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Why are most girls able to deepthroat better with practice?

does it permanently stretch our throat if we practice on him more?
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  • I used numbing creme from a sex shoppe my boyfriend at the time got for us. I was sooo freaked out to learn but we were childhood friends with huge crushes so it was all good. I really wanted to learn because I heard so many guys like it and I just wanted him to be pleased. I feel bad for others who had to learn on dbags.

    What did I actually learn? Its all in your head, mind over matter... but personally? I cannot do this to someone if I think he's a jerk. Its weird, I just can't get past it.

    Also guy are such dicks about her performance, its such a crazy thing to literally choke yourself to get someone off lol. I'm not saying the girl is a cakewalk,.. its like repairing a tiny cpu and errrrrry cpu is different. I just feel like, give her a break, its daunting if you're huge!
    Another advice I got is something about the angle can really make it easier? I don't know, Id feel weird though if he had some attachment to it and needed to facefuck 24/7, like is your cock numb half the time? I would rather explore positions and other things then get so focused on oral, personally. I also give better head if he does a great job on me.

  • I HEAR that practice makes perfect and this "talent"
    is akin to bombing a beer (or whatever it's called when the can has a hole in both ends and down the throat it goes in a second)
    or sword swallowing in unnaturally being about to relax all those defenses in one's throat.

    I HEAR that guys love it but not sure I've heard many gals put this as #1 in self satisfaction...

    Ergo, some are better through practice ala BJs other can't even dream about but I'll go fishing with you... perhaps - like vags - some are either larger or desensitized naturally.

  • Most girls are better able to deepthroat with practice? Really? Stats for that, please?

    Assuming that's a valid statement, most girls (as well as guys) would get better at deepthroating with practice because the more you do it, the more control you get over your gag-reflex. It'll also become less and less sensitive with enough stimulation, as well.

Most Helpful Guys

  • when trained girls know how to ignore their gag reflex and relax their throats. inexperienced chicks try to resist and panic but a well trained chick can take it obediently. I've never managed to get a girl to fully deepthroat it all the way down though

  • Just like all practice, it's about developing shills and muscle memory.

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  • I must be the exception. I wish I could do it, but no matter how much I practice or try I've never been able to deep throat. It's a bummer.

  • No it doesn't stretch your throat but it does lessen your gag reflex every time you take his cock down your throat. Once you can comfortably take his cock in your throat you'll find you can orgasm from deepthroating as well as him.

    • " you'll find you can orgasm from deepthroating as well as him." Interesting. Can you please explain how she can orgasm.

    • @Oram52 There's a spot in a woman's throat that when properly stimulated will produce orgasms. A hard cock can do this. That was the whole intent of the movie Deep Throat, to inform women that they can enjoy orgasms while giving blowjobs if they deep throat it. It's entirely possible that the spot exists in everyone but during puberty hormones will cause certain nerves to wake up so to speak. I know some gay guys that deep throat but none of them have ever had an orgasm from it. I know several women other than myself who can orgasm giving blowjobs.

  • I would no for sure but from the girls I have been with it's about getting over the gag reflex :)

  • Practicing anything makes us better. In this instance it trains our body to not need the gag reflex.

    • did you practice on anything other than the real thing?

  • I don't think it stretches your throat but you learn to overcome the gag reflex.
    Some people are born with no gag reflex (lucky them!) but yea, still learning over here too.

    • agree about the reflex

  • I think it has more to do with learning how to relax your muscles and tweaking the timing. You learn to subdue your gag reflex and all that. No, your throat doesn't stretch.

  • all about being in control of that gag reflex :)

  • Because you get used to the feeling of being choked

  • It's just like any other skill. Same goes for men that want to last longer

  • Practice of deep throat is not about stretch your throat, it's about practice in which angle penis should be to your throat, so you will be capable to do it. There is the website for that :
    theslutacademy.com/.../

  • I don't get the appeal of deepthroating.. I don't know if girls really do enjoy it... but for me it just looks really really uncomfortable..

    • you can practise with a dildo :P

    • What about face sitting?

    • @Yumix yeah no.. I'm not that curious about this lol

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  • It's mostly just learning to ignore gag reflex I assume

  • Not permanently

  • No it's more about the gag reflex.

  • cause everything in life gets better as you practice xD should be a nobrainer.

    it doesn´t "stretch out" anything, it´s just about controlling your gag reflex. though it might irritate stuff, if you do it too often and too rough.

  • Not permanent but yeah

  • Not sure but I am willing to sacrifice my time to help someone learn... 😁

    • Your self sacrifice and dedication to our learning is to be applauded.

    • @SarahsSummer Lol... Anytime

    • yes please, if you are good at it

  • It trains your throat to stretch out more then it normally would but it tightens back up it just allows it to stretch when needed

    • i notice after like a day it tightens up again

    • Yes it will but it has that muscle memory to stretch out again like that but gets easier each time

  • Gag reflex becomes more manageable and controllable with exposure

  • Practice makes perfect : training allows you to know how to widen your throat and how to breathe

    • I get regular training cos most guys make me do it when they take me home after nights out

    • lucky them... ;)

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