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  • In my experience, no. Every guy I’ve ever slept with has made sure to at least try to get me off. They didn’t always succeed, but they all tried. I’ve even been with a guy who only ever gave me head and fingered me. I never went down on him. We never had sex. At the most I gave him a handjob. I’m sure he wanted to have sex, but I wasn’t ready for that, so he just did his best to please me instead. Even my worst ex, who is a shitty human being, made an effort to try to please me in bed. He would go down on me like constantly.

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  • I think as a sex giver they take that right for granted.

    • Right. Isn’t part of sex about pleasure? I mean if you want to feel pleasure, you give pleasure to your partner.

    • @TonyT1986 I agree there's pleasure but sometimes it does feel incomplete. You have to take care of her too during the act.

    • No, you start by taking care of her first. You don’t start intercourse until she has had an orgasm. Guys that forget foreplay or just go directly to sex are so missing out.

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  • Simple, you’ve got the pussy, you make the rules. Have him get you off before y’all have sex, he can use toys or vibrations toys or whatever to help him in his journey, but you probably need to instruct him step by step on how to eat pussy the right way because it sounds like he hasn’t ever done it

    But for real, power of the pussy, you make all the rules, you have all the power, you can walk outside and find another dick lol so he’ll work to satisfy you

  • I think it's mostly women's fault.
    They rarely say: "Honey I need an orgasm"
    Acting orgasm is another reason why women do not have an orgasm.
    The third reason is that some men are not interested in satisfying their partner.
    The vast majority of men want to their partner be sexually satisfied.

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  • It's a wrong question.
    Guys are selfish everywhere.


    You notice it mostly only during sex it seems.

  • Because they won't be able to cum if not.

    • I mean sex takes two. I have no problem going until my partner cums. But 9 times out of ten I dont get to cum and they stop once they do

    • Yep that's why you and they should be sure you do first. And talk about it before hand. If they don't please them then they are probably going to leave. So if that's not important to them and it should be they should make sure they are satisfied.

  • Boys are selfish. Most men will desire to please you..
    Good communication on your part can help with that as well.

  • love them stockings... anyway i would say i have personally never been a selfish lover so i must conclude we aren't all like that...

  • What do you mee?
    If my girl is not satisfact i will make shure to satifact her. If i can't i will not stop her to go for a diferen men.

  • Not me

  • there's no love?

  • They're not. You've been dealing with BOYZ.

  • Won't look as selfish when you become a fountain.

  • Making a girl satisfied is harder than making a guy satisfied during sex. I think both men and women don't do a lot but it is more consequential if the guy is lazy.

  • Because guys just need a warm hole to fuck, and girls have the perfect body for that, just like nature designed it.

    Guys are easily satisfied in bed, and girls need a lot more than that to orgasm.

    • Found the misogynist

    • @simplismilez I understand you don't like what I'm saying, but most guys just don't say it. They do know it's true. Also, I don't hate women (hating women would make me a misogynist).

    • Also, if you are so worked up about this, simply make him take care of you first before he gets the goods.

  • They've been taught that women don't actually enjoy sex.

  • How so?

    • No foreplay and as soon as he cums they stop and I get left hanging

    • Well that sux. Stay away from narcissistic guys.

    • I guess at this point that's what I attract

  • What do you mean by this?

  • I couldn't tell you... never been in bed with a guy nor will I be ! You tell me.

    • While appreciate the smart ass response I think you know very well what I was asking.

    • I DO know what you're asking, but I really do NOT know "why" other than to say that guys are a) just "selfish" in general and b) don't want to be bothered with "understanding" the intricacies of a woman's body, getting her off OR "performing" even if they do !! Since guys can get off rather quickly, they don't understand or much care "why" it might take a woman 30 minutes and more to (hopefully) achieve an orgasm. So I guess the answer is they're apathetic to your needs and take you for granted. As long as they get off, it's all good.

  • Because they have a hard dick and it feels amazing to be inside a wet vagina and cum.

    • So the girl just isn't allowed to cum?

    • Yes, in the case of a selfish guy. Why would he care is she cums? In the case of a lover? He cares about her on many levels. He wants her to feel pleasure and will focus on her pleasure before intercourse. A loved will seduce her all day long and excite her mind. And a lover will hold her tight after sex and reassure her that she is his, through and through.

    • News flash guys, women can have multiple orgasms. And they are very happy when they are sexually satisfied.

  • I'm not selfish at all sure woman cums before I get off... I love orally pleasing a woman im with. I will go down on her for as long as she can't take me me being down there...😉

  • It's not a team sport, it's a ruthless ever man for his or her own genitals kind of game.

  • We are all selfish. Not just men. Ok, maybe more men than women , but in the end we are all selfish.

  • Because you're having sex with men who don't care about you.

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