Why are men so insecure about having an average sized dick?

Question

I've never seen so many men worried that their dick size is AVERAGE, than I have on this app. Like forreal y'all need to chill. Your dick size is fine.

I know this isn't a fix to insecurity. But I'm pretty sure this app gets a "is my dick small/do women like average dicks/ is 7 inches okay?" Questions at least one or two times a day.

Yes. Your dick is fine.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

the current avenues of porn, tv, movies, magazines, all give men insecurities.

before the computer age, men did not see other guys' dicks in magazines, unless they were gay. And not seeing them, they had not point of comparison.

Just like women forever complain about having small boobs. Tv, movies, etc. glamorize the need for big boobs.

and Average nowadays, per science and other facts, is 6-7" long.

if a guy is only 4-5.5" long, then he is small.

A guy needs to be secure in himself, find a woman that is okay with his manhood (not a size queen like me. I admit it!), and enjoy life with her.

and he needs to stop watching porn and putting himself down comparing to a tiny percentage of the male population that has a driving need to be an exhibitionist.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Society has put shit standards on people and it came from the crazy porn standards. Hell, even some of my female friends fall for these ridiculous standards. My friend thinks that 7 inches is the smallest she'd ever go for and that under 7 is too small but she's a virgin and has a very unrealistic view on male anatomy. I'm a virgin too but I understand that 7 inches is an above average penis size. Besides, I've heard that a huge cock can be painful for some women and that average is a good safe zone. People will always be insecure about this shit sadly. Same thing with women who have nice bodies being afraid that they're not skinny/thick enough, that their boobs aren't good enough etc etc.

pierre7i · Accepted Answer

I've never asked that kind of question, though I have to admit I've answered a number of them - but only when asked by female GaG members !
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And why I'm happy mine's a bit longer than average -- just over 7" -- is that a number of girls have told me it's a very good size because it's not too small, not too big and is aesthetically pleasing appearance-wise
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So many guys here claim the size of their dicks are way above average, or 'really big' or even 'huge', and quite rightly many girl's on GaG do not believe the exaggerated sizes they quote*Tbh, I jyst can't understand why anyone would claim a longer/bigger measurement than they actually have because, to put it simply, they are only deluding themselves

hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

Don't know, I have an average dick (because you know, on average men's dicks are average) and have had no issue with it, no complaints etc. For them it could be due to porn giving unrealistic expectation (those guys aren't even as big as they claim, its camera angles and the fact that the girls are usually below average height giving the appearence that they are much larger.), or it could be that they are young and insecure (no different then all the women who are obsessed with breast size (for every dick question you get a breast question)). So that would be my guess.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

Because if it was too small then they would have to spend more money on an expensive car or powerful weapon to compensate. Not every guy can afford to do that.

razelove · Answer

I'd say those are about equal to the "how do I look" questions women post. Many young people are simply insecure... and some older people too. It's not like there's a dick growing fertilizer or pill, same with magic tittie cream that makes those bigger.

We have the bodies we have, grow confident in them, or I guess just live with internal conflict.

DaisyM23 · Answer

😂😂

HugoThe2nd · Answer

Lol, because they are aware that they don't have either the charm or personality to make up for it.

They think men with bigger dicks get women just because they have bigger dicks, just like that.
Their personalfailures can't possibly have anything to do with them having the vocabulary of a caveman, psychological stability of a boiling teapot and the intellectual depth of a Saharan puddle.

Lliam · Answer

Mine is average and I've never had a girlfriend who wasn't very pleased. One girlfriend, a hypersexual goddess, acted like I was a sexual god.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I think many guys are looking for an excuse to not try dating. It is easier to say "I can't date because I have a little dick (and I have no control over that so can't be blamed)" rather than "I can't date because I'm a little chicken shit who's scared of women."

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah it is rather funny  the usual response should be , yes your dick is fine, but you are toxic etc

ohshee · Answer

Time after time question after question the point is still being missed

#1 and only if the guy is only thinking about himself GOOD BYE ITS OVER
Meaning if you don't know how to use it
IF you don't know how to touch
. IF you can't control cumming
IF you you only think about cumming
. IFyou have no passion
. IFyou don't know how to tease or seduce
IF you don't know how to kISS
IF you don't know how to do any of theses things it doesn't matter what size dick you have it's over

summiter · Answer

I agree with you. As lomg as the thing works and you get great orgasms why worry about the average size

JackSmy · Answer

Who said? Which guys are you talking about? Young, 20's and 30's guys that don't really know shit?
I have been with a few women, and many times, I don't even need my penis to get them to have incredible orgasms!!
Why is it all about sex, anyway? Oh, young kids, and not enough life experience!! Later, you realize that there are many other things, as a couple, that are so much more fulfilling, and satisfying, than intercourse!

modelUN242 · Answer

Same reason why girls are self-conscious about their private area, chest, and butt.

slatyb · Answer

I never have been. I'm dead average. When I divorced and started dating, I never worried that women would find it inadequate. Instead I was surprised to be told that I was a wonderful lover. I never imagined that I was anything special, but women told me how rare it was to find a man who paid attention to them.

kkirk4442 · Answer

It's funny, how many men lie about their dick size, so they can be seen as more manly.

Libbers · Answer

Lol. It’s normal. Not only guys girls are all worried about their tits too. Everyone needs to be happy with what they got.

Bricealan · Answer

"Peachy" the question gets asked by guys hoping they can hook up here on GAG. Not insecurity, just trolling for what they think will get them laid.

ceciliamrs222 · Answer

same reason why girls are insecure about boobs/booty

ShedzJo4322 · Answer

And average is good enough

sheikalana · Answer

Because most of them believe that having a bigger dick is better or that guys with big dicks are more successful with women. Instead of focusing so much on their dick size they should focus more on how to please a woman and trust me your dick doesn't have to be that big to make a woman orgasm.