us.

  • Because most women have become like that and the men have no choice left aside from dying alone

  • Lot's of men do have standards but can't find virgins anymore, they lose their virginity when they are young.

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