Why are men so horny over messaging?

I can’t talk to a guy for a few days with them be randomly horny in a conversation like why? Like I’m asking how’s your day and you send me a dick sticker emoji come on. I want a good Interesting conversation with these so called men but some just want to do other things. It’s very annoying and not every woman’s that. At least be cute or sexy about it to get the party start.
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  • That shows he doesn’t truly care about any other aspect of your life but to use you to get off. That’s unfortunate. I talk to a few women and I live talking for hours about all sorts of stuff from goals, hobbies, career, homesteading, gardening, politics, guns, etc. Every once in a while the timing can be that we both get hot and bothered but even then I’m very sure she is too before we venture down that path. And of course it turns out very sexy in the end. But she knows that she is respected and valued and that I take a genuine interest in her as a person instead of just think with my brain below.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't know, it is the last thing on my mind when messaging someone. Is it a young guy thing, or am I just weird?

    I just find there is sooooo much more to talk about than just your body parts mashing:

    1) Hey what did you do this weekend...

    2) What are you taking in school...

    3) What are you reading...

    4) Where's a good place to get a bite, these days...

    5) Do you like getting outdoors and what have you done lately...

    6) Did you see the game this weekend (not one that I care about, but someone may be interested in "the game")...

Most Helpful Girls

  • Same reason women may drop hints they're horny; they are horny. And when you're horny, you don't use your brain, you use your genitals

  • Those kinds of men are very immature. It happens on here too, all they want is sex chat. It is very tedious.

    • As a guy when I get the same messages on here I know it’s out of desperation ! :)

    • Exactly, it’s so easy for them to just shoot out a text and hope a girl responds positively. The risk of rejection, at least in real life is gone. So they feel it’s easier to just be crude and if it doesn’t work they just ghost

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  • Guys are absolutely fascinated with a woman's sexual encounters with other guys, and our excitement is even more pronounced if we're not getting any pussy ourselves. Nothing in this world drives me crazy as much as hearing a woman describe in vivid detail her most recent lovemaking session with her boyfriend.

  • What conversations did they start that ima have to finish, let's see what topic y'all been talking about

    Why are men so horny over messaging?
  • Many guys, are energized by girls intimately discussing sexuality enough to sometimes abandon good judgment. If you want a serious conversation about Shakespeare or whatever, better to avoid drifting into sexuality. It's like sex on the first date. Many guys think about nothing else and it ruins conversation.

  • Not all guys are like that but it may seem that way as men are by nature hunters and their instincts are telling them to procreate which admittedly makes guys fairly horny by nature. Feel free to dm if you just want some friendly chat.

  • I am sorry you feel that way. I am sure there are plenty of mature men you can talk to.

    • I know there is. it just sucks sometimes

    • Yes, I am assuming it is the guys you are attracted to that send you those messages. A lot of times the guys women are attracted to is not the best guy, but then there are the other guys who are pick me a** dudes. It is hard and I understand why you feel that. I can't imagine what you are going through right now.

  • follow up question: why do men? 😭

  • Guys often are a slave to their hormones and don’t know how to interact when they feel horny. But if you are getting direct crude messages or pics it’s often from an immature guy who hasn’t learned the value of connection and emotions and is objectifying you. How do you feel and react when they do that?

    • I don’t understand like there other platform that can help those needs better. I mean I’m okay with sexting a few times but I don’t care if your horny when you first open your eyes In the morning. Anyways if it’s something I don’t feel comfortable I asked why do it and that I didn’t like it or not replying back for a good minute or two to move on from it lol.

    • Lol valid points. I’ll say that according to science guys have the most testosterone first thing in the morning (morning wood is a thing). So that’s one reason you would get it early. But ya I get it if you don’t feel comfortable as many guys go from zero to 100% Sexting instead of easing into it

    • Yep other platforms. Porn is free all over the inter webs so guys can take care of it on their own. Guess if you are actually good at Sexting (kinda rare) the guys are excited anc think the mere site of their thang is all it takes. I can remember once being young dumb and full of.. so I get it

  • Some guys don't know how to have a normal conversation without bringing up sex. It's all they can talk about. There is so much more that you can talk about than sex

  • Girls have that magic touch of words. That's life ever lasting 🙂

  • Like to talk about sex

  • Because men are 24/7 horny creatures.

    • I mean, he’s nude and horny, so he’s got a point.

    • And up for late fun

    • Always

  • When you talk sexual, he will be horny

  • Because men will get some kind of pleasure in that talks so they wanted that sex chats

  • I hate those types - save it for the bedroom.

  • Because it’s in our nature. Unfortunately in the wild, the male mates with as many females as possible to ensure his offspring/his dna continues long after he is gone. It’s usually the strongest or smartest male because he had to constantly defend the females and drive out unworthy and lessor males

    • Also we are hoping it catches on, and you will send a sweet cleave shot, or a little crack showing in that booty pic!!

  • Because 99% of people we meet we don't like but men will smash 99% of women. If he isn't talking to you like a human then he doesn't care about you

  • A few days? Usually it/s a few minutes.

  • Lots of guys, particularly those online, haven't touched a woman. It's basically hormones minus relations with girls plus no face to face contact with girls = what you got 😂