Why are men so dumb?

nelly83 Xper 6

I have a doctor who pays me 120-150 per hr to massage him then jerk him off. He says he hadn’t dated in long time and I asked why. He said he’s too busy and also too picky. Nowadays everyone just goes on tinder for sex Ans the app is free. even on his ad, he pretended he needed help bathing and dressing when he really needed a jerking off ans a massage.

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He kinda complains about the price too

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He pays me weekly

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roughntuff1993 Xper 4
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He’s not dumb, he’s just submissive. Lots of men with high stress jobs with demanding responsibilities like to hand over the reigns once a while. Why would you complain if he’s paying well? It sounds like he’s learning to be comfortable in this role. Take the easy money or leave and quit complaining
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Marcuslrh Xper 7
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Am not sure why your calling him dumb but he could definitely get a better price on the service your giving no doubt that's probably why he complained about it a little online search and he could get more than that for the price he is paying so a guess that makes him dumb for paying so much💁‍♂️
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Bandit74 Master
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The average guy can't get casual sex on tinder as easily as the average woman is. If a guy is wealthy with a busy schedule it is a a smarter choice to just pay a prostitute for garanteed sex than to waste hours on tinder only to get rejected or ghosted.
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BarryMcKohkner Xper 5
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Sounds like an easy job if you don't mind the work. I've worked harder for less money, and didn't get to see the opposite sex reach orgasm. Depends on your mindset really
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Truthatanycost Master
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The water has found its own level.
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0112358 Master
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Unless he’s really hot, he’d have to invest a fair bit of time getting action on tinder. $125 is cheap compared to his time.
It’s also possible that he doesn’t want to offer this for that. He wants what he wants, on his schedule.
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- nelly83
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  It doesn’t take much time to get a hookup on tinder. He works 9 hours a day.
- 0112358
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  Like 1 in 15 or so guys I’ve known can basically turn on tinder and get laid. Half or more can’t get anywhere with it at all. The rest need to message a lot and chase a lot of dead ends to get anywhere. My assumption is he’s in that middle group. Sure the successful hookup may not take long but he’d have to message tons of women to get that success.
TeeSquare Xper 6
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He just likes the massage and that you jerk him off. If he's happy paying you then enjoy it. I'm sure you're not complaining. Plus it might be just easier to have you get him off vs having to wait for sex
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- TeeSquare
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  In response to your update, that's his problem. If he want to pay less, you just stop earlier. If its 125 to cum, then any cheaper means he doesn't cum. Simple as that.
- nelly83
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  I can make him cum. It’s no problem. I’m good at what I do. But what is dumb is why pay 125-150 per week when you can just get one for free on tinder.
- TeeSquare
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  I'm guessing he doesn't want to put any effort into it, and you satisfy his cravings. Obviously he doesn't care about the money
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- nelly83
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  He satisfies me too
- TeeSquare
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  Then all is good right
chriscdi Master
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so you are prostituting? um alright, ill pretend i didn't read it
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hellacray Guru
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I'm confused how is he dumb? Seeing how many typos in your description I'd say you're probably dumber than him.
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- nelly83
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  Typos don’t mean anything. I’m just lazy when it comes to typing
- hellacray
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  So you'd rather come off as stupid than to fix your typos? Good to know.
- nelly83
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  Why would I care to fix my typos? I’m not writing a cover letter for a job. I can type however I want
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- hellacray
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  That's very true, but I think you're missing the point. You can't complain about men being dumb when you seem to be just as dumb if not dumber.
- Games_
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  Here comes the English teacher browsing the internet. Why do u care about spelling and grammar
- hellacray
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  Did you not read the question? If you're just as dumb you shouldn't be asking why men are dumb.
- Games_
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  Ok but im not tryna write a professional paper online. Go become a English teacher if u wanna correct everyones grammar and shit
- nelly83
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  @Games_ i know right.
- hellacray
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  Lol are you throwing a fit because you're dumb and failed English? And I still think you're missing my point. But then again I'm talking to two idiots. Anyways employers are going to care if you know how to type. If you don't I guess you can be a massage therapist like Nelly and start jerking guys off for $150 a week.
- Games_
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  Im a idiot because i dont wanna waste time making a perfect sentence? Fuck off retard
- Games_
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  Its crazy how u still understand my poor sentences
- Games_
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  OH WOW MY EMPLOYER IS GONNA LOOK AT HOW I TYPE ON GAG, U SOUND SO STUPID BRO
- hellacray
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  No... He's going to look at how you type on your resume. And possibly at work if you actually get a job that involves typing. Well don't worry bro.. Plan B become a massage therapist and jerk guys off. Who knows maybe you can land an even better job by being good with your hands. Nelly can be your mentor. She sounds like a pro.
- Games_
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  Your retarded, obv if im writing for a job ill use actual grammar and good spelling. Instead of arguing with me, why dont u go grade those fucking English papers
- hellacray
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  Hmmm interesting do you also only drive safely if a cop is around? Do you buy insurance when you need it? Sure I'll grade them are you going to pay me? Did you ask Nelly to train you yet? Actually maybe you should be training her since I'm sure you get plenty of practice every night.
- Games_
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  You sound so stupid, how the hell does driving and typing have anything in common. Imagine trying so hard to win a internet argument
- hellacray
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  I don't have to try buddy. You're doing a fine job losing by completely missing the point.
- nelly83
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  If it makes you feel better , I am in grad school. Just cus I don’t care to type nicely for u , it doesn’t mean I have never been to school. And u probably know this too, you just hate the fact that the guy in this q was so dumb af
- hellacray
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  I've seen professors write and say stuff that's pretty stupid so... Good for you for being in school that's at least better than what some other dumb people are doing. Well you actually you never answered my original question. How exactly is he dumb? He pays you to jack him off. Big deal...
- Games_
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  he's losing his mind. Rage more
- Games_
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  Look at my above sentence, i didn't capatilive my H and my I in this message isn't capatalize. You gonna go insane?
- nelly83
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  @hellacrayI know if i am dumb or not. I don't need you to tell me. Maybe you're dumb which is why you're so desperate to shit on others?
- nelly83
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  @Games_ He just has self esteem problems. Just ignore him. There is a saying " You can look taller by cutting the heads of others around you"
- Games_
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  he's insane i think, he lost his mind
- Games_
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  Im ignoring him from this point
- hellacray
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  Just FYI no need to cut heads when everybody else is already so short.
joeldalton Master
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$125 is cheaper than a nice meal on a date and he cums. How’s that dumb? He also doesn’t have to put up with your bullshit the next day.
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- nelly83
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  Never heard of a hookup on tinder?
- joeldalton
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  You still got to talk to them at some point.
- nelly83
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  Doesn’t take much talking. More like 10 minutes.
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- joeldalton
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  Vs. 0 with you and he doesn’t have to work around your schedule.
- nelly83
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  Some people never talk before a hookup on tinder. Typical conversation is: do you want to have sex? Ok , let’s go fuck How much talking is that
- joeldalton
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  More than he wants to do. Why do you care? You’re getting paid.
- nelly83
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  I’ll just take advantage of his stupidity
- joeldalton
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  And he takes advantage of you being a whore.
- nelly83
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  Everyone is a whore nowadays. Sorry to break the truth to you
Clyde_123 Guru
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Are you saying he is dumb because he is paying you money to jerk him off? What price does he want?
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Dave31989 Yoda
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ask republicans
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888theGreat Master
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How many other guys do you "jerk off"? How much you charge blowing them?
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Valnac Guru
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I smell a Troll in here!
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jirwin7979 Yoda
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i am a guy and i am far from dumb i fix cars build high end gaming computers i dont fully understand why you asking why are men so dumb... it makes me think you dont like men but i dont judge anyone if they have a good heart than whats the issue
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Hotboy_booblover Yoda
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It would be difficult for u to understand this unless u r a man
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Wastedsinc15 Xper 1
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Mmm im not sure😂😂😂 but id pay more if i penetrated and came weekly☺.
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Anonymous
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- Im not quite sure why ur calling him stupid. I had an almost identical situation a while back and for me and probably him its probably something that just works best for his situation. He gets what he wants and you make out even better. I assume he gives you oral if you're getting satisfied too so you make out better and makes it easy and drama free for him. Price is a little cheaper on average than i was giving so he shouldn't whine lol
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Anonymous
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you're actually dumber than he is
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Anonymous
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It's just the way men are made.
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Anonymous
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Tinder isn't as easy to get laid as it use too or I'd be able too. Tell him to get an escort on. Adult work, it will work out cheaper for him
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Anonymous
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Another whore asking why men are dumb. lol
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- nelly83
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  Everyone is a whore nowadays
- Opinion Owner
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  No, they're not. You clearly are though.
- nelly83
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  Nothing wrong with being a whore. I get to enjoy sex and get paid for it. why not? Only losers have sex for free.
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- nelly83
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  If a guy were doing this, you would congratulate him. But a woman is doing this so you're calling her a bad name. I get pleasured dude, you don't. so don't tell me you're better than me.
- Opinion Owner
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  Nah, I get pleasured plenty. I fucked my girlfriend up the ass last night, and she didn't charge me a think for it because she's not a whore like you. Society has always looked down on whores and it always will, for good reason.
- nelly83
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  Society no longer looks down on whores. Only sexist assholes do. Nothing wrong with sex if practiced safely. What do you really have to lose?
- nelly83
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  Just wait till the times when you’re single and desperate for a woman. You’d be wishing you were me
- nelly83
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  “Whores” are really popular nowadays. Just in case you still thought it was still 2005.
- Opinion Owner
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  "Society no longer looks down on whores." Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah. You are fucking hilarious.
- nelly83
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  It’s true. Funny how hurt you are about it. 🤣
- Opinion Owner
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  I'm not hurt at all. Just amused by your silly claim that society no longer looks down on whores. I laughed pretty hard all over again about that one. lolol.
- nelly83
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  It is this way in all most modern cities in the US. NYC, CAThe only places that looks down on “whores” is the Midwest where everyone is still religiously catholic and where girls don’t go to college and are expected to become housewife with 4 kids by the age of 25. Only sexist locations are like that. Not modern places
- Opinion Owner
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  No, not really. Where I live in Los Angeles, one of the most progressively liberal cities in the nation, whores are looked down upon just like anywhere else. People are just less likely to talk about it, but everyone judges them harshly, for obvious reasons, and they always will.
- nelly83
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  Nahh... I have been to LA, everyone is a whore there. Men and women. In every modern city, sex or hookup culture is very common and celebrated. The more famous the city, the more hookup culture you see. Its extremely common. The only places where hookup culture is frowned upon is one of those tiny , white , Christian, suburbs where girls don't go to college, get married at the age of 21, pop out 4 kids by the time she is 25, housewife, never worked a day in her life. The town only probably has 300 people, everyone goes to church on Sunday.
- Opinion Owner
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  You're "been to LA" before? LOL! I grew up here and I live here and I know the people. Are there whores here? Sure, just like anywhere in the world. Is everyone here a whore? Hell no. The vast majority of people in LA, and CA as a whole, are normal people who see whores for what they are and look down on them, as they should. Whores are among the lowest forms of life in the planet.
- nelly83
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  LA is just like NYC. The more modern the city, the more likely that hookup culture is celebrated. I think its just your family culture where your parents taught you casual sex is bad. But in reality, casual sex, hookups are EXTREMELY common nowadays. Just go on social media, take a look at many of the questions on here and you will see it. You must be living under a rock to not know this. But I really have nothing to lose having casual sex. I get sexually fulfilled, practice safe sex. You can go masturbate daily to porn for all I care. At the end of the day, I am the happy one.
- Opinion Owner
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  You dumbass, you have no clue what a whore is. LMAO!
- nelly83
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  I think the dumbass is you. there's nothing wrong with casual sex as long as practiced safely. I don't know why you make such a huge deal about it. Go back to 1920.
- Opinion Owner
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  Being a whore has nothing to do with casual sex, you moron. A whore accepts money for sex. You are truly clueless. And a whore.
- nelly83
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  whats wrong with accepting money for safe sex? you jealous that some pretty ladies get to make money the easy way while you have to slave? you know you want to do it too which is why u hating
- Opinion Owner
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  You think that people despise whores because they wish they could be whores too? LMAO.
- nelly83
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  You despise cus you’re jealous. You have no other reason to
- Opinion Owner
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  Yeah, I am "jealous" of you the same way I am jealous of any other lowlife scum. lol
- nelly83
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  We all know you have no legitimate reason to hate on us. anyone with a brain knows that
- Opinion Owner
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  There is a reason the term whore is universally used as an insult.
- nelly83
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  Because of the history of patriarchy where women are not allowed to embrace their sexuality or claim they love sex. If a woman does embrace her sexuality, then she has committed a crime. here's the truth: women are supposed to have a sexuality, not dress like she's going to church 24/7. The term "whore" is also going non existent nowadays. Its no longer commonly used or celebrated in the media.
- Opinion Owner
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  Why do I have to keep reminding you of the definition of the term whore? It has nothing to do with having lots of sex, and it doesn't even have anything to do with having sex with lots of partners. Being a whore means selling sex, nothing more and nothing less. Please, don't make me remind you again. The term whore will never go away because there will always be whores, just like there will always be murderers and mental illness. Selling sex will always be distasteful to humans at their core, and whores will always be looked down upon by the majority of people. I understands that you, as a whore yourself, are hurt by that fact and want to believe it's not true, but that doesn't change the facts. I'm really tired of this exchange and am putting it on ignore now. Buh bye
- nelly83
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  Whore means someone who has lots of sex , not just selling sex. I know for a fact the term “whore” is getting increasingly outdated. Give it another 10 years and most young people won’t even know what it means. Haha Feel bad? you're just the by product of sexist patriarchy.
Anonymous
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How come he's dumb? So you rather do it for free?
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