Why are men so obsessed/ curious about anal sex?

[StacyTink]

Why is it ever man I've ever met is super curious or obsessed with anal sex, to the point that it seems that is what they would prefer over traditional sex at all times?

[Jack1313]

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[InfoBot]

I wouldn't prefer it over traditional sex, I would never compare a shitty ass to a vagina. The guys who prefer anal over vaginal sex are just stealth homosexuals. They are not willing to cross the border all the way. They are the same guys who try to suggest that having sex with transsexuals is okay because they look like girls even though they have a penis. Basically these guys just want to fuck men.

[StacyTink]

I think anal is fucking gross. I've done it twice with him and ended up crying both times because it hurt so bad and he calls me selfish because I don't want to do it anymore. I feel like if a man is with a woman he shouldn't be so obsessed with putting his dick into an ass, and if he is maybe he should be plowing another guy.

[InfoBot]

I entirely agree with you. If he disregards your pain and your protests then get him to take a dildo up HIS ass. Make sure it's a similar size to his penis so it's fair but then he has to take it like a trooper and not complain. See how he likes that.

[StacyTink]

I told him that exact thing and he says no. So I'm like so why should I have to?

[StacyTink]

I'm not a fuck doll here just to help you nut I'm supposed to be your partner and your equal. And sex should be enjoyed by both parties. And to try and guilt me into something is fucking disgusting

[InfoBot]

Exactly, you shouldn't have to. Tell him no. It's your ass and your choice. If he can't handle that then he should fuck off and find another girl. We all need to give and take a little when it comes to sex but that does not include going WAY outside of your comfort zone and a decent partner wouldn't expect you to.

[StacyTink]

That's exactly how I feel 😔

[InfoBot]

Also, for a guy to continue despite you being in tears and being in clear pain is just verging on rape. He knows that you are not willingly complicit, you are just enduring this pain because he guilts you into it. For him to be okay with that shows just how much he doesn't give a shit for anything except his dick.

[StacyTink]

I honestly never even looked at it that way. Maybe I should try and say that to him and see what he says. You're definitely right tho, it just seems like he's worried about his dick.

[InfoBot]

Just ask him why he thinks it's okay to put you through pain and distress. Why does he think that's fine? Is he convincing himself that you'll learn to enjoy it rather than actually listening to you? What gives him the right to just override or ignore your feelings on the subject? Why can't he actually just hear that you don't fucking want anal? Those are the questions that I'd ask him.

[StacyTink]

That's perfect!!! Thank you so much!! I actually told him the other day that if he wants anal so badly to leave and go find a man because that's clearly what he wants

[Anonymous]

There are plenty of women who are curious about it too. If properly done, anal can feel pretty great. I don't think it's disgusting at all, it's not like you do it without cleaning yourself there first (at least I hope so!). With proper preparation and plenty of lube it should be painless. Unless he has a big penis and you are a small girl.
But I'm definitely not saying that you should do it just because he wants to. If it doesn't feel good for both of you then it shouldn't be done at all. There is nothing selfish about saying no to something that causes you pain.

[StacyTink]

I'm 5'2 116 lbs and he is 6'2 and around 195 lbs and well endowed. Used tons of lube, and all that.

[StacyTink]

205* not 195

[Opinion Owner]

My guy is about average sized and we never had any problems. If it hurt it was all his fault. He should have been gentle and slow. And even then, he just might be too big for it. Either way, when a normal guy sees his girl crying and knows that she is in pain, he wouldn't ask her to do it again and again. If I were you, I would say a firm no and if he was unhappy with it he could just go and find someone else. You deserve someone who would actually care about you and not just his pleasure.

[Anonymous]

I think its because a lot of guys find that one hole to be taboo and not something their suppose to be in?

That makes them want to try it? or at least thats what my friend told me. A few guy friends of mine see me like a guy too and they just went that having a girls anal is like an act of submission of her to the man so it makes them feel powerful.

[BrittBratt2416]

Because of porn.. that's why oral sex and anal is a big thing. They see or hear about these acts all the freaking time now these days. It's got nothing to with it being done through out history, it's because porn industry is huge and gets ton of traffic.

[Vanjasper]

Anal sex was the most used form of contraception before condoms or other forms of birth control was ever easily available. It's being going on for centuries. It's why the church and states in Europe and other places condemned it so much and made it punishable by law, and the church called it an abomination in the eyes of God. The world needed populating and anal sex did not fulfill that need. The church wanted sex to be only for the purpose of creation, not pleasure. Anal sex predates porn by centuries.

[Mikmex1651]

Probably seen it in porn a lot and wants to try it out. But if you are giving him anal, he better be eating you out in return lol

[StacyTink]

Done it twice and ended up crying both times from it hurting so bad and he called me selfish.

[Mikmex1651]

Have you told him that you don't enjoy it?

[StacyTink]

Yes. While crying and shaking after.

[StacyTink]

I've vehemently told him how painful it is and how much I hate it and how disgusting I think it is.

[Mikmex1651]

If he still asks over and over, he's being insensitive and tell him straight up its got to stop. Does he do you special bedroom favors too though?

[StacyTink]

Haha no. Not even close. I've gotten him to tie me up once. Nothing else.

[Mikmex1651]

Then you're definitely not being selfish. What sucks is that he knows how it feels and probably wants more, that's unfortunately how these things go smh... Tell him straight up that your booty is off limits, and if you really like him, offer him other things if he gets the point and leaves your butt alone.

[StacyTink]

I don't even know what else I would offer him 😂 but it's worth a shot

[Mikmex1651]

Good luck girl

[StacyTink]

Thank you!!

[Klajdi98]

Ahahahahaha if i need to tell it right is cause maybe seems something different and at all is "better" for a male cause there is more "contact" ;)

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Perhaps the difference in sensation is preferable in those men who would rather anal than vaginal. Though, for most, it's more of an experimentation sort of thing. Curiosity of what anal feels like causes men to try it out.

[TickleGuySP]

I don't like that much, for me there are other things more interesting to do.

[vampireelf]

There are actually many men who hate analsex. Im disgusted by anything anal. But im obsessed with cunnilingus haha

[JhonnyMA]

cuz for man is even better than normal sex... for me it's on another level, as I'm BI and I love to be in the both sides of it...

[TheOtakuMaid]

it's tighter and more dirty i suppose

[Vanjasper]

There's the taboo, the curiousity, the naughtiness, and women's arses are so beautiful.

[KingDio]

donno i personal just prefer vaginal not much of a fan of anal tried it couple of times, vaginal feels better to me

[StacyTink]

I've tried it twice with him and ended up crying both times and he calls me selfish for not wanting to do it again. I just don't get it. If you're a straight man you're with a woman for several qualities, one of them being a vagina. So why obsess over anal you know?

[KingDio]

first time i tried with a girl i was too big and not really prapared for it and tore her alittle so had bad experience from start but him calling you selfish is pathetic he's the selfish one forcing you to let him do it again not caring about how you feel

[StacyTink]

That's how i felt. I've tried twice with tons of lube and it just hurt so much I was shaking and crying and I still let him finish. So if I tried to satisfy him twice and it still hurt me how am I the selfish one? I'm not. It's really bothers me.

[KingDio]

i honistly dont see the thrill of it guess tighter and kinky maybe but i love the vagina and feels a lot better for me as for obsession over it is stupid

[KingDio]

this guy is a ungrateful arsehole and piece of shit, no wonder he likes it... misses he's home haha

[StacyTink]

Oh my god 😂😂 lmfao

[StacyTink]

That comment just made my night lol

[KingDio]

im glad it did as its true if he really cared for you he would never want to do anal with you again as it affects you

[StacyTink]

That's exactly how I feel :/

[KingDio]

kinda like he likes putting you though it.. out of joy which is disgusting if thats it

[StacyTink]

If it is im just done. I've gone through too much shit in my life to be sexually disrespected in a committed fucking relationship. I'm a giving person and this is literally one of my only limits. And it's constantly being pushed.

[KingDio]

no one ever needs to be treated like that and i very much like to smack this arsehole in the mouth all ready and if im right.. dont think ill stop with that lol such disrespect towards you is disgusting and sounds like this guy is pushing you really far

[StacyTink]

He really is. It's so frustrating and upsetting. Sometimes I really think he needs to get shocked back to reality because clearly his brain isn't functioning properly

[KingDio]

arsehole like that needs to be put in he's place for once

[StacyTink]

😕😔 so frustrating

[KingDio]

im so sorry someone who should be looking after you and care for you and one person to love you is making you feel this way, sounds like a boy with just him playing with he's dick

[StacyTink]

I agree. I'm tired of boys. Not what I was looking for.

[KingDio]

if thats you in the profile pic you are far too beautiful, both inner and outer beautiful to be happening to deal with these slices of shit who put you though hell for their own gain

[StacyTink]

That is me, so thank you very much. And I think I just have very bad taste. Must be me since it's a regular issue

[KingDio]

i think its time rise your bar alittle and go after what you really need in a man and regular as in you cop same sort of thing from previous relationships? or guys in general

[StacyTink]

I'm sorry, what do you mean in the last part?

[KingDio]

asking if other guys youve been with have treated you poorly as you said its becaming quite regular and other part was raise the bar or expectations of who to date now as all you are getting is people who walk all over you

[StacyTink]

I definitely need to raise my bar. And yes my ex used to beat me. My current is very controlling and can be very overbearing and insulting

[KingDio]

thats another guy just now added to my shitlist... can not stand domestic violence im sorry that happened to you

[StacyTink]

It's okay, nobody fault but my own for sticking around and dealing with it.

[KingDio]

never blame yourself you never asked for anything all the fualt is on that dickhead who decided to find it in himself it was ok to strike you

[StacyTink]

Yes it definitely was his choice. I just mean I should have left the first time it happened

[KingDio]

yes you should of but also can't blame you for staying ether as so many reasons stop you and main one is love

[StacyTink]

Yes, you're right again. I thought there was love in that relationship.

[KingDio]

love can be blind and tell you things you want to hear... I've seen it before

[StacyTink]

Yes that's what I went through

[KingDio]

whom ever did that to you is a pathetic little boy who deserves nothing but what he's done to you... every day

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Why wouldn't we be?
Exploration.

[Dragan]

I don't like anal sex at all. Some men are latent homosexuals, then it's normal that they like anal sex even more than vaginal sex.

[Dragan]

Tnx for MHG.

[Takewithagrainofsalt]

Because we are gross and we love ever piece of a girls body.

[alexandremp]

cause is good. and diferent, and your ass is tigher

[StacyTink]

So it's selfish. It's painful and gross. Done it twice and ended up in tears both times and he calls me selfish because I don't want to do it again.

[oldoldold]

your boyfriend is the ass get a guy who cares about you

[alexandremp]

i think u can do it with pain. if u do one time just to understand how can u do it without pain. if it doesn't work, i understand u. u should not do thing that hurt u just for his pleasure.

[alexandremp]

i think u can do it without pain*

[charliejames]

as a guess I would say because it's a taboo. it is something that society seems to be against so in doing so it feels both rebellious and that you are able to overcome societal pressures and norms should you choose to. there is also the fact that the curiosity grows from it being so taboo, finding out what is so wrong may be a draw. or perhaps they are just looking for something new with their partner. personally not a fan but it's up to the people involved I suppose

[dudeinohio]

it is another form of sexual contact, so guys would be interested in it.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Taboo and too much porn watching I think.

[Arya_Christ]

tight hole. did you really cry?

[ccal28]

can't get pregnant from it and it's tighter feeling for guys

[DylanDimock678]

I'm just curious about it

[Seppelson]

I don't like anal but I guess It's because It's tighter than pussy

[Anonymous]

i don't like anal

[Anonymous]

because of porns

[Anonymous]

I think it's probably because it's the only type of penetrative sex that both of them can receive... Perhaps they hope the woman enjoys it so they don't feel overly "wrong" for liking a bit of anal play on their own hole?

[Anonymous]

I can't stand anal scenes in porn cause there is a perfectly good vagina right next to it that doesn't take shits

[Opinion Owner]

I'm actually glad I have a large cock so it's not likely the girl will ask for anal One girl who I wasn't dating asked me about anal and I said only in the shower but I have no interest in it

[Anonymous]

It just feels incredibly good for both sides of done right. But Anal is nothing you could try out 1 time and enjoy it. It needs Preparation and Training, cause it will hurt and don't feel good if you never had anything in there before. But if you trained the hole a bit and use a good amount of Lube it's like the best thing ever. When I asked my Girlfriend about it she said if i could it do to you, you can do it to me and I said yes so we did it started small got Big and now we have Great Sex were both assholes are fucked :P.

[Anonymous]

Cos it's regarded as taboo by many women in the area of sex. The more guys are actually more inquisitive about it.

Plus it's kinda tighter down there, thus more pleasure with lube added.

[Anonymous]

Because they want poop on their dick. I personally find it gross.

[Anonymous]

upgradation of sex... Oral to Anal lol

[Anonymous]

Because it is dominating. It's about dominating through pain. You should relax yourself and then you'll enjoy it.

[StacyTink]

Have you ever relaxed yourself through taking a dick in the ass? If not you really shouldn't comment on the subject. It's not something you relax yourself through.

[Opinion Owner]

talk with other women who do it regularly. They will tell you the same thing. If you dont stay calm you can't enjoy it. Also, check casting porn videos of Pierre Woodman. He always fucks his pornstars from the ass. He even fucked virgins from the ass. Young girls who never had a dick inside them and decided to take it from the asshole as a first time and they all enjoyed it.

[StacyTink]

Porn is fake. Literally acting. They get paid to pretend they're enjoying something.

[StacyTink]

And you can't stay calm when your in pain that's not how it works, at all. Your body physically reacts to pain. You can't avoid it.

[Opinion Owner]

Im talking about casting videos. Not porn films. Google Viola Bailey and check her casting video with Pierre Woodman. After the interview he hid the camera in his bedroom. She never had anal and agreed to get first fingered and then fucked. Look how she enjoys it.

[StacyTink]

I'm way good bud.

[Opinion Owner]

You sound pretty selfish by the way.

[StacyTink]

Okay. That's fine.

[StacyTink]

I've done everything he's asked, and this is my one limit that I e tried twice. But I'm selfish? Okay.

[Opinion Owner]

Of course it is selfish. How often do you want a kiss? How often do you want to hug or cuddle? How often do you want to know how beautiful you are today?

[StacyTink]

He kisses me when he wants to, we don't ever cuddle, because he doesn't like it. And I never ask how I look.

[Opinion Owner]

"I never ask how I look" no woman does. But it is what you want to hear all the time.

[StacyTink]

Not really. No point in hearing it constantly when I don't believe it or feel beautiful.

[Opinion Owner]

Then enjoy celibacy and single life.

[StacyTink]

You sound incredibly jaded, and single yourself lol

[Anonymous]

It's tight around their dicks and feels really good to them. I get that. It's super uncomfortable for me though and I don't like to do it very often. What pisses me off is when they try to stick it in back there without asking.

[StacyTink]

I have a very consent based relationship. If he ever tried that I would leave, in a second. That's the ultimate disrespect. I think it's gross on every fucking way. Literally, that's where shit is. Like why would you want your dick near that?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't need to give consent to every little thing sexually, as long as it falls within the realm of normal or feels good to me. A dick in my ass is not my idea of a party. You need lots of lube and it still doesn't feel great. I'd rather avoid it if possible.

[StacyTink]

Lots of lube still didn't help me lol. And if it's something I've consented to and enjoyed all bets are off but if it's something I experimented with and said no to after, it's something that should be dropped and not done. At least in my eyes

[Opinion Owner]

I'll agree with that. Respect for boundaries is important.

[Anonymous]

Because every woman these days has a banged up torn vagina after incessantly fucking day in and day out. And their asshole might be a little bit tighter. that's why.