Why are men so obsessed with sex?

Why? The age old question. The obsession even transcends humanity and into nature. Male animals will fight each other over the right to mate. Every man has watched porn at least once. Most men are addicted to it.

I would think for the same reason women love it, but men absolutely crave it. More so than women. Guys, can you explain?
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  • There's a lot of women that are also obsessed with sex but for women its different most men can't go out any random day and get laid so they try to have sex any chance they can where most women can go out any day and have a 90% chance to get laid if they want plus women typically view sex differently to them its more sensual and emotional but for men unless they are with someone they really care about there is no emotional attachment

  • because sex is awsome

  • Ninjazzed what is your favorite candy?

    • Dunno, anything with chocolate.

    • Well i'll say Hershey's then. Now imagine you could NEVER have a Hershey'again on your own. All the men in the world control the supply of Hershey's. The only way you can is if a guy was to give you one. You're going to crave it all the more. Doesn't help that men are already morivated by other factors such as hormones and social standing (at least when they're young). Pretty much any woman can walk into any bar in the world and say she's open for business if you know what i mean, and get at least one taker The same cannot be said for men. So it comes down to supply and demand. Hope this helps.

    • We better be talking about one tasty motherfuckin Hershey bar lmao

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  • Same as women, it's just that guys are more upfront about it.

  • Artificial scarcity. BOTH sexes crave sex, but women are more socially conditioned to think they don't, and to suppress their sexualities.

  • It wasn't always that way you know
    I was never obsessed with it, so I don't know
    I have always had self control and restraint

    The biological reason is to keep mankind going

  • The only thing I can think of is it is how we are genetically wired (for us straight dudes that is, I can only speak about that from experience).

    Other than that, some guys have very high testosterone (🙋‍♂️) compared to other dudes.

    So I would say a few factors are

  • It's not like that.. sex is natural activity, everyone does sex and everybody like it.. some like to watch porn and masturbate some like to have sex. It's depend upon their own desires of sexual fantasies.

  • cause women are withholding all the sex xD deprivation creates desparation.

  • Sex is important

    • It’s important to one’s well-being, yes. But isn’t necessary. It isn’t absolutely mandatory unless it’s being done in the purpose of procreation.. But I’m speaking in pragmatic terms of obsession. It’s good to consider sex essential but I wouldn’t feverishly obsess over it as if it has the value of food, oxygen, or shelter.

    • Isn't something important to ones well being, necessary to be happy? To you it may not be necessary to another it may be. Each to their own as they say.

    • I meant necessary for survival in life, not necessary to be happy.

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  • I only can speak for my self. Ok, there was a time I started to get hyper sexual. The relationship I was in didn't feel like a relationship. After we breakup, I had tons of sexual experiences My ex, is, or was basically a Puritan, and I couldn't keep up with that, therefore I am not suited to date a virgin. At my age I want a woman.

    She is a year younger than me, although I don't feel she is emotionally ready to have relationships.

  • Sex gives men a reason to put up with most of the BS that we go through on an average day.

  • Men have more testosterone. Women equal our horny levels one week every month.

  • Like you said "men crave for it", man and woman want sex, but it's more difficult for a men to get it, a man have to do a lot of things just to sleep with a girl, but a girl to sleep with a man don't have to do nothing just stand here and give the man some signals that's all, if you see that men are obsessed with sex it's because it's us that's doing all the job, if we are horny and want sex you must go find a girl talk to her seduce her and a lot of other effort but girl just have to sit somewhere and a guy will just come across, It's like men struggle and work hard to find something to eat but women just sit somewhere and wait someone to give them something to eat so it's normal that men are starving for it

  • You're wrong actually.
    Women are more obsessed with porn and sex than men as they spend more time than men watching porn.
    And not ALL men watch porn lmao.

  • I don't know. I'm not, I dont see the huge interest. I mean I'm Demi-sexual but still somewhat asexual. I find it gross that other guys are even obsessed with it. Though I've meet woman obsessed with it and that grossed me out too.

  • Women tend to be more attractive than men, so therefore more desirable and plus out testosterone plays a role.

  • I think both sexes are obsessed with it but girls are more selective on who they breed with

  • Well I for one am not one of those numbers that you are mentioning because I have more morals and ethics than the average person.

  • Nah in my experience women crave it more than men. Or maybe they were just craving me? 😗

    • Definitely you lol

    • It would make sense.

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