Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I apologize in advance for generalizing, and I am sure not all men are like this, so please just accept this as a rant, I need to vent!
I am 34 and I had many partners (around 16) and all of them sucked. Some sucked from the beginning never bothered learning, some sucked but learned over time, and some weren't even aware of how much they sucked thinking they rocked my world!
Alright, we know that my generation of boys didn't have enough eduction on sex and most didn't have good father figures, but it is 2023 I am not buying into these excuses anymore. You can learn anything on the internet!
There is a vast difference between men and women when it comes to sex, and it seems like men are just complete idiots that fail to remember this. I am talking about BASIC things! I am yet to meet a man who likes forplay. They don't like it, they do it for women. Actually not even for women, women are completely irrelevant when it comes to anything, they do it to either impress her or smooth out the penetration. For men, it is all about blowing the load. And as fast as possible! Until it charges again and then do it again. It is like they are programmed to do this, like they MUST blow it no matter if world is ending, like no control! They watch porn and masturbate super quickly to it, then go to a woman and masturbate super quickly on her, basically. Male arousal is completely different then female's, most guys think that if a woman is super wet then that means she is to ready orgasm, lol. Well, at least that one was wet, how about 90% others that are fucked dry? I can't even count how many times a man would jus to force his dick into my dry pussy, not realizing why it's not getting in.
If you ask both a man and a woman, what is for them a bad sex, men will say bad sex is when they didn't cum, and women will say bad sex is when it hurts (and almost every incourse hurts in some positions). I came to just one realization why are women so unsatisfied sexually: they settle for selfish jerks! Yes this world is full of selfish male lovers who simply do not care. I refuse to believe that men are biologically so freaking bad at sex, it must be the selfishness. Women are silent about it because they don't know any better, and it is so sad. So, so sad. So if one woman would reject a guy for his lack of sexual skills or willigness to learn, there's another one just around the corner ready to take it in dry for 2 minutes.
Another problem is their insanly huge, unrealistic egos. That thing is scarier then anything! If you tell a man that something is not working for you sexually, be prepared for that ego to smack you right back in your face - by getting ghosted.
Looking at my experience and of my female friends, we all agree that around 90% of our sexual partners sucked big time. And if you google about it, it makes your stomach turn on how wide this issue is in general.
You know what? I am done. If I was completely honest, I experience WAY MORE please when I masturbate. How sad is that! I have stronger emotional connection with my dildo then with any grown ass man. So what's the point in sex? I mean, I am amazed how little men care about women's pleasure, amazed! How can someone be a good person and not reciprocate the favor of orgasm? I would be having really hard time walking away from someone who is left unsatisfied, I simply cannot do it, the guilt would eat me away! Even if it's a one night stand, I mean it's still a person. So my conclusion is that any man who cums (and then falls asleep or goes home) and woman just stays there without orgasm, is a bad person. A really, really bad person.
I know many girls will comment how this is not true and how your partners give you pleasure, but just think very good about it, and about all your ex partners, you will know what I'm talking about. There number of times a man had "bad" sex is same as the number of times a woman had "good" sex.
I do not want to hear any more excuses. We fucked it up, ladies. It's our fault! Actually, the ones who are not educated enough is us women! We created simps and pussies with the feminism and equality shit. I beg you ladies, do not settle for less! I will never again fake an orgasm or be nice about lousy treatment. I don't care about their ego, their not getting a time of day anymore before making me cum. I'm just done with lame, evil people.
What Girls & Guys Said
18 78Sorry anonymous. Most of us men are cocked and loaded. You get us excited, we are shooter load and roll over and go to sleep. Can't help it if we don't know what we're doing to appease women. We men are simple creatures. We're not complicated you may have show us a million times. Please be patient with us. I've been with my companion for 44 years and each time we have sex, I still can't please her every time.
I think the ones they're bad at it are selfish and only caring about their own needs! That would be some bad sex!😁
It's because sex is a race and you ladies just aren't fast enough to keep up with the boys lol
I don't know... he might be selfish. I have spent my entire adult life learning how to make girls happy lol. I like to please though. Every guy is different I guess :P
Simply because we don't get the opportunity to do it as much as Women do.
foreplay is a forgotten art and now a days everything is about themselves. There are so many ways to give a woman pleasure but you have to work at it a pay attention to what a womans body wants a needs
I don't understand why you are bothering with men if you get enough pleasure from the dildo
I apologize for my gender and I think you’re right!
I need a much longer foreplay than my girlfriend 😅😅
No dad at home. Growing up
Because most men dont even get laid to begin with so logically they're going to be inexperienced. Only a small few know what they're doing because they fuck all the women. It's that simple
Maybe you're had too much bad luck about those guys you slept. The reason's simple: They didn't the minimal necessary to pleasure a woman. After all, everyone knows here that the sex ALWAYS starts with FOREPLAYS, which means: Kisses, gentle touch, passion and oral sex on each other. Than, when she's horny and fully wet, the penetration comes in
Not all, may be some, I have high sex drive
So, why do you suck so bad at picking partners?
Why are women so obviously bad at sex?
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First of all some people aren’t as kinky as you and find using toys disgusting and a big turn off. You also got to voice your dang opinion it’s hard to know what girls want when they don’t voice their opinion. If it’s a ONS or if the men don’t really find you attractive then the will be selfish. I try to help a woman orgasm through fingering her or just pleasing her with my dick. It just depends on the guy. I would be fine with using a toy on her because it’s a turn on for me. Just seeing the face she makes when she orgasms just turns me on so much more. Just be more mindful of trying to voice what you find pleasurable and what you don’t find pleasurable. (Fun fact women can’t orgasm in the same spot that they orgasmed at last so you want to move to a different position so they can orgasm again.)
I have to say I know you are generalizing based on your experience but maybe look at who you are going after. There are a lot of guys, I'm one, who get off on making a woman cum and making sure she is super satisfied before we even get started. Bad luck? I don't know but you should look for a guy and talk way more about what your expectations are. My experience is similar to you with women... the can just lay there not doing much and not communicating at all what they want, what they feel, etc. So for me... time to move on until I found one that would yell out, "I'm cumming". When feed back isn't there its time to go.
We’re just so easy to please, hard to get woman to cum but you bend over and give a guy 5 minutes he’ll be satisfied. And I get off by getting them off it’s just so much better/ easier
If you have along term partner that you are close to, you would not have this problem. Women that sleep around, have this problem.