Why are men in the West such simps and don’t like virgins or want virgin wives?

Why can’t men have standards like the olden days and not settle for anything less than a virgin wife?

who wants women who had illicit sexual relations before marriage even? Nobody with self respect. I would not marry such a man.
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  • Lot's of men do have standards but can't find virgins anymore, they lose their virginity when they are young.

  • I think they're just trying to make life easier for themselves. Since 90-95% of the women in the West are not virgins.

    But I for one still prefer a virgin.

  • I can only speak for myself. And I don’t want a virgin wife because I’m not a religious fundamentalist who puts all importance on whether someone’s hymen has been stretched. I wasn’t going to buy her from her father with my non-existent cow dowry anyway.

    • Virginity is not religious. It is cultural too.

    • Give me one example where the cultural reason isn’t connected to religion.

    • In Hinduism there is no strict mention of refraining from illicit sexual relations. It is advisable not to partake in them but most women have historically refrained from it due to Indian culture. Yes Indian culture is deeply rooted in Sanatan Dharma but Hinduism is not a crazy contruct like Islam which threatens to kill women for fornication. It’s just a cultural taboo and women have very fragile honour that is very easily tarnished.

  • Because they have been programmed to toe the line that Used is Better than Brand New since New means Unproven. For me, personally, fresh picked fruit is better than processed food and a house built in uncharted territory than one on the freeway.

  • virginity doesn't matter. Its a dumb illusory concept that needs to be expunged from the worlds discourse. Its natural to want to have sex and if you meet a willing person to have sex with there should never be this pressure to have sex or not have sex. It should always be a free and enthusiastic decision made by both parties.

    tl;dr idgaf if someone is a virgin or not. As long as they are std free its all good in my book.

    • @still-alive I agree. I don't see why marital status matters when deciding to have sex or not

    • Hahaha bring it downvoters. Feed me with your hate! 😁

  • Yes men should rule over women and control everything they do like every Muslim its soooooooo obvious!! Those western men are so weak they can't control their women and actually gave them rights and treated then like human beings!! 🤦🤦🤦🤦

    • Well nobody is talking about Muslims here in fact we don’t like pissful community

    • Muslim and muslim countries are the epitomy of such beliefs so even though nobody is mentioning them the fact you talk about such beliefs automatically includes Muslims

  • WTF LOL. You're an idiot.

  • I don't judge people like that.

  • Stop impersonating an woman on the Internet and do something with your life.

    • Stupid cunt I am a woman. Why does your ass burn because not every woman likes simps like you?

  • I don't mind dating a virgin, she just won't be before I propose. It's increasingly likely that my future wife will be my only sex partner and I will be her only sex partner. I fail to see how that makes our relationship worse than if we waited until marriage before having sex. We've had as many sex partners as those that wait for marriage (supposing it lasts). So why is our's different?

    • Don't take this personally, because it isn't meant as an attack. (I like you and think you're a really cool dude.). The reason it's different theoretically is because doing it that way (your way) you have the CHANCE of it not working out and therefore making both of you nonvirgins in your next relationship. And you yourself know that there's a chance of it not working out sexually, because that's precisely why take such an adamant position on requiring your girlfriend to have sex with you before you marry her.

    • @Jamie05rhs I know it may not work out because close to 50% of marriages fail. So even those that wait for marriage may not be virgins in their next relationship. The sex thing is because ssx is just for fun with me. I won't get her pregnant and if she doesn't like it with me there is no point because I won't give her a child.

    • @Twalli It is definitely true that marriages failing is a huge problem. But I think sex would be a small wedge in the pie of all of the numerous reasons why marriages fail.

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  • Then it seems you're in agreement with those men. You don't want them and they don't want you so why complain?

  • But do you expect a virgin guy in return?

  • The West is experiencing decadence before the inevitable and brutal fall.

    • Looks like some disagree

    • It's not a matter of opinion

  • what make sex feels good it is not about she is virgin or not
    it is about how wet she can be , wetter=better

  • Because western women have the right to have sex to, so, there might be a few less virgins around. its called being normal and guys are o. k. with normal, most of the time

  • Yeah! Us men should take back all those stupid rights we gave to you chicks. Let’s start with burning sluts at the stake. Eh?

    • I’ll be there to watch and believe me I know a lot of people who will support it

    • @sarahr123 so you’re ok with losing your rights? Making you and all women back into second class citizens?

    • @Still-alive umm life has pretty much always been even worse than that for me and other women in my family so I don’t really care I mean it can’t be worse than what I already face

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  • I've had 2 virgin wife's through out my life so far. 12 children later , I look at how virgin in all areas both were. Both were\are the best 2 women ever in my life. But not just virgin physically , but character and personality also.

    • What happened to the first one, if you don't mind me asking?

    • Tragic passing overv5 years ago. Remarried after

    • @Djaay I'm very sorry, sir.

  • Then don't... your choice

    • Of course I won’t. I just don’t understand why they have such low standards as to settle for damaged goods. A pussy that another man has cummed inside. That another man stuck his chopstick in. Or multiple men for that matter.

    • Maybe it's not that big of a deal as you are making it out to be.

    • Luckily the men in my culture for the most part do think it is a big deal

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  • I would take someone who has cardinal knowledge and experience who can teach me new things and can explore things together, rather then a virgin who you are explaining everything to and they don't know what they like or don't like

  • interesting to know even women like you still exists

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