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Why are men obsessed with assholes?

So during sex my boyfriend likes to stick his thumb in my ass! Why is this so attractive to men, and what is so a rousing about it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I admit, I do like Screwing my girls ass, I don't know if it's a gay thing or what, but I love seeing her big bubbled and round butt and it's an added pleasure being able to penetrate her sweet round ass. I've heard other guys talk about tightness while it's true that's not it for me. I'm attracted to it because her ass looks sweet and I can do more than slap, squeeze, bite, and grope her sweet ass. Ask for giving her ass a toung lashing I haven't reach that level yet I reserve that for her even sweeter vagina.

    I've heard a lot of girls don't like it luckily my love is not one, I can't say how it feel to be a girl if she likes the guy but hates that he wants to do that.

    I suppose all us ass need some time in prison to understand how it feels for a women.

  • I really like your handle, by the way.

    I'm very anal and also quite kinky with a very strong dominant streak and a taste for S&M. For me, it's about dominance and submission first and foremost. It's very hard to debate who's in charge when he's fucking you up the ass. I also like that it hurts but she loves it because it hurts good. Lastly, it feels amazing.

    Have you tried anal sex?

    • Yes I have

    • Do you like it? If so, what about do you like?

    • At first I was not a fan and always scared, when done with "care" it can actually be quite pleasant.. I feel that this helps to better stimulate my G spot. I also am a pleaser and I love that it makes a man hay and drives him crazy

Most Helpful Girls

  • usually guys find it arousing because it's a part of the female body he doesn't get to experience often. but it seems kinda gross cuz that's her shit pipe. i also think it's cuz guys are just naturally sexual beings that anything sexual to them is pleasant

    • You're up for a harsh reality!

    • @Asad1ONE1 hey, that's what my boyfriend said for this question as an answer so how am i up for a harsh reality?

    • Exactly! Him. Everyone has different levels of sexual arousal and desire. It is not a Gender thing. You or many women are going to be disappointed of the reality that men as a whole aren't hypersexual contrary to popular belief. It depends on the person.

  • It's attractive to him because anal can feel really good (to anyone) and he probably had partners in the past who liked it.
    Lube helps!! a lot.
    I'm a girl who loves and asks for anal, so blame chicks like me.

  • They're cute that's why. My boyfriend loves licking mine and I love having him do it.

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  • It's because we know there is another hole right there that can give you a different kind of pleasure, and we want to experience that with you. Plus it's dirty/kinky, and who doesn't like that?

  • not all men are and I'm ok with it. if you don't want him to do it tell him stop

  • It's often un-ventured territory. I suppose that could be why.

  • Not this man. I know what comes out of there. I don't like my own, much less someone else's. (Don't get me wrong. I'm glad I have one that works, but it's purely utilitarian.)

  • It's a hole and many man likes holes.

  • in my case doesn't attarct me at all its disgusting 👌

  • porn.

    you want him to stop?

    don't take a dump prior to the next heated moment.

    • That's gross lol.

    • No I love it it drives me crazy, I just don't know what it is that attracts a man to it, I think it was weird at first but dayyyuumm!

    • @RJGraveyTrain you mean shits gross

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  • I don't know.. it's disgusting

  • I am not one of them. I am definitely not an ass man and I definitely don't find anything about an ass arousing but hey, to each their own.

  • The question should be why aren't girls obsess with assholes, like guys

    • To answer your question, it's just in their nature to be aroused by moldy poo smell and what that hole is for..

    • We're not lol

  • I can't explain it, but if I've showered with a partner, I enjoy using my fingers and tongue to stimulate them anally. There is a certain taboo attractiveness to it, I guess.

  • Naughty, variety, sexy.

  • That s too much info to know rn but fine
    Gulp...
    He thinks it turns you on more

  • They're not. Your guy has been watching a little too much porn - they make it seem like butt-sex is all the rage and everybody is doing it. [shrug]

    Just tell him 'no' if you don't like it. Some really do - big O's. :)

    • I disagree very very much. I am older and do not watch much porn at all. Anal was even a turn off until my late 20's/early 30's. But once I tried it I loved it. And luckily my wife at the time loved it. So from then on she usually wanted a finger in her ass if I was eating her out of when she was blowing me. It is a turn on because of the "forbidden" part of it. I am sure there is a dominance thing in there somewhere also. But I think it has very little to do with porn for most men. Esp anyone 40 or older.

    • @godfatherfan - Well you completely misunderstood then, nor have you seen my other posts on the subject. In any case, how can you disagree with a woman that doesn't like it telling him 'no'? That stats are that about 10-15% like it and about 30-35% that tolerate it for their man. It's not as common as you might think it is. And I don't know how you can deny that porn glorifies it.

  • It’s a taboo thing and drives some women wild when we do it.
    The clit and anus are the two areas of most concentrated nerve endings in a woman’s body, as each hole it has it's own different feeling. :)

  • thinking of ass fucking is not my type.. allthough i am still a virgin but i have never even think about it..

  • Not be but I do like the butt cheeks.

  • I've never been with a girl who didn't enjoy that extra bit of anal stimulation during

    • Well it is pleasing... just not quite sure why most men like it

    • I like that fact she enjoys it. plus I'm a bum man and love anal so that to haha

    • what @Daniel said

  • An extra hole to fill!

  • sometimes it helps to get a female off

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