Why are people so obsessed with penis size but not vagina size?

Question

It seems like vagina size is just as important but all we ever seem to hear about it is an occasional hot dog in a hallway joke. Isn’t overall compatibility between the two more important than penis size alone?

God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

I would say that because men tend to be more insecure about their size. Not all of us, obviously, but many more than women.

This is likely due to it's being equated with masculinity, throughout the ages. A larger member is seen as a mark of fertility, manliness, and potency. It's been embedded in the human psyche since the ancient Romans, and beyond.

They decorated their homes with penises, they depicted their fertility gods as having massive dicks. The ancient Egyptians believed that their dismembered god Osiris had his penis cast into the Nile river, and it was his "essence" that caused the rebirth of the land after the yearly flood.

Vaginas have been depicted, and revered, in various ways, as well. Everything from a source of power, to an object of desire, to a source of uncleanliness, shame, and hysteria. Never once has the size/depth of a vagina been seen as a measure of a woman's "power" though, except in detogatory, or negative, connotations.

Thus, the feeling of being inadequate, to some men, is simply their feeling of not measuring up (pun intended) to thousands if years of manilness.

Boobman321 · Accepted Answer

I voted A as vaginas are not so visible. Without doing an internal people wouldn't know. I used to guess by mouth size being equivalent with vagina size. Probably because I went with one girl who was very nice but had quite a wide mouth, also my penis didn't seem to touch the sides of her vagina. Seemed to be ok with girls with small mouths.
The same could be said that people make a lot of breast size, because they are more visible. ( Well, presumably, as they are hidden behind tops and bras. )

mistixs · Accepted Answer

The vagina is an elastic canal. Does it even have a size?

I looked it up, and found the following:
"The vagina is a very “elastic” organ, says Christine O’Connor, MD, director of adolescent gynecology and well women care[...] It is small enough to hold a tampon in place, but can expand enough to pass a child through[...]
They fold together to collapse when unused, then expand when necessary. “It doesn’t stay one particular size,” O’Connor says. “It changes to accommodate whatever is going on at that time.”"
https://www.webmd.com/women/features/vagina-size

Anyway, women get judged enough about breast size and butt size. Regardless, the sizes of the breasts, butt, or the vagina (if that could even be considered to have a size) is not "just as important" as penis size.
Women are more likely to orgasm with certain penis sizes. Most men will probably orgasm regardless.
Women are also more likely to experience pain with certain penis sizes. Most men won't experience pain no matter the size of the woman's vagina, butt, or breasts.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I actually looked up vagina sizes after listening to two women who were sort of drunk go on and on about penis size. The whole thing seemed silly to me. Anyway I started thinking are there vagina size difference and I guess there is. The thing about vaginas is they sort of adapt size wise to the penis coming in by expanding.

Claireluvskaren · Answer

Ever try to put a ruler in your vagina to measure it, not as easy as up against a oenis. Most women care about the size of their breasts.

Lauren-green · Answer

I think its easier to notice the difference in size with mens genitals than it is with woman (visibly, not from touch). I voted A

MrHopper · Answer

Because men will pretty much fuck anything, so size is not always an issue... but not one wants to play the flute in the Albert Hall

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

Women think its taboo

BlackRoseFairy · Answer

Because women don't measure their "womanhood" based on their vaginal size. I think the way men see their penis size can be better compared to how women feel with their breast size.

R_Cakes91 · Answer

Because women don’t really care that much.

penguin_14 · Answer

i think guys just wanna impress us, plus they dont care about the vagina size all they care sbout is having sex with it

Adam1978 · Answer

Because it doesn't matter as much guys get stimulus even if all of it doesn't fit. While penis size can limit the sex act itself. For women it more about working those muscles and be good in bed than their size.

Amberini · Answer

I think it's a combination of the above. Definitely because it's more visible and seems like a sign of virility. But also because it shoots cum, so it seems like it's the central source of sexual energy. I'm obsessed with big ones actually.

0112358 · Answer

A.  If it was really really easy to measure vaginal size you don’t think people would talk about it constantly?

rjroy3 · Answer

There isn't an obsession, but tight vagina's are sought after. That said all vagina's expand/contract to fit the size of the penis she's working with. So it's really more about the guys fixed member. The obsession mostly comes from the idea that size=pleasure. So if a guy has more size that's potential for more pleasure.

Is it true? Yes and no. Obviously size isn't everything, but there is truth in the fact that a longer penis can stimulate parts of a woman that a smaller penis cannot reach in order to stimulate. You can work around it, but it doesn't change the fact that particular tool is "inferior" so to speak. I do think the value is overplayed, but I've met a good number of women that get turned on by a guy having a big dick. So even a portion of the female population takes part in the obsession.

Apope16 · Answer

Its a self esteem thing for guys. Women say size doesn't matter... but I am 8 inches. And trust me... i get comments... women do like a larger size as long as its not too big. But yeah they get very very sexual.

ShadowofRegret · Answer

There are a lot of men who seem to judge a man's masculinity on the size of his genitals, and it does not help that they think all women want giant sizes, not to say I know why they think that way since it really makes no sense.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Is there much difference between vaginas? Like obviously the vulva and clit can all look really different from women to women, but the actualy vagina is kinda standard, isn't it?

Dargil · Answer

A. How do you measure a vagina? "Honey, before we have sex, could you use this for me so I know what to expect?"

AlexanderBrunnrgaard · Answer

Because vagina size has not impact on function or aesthetics like with a penis. The vagina is elastic so it will feel just the same no matter size.

aa180 · Answer

Probably because it's believed that penis sizes vary more greatly than do vaginas.

Passinggas · Answer

Vagina size mattered/s when I hit bottom. Yes, compatibility matters because I lost some because of it. I now can look at a woman, her frame, pelvis, and height of her belly button relative to her hips and rib cage and know if she has a deep one.

mad9617 · Answer

Cuz vaginas are flexible and adopts for about any object that sizes form 3 to 7 inch. So, this leaves the solid unchangeable penis on the spot light of shame!

6lacier · Answer

Because no woman will ever want for penis.

KatherineJ · Answer

Because even the penis obsessed guys know that vaginas are capable of passing a baby through them.

Wowgirl30q · Answer

Both are important idk?

VikingWarLord · Answer

All chics need to do is exercise their pussy with Kegels!

xyz94 · Answer

Other - vaginas are very stretchy; they can stretch to accommodate any penis size.

UglyestGuyEver · Answer

because the size of a vagina makes no difference to us, i mean like in sexual pleasure, it makes no difference,
but girls bragg about big dicks cs they say they can pleasure them better and shame us small dick guys, thats why guys want to be big and vagina size doesn't matter... cos guys dont go around shaming small pussies and saying we want big 1s...

genericname85 · Answer

cause most vaginas can be stretched to any size. they need to bear a baby after all so that flexibility is natural. dicks are stuck with one size tho.

convo_king89 · Answer

Cuz they care about the size of tits.

sp33d · Answer

We can make it penis size vs breast size. That evens the playing field.

chris_987 · Answer

Breast and butt size are important

BigJake · Answer

Believe me, we do notice. A girl's size makes all the difference on whether sex will be amazing or awkward as hell.

Penis size bothers guys so much because it's seen as an indicator of manliness or something like it. This makes no sense, of course, because there are skinny guys who would struggle to change a tire who have huge dicks, and there are tough, muscular soldiers who are relatively small.

TheFlak38 · Answer

because we are also obsessed with boob size.

DeenJoch · Answer

To me appearance of vagina matters and not the depth. And i believe its same for all. Same goes for penis too that appearance matters. But since penis goes inside, its length and width is also important. A little weird truth. Lol

mrpayne77 · Answer

Because it's an easy way to get a reaction from a guy by belittling him

legion6969 · Answer

And childish ego.

Valnac · Answer

Guys are obsessed because they were taught that you needed to be hung like a horse to satisfy any woman.
And if you weren’t hung, girls won’t be interested in you.
On the other hand, I see 6 or 7 posts every week: I hate my pussy because...
Isn’t it funny, guys don’t care about how a girl’s pussy looks. And girls don’t care about size, as long as he knows how to use it.

esotericstory · Answer

WOmen are so insecure about their veginas.

God-vs-Satan · Answer

Penises are outside and more seen.

CT_CD · Answer

Because peni are more visible. If women could easily measure vagina depth or size or whatever and guys talked about what the perfect vagina size was or how they want a vagina at least x inches deep then women would compare and be insecure about it the way a lot of men are about their penis

MrsDahmer · Answer

I don't really understand neurotypical weirdness.

masterkamasutra · Answer

penis have more variation and its visible.

Onlysexxx2 · Answer

Women make it a taboo.

rashood · Answer

Guys might be more impressed with revealing their penis size to women and penis size is often joked around with and less focus on vagina

hahnz · Answer

Having a bog cock sucks its hard to get it up fully

candlestick · Answer

My sister's freinds told me straight out that size really does matter , small , don't stress a great tounge lashing Can be delicious

Anonymous · Answer

Because vagina size is consistent. The "tightness" of a vagina is variable on it's arousal and nothing more.

Anonymous · Answer

Nobody wants a big vagina, they might not feel anything

Anonymous · Answer

eh is that like important? because to me it doesn't matter to both genres

Anonymous · Answer

Do you not read much? People ARE obsessed with vagina size. Tight is better so guys and women say even if being tight hurts women during sex (even though women know the pain). Women crying about being loose after having sex once or having a baby. Actually believing in a myth that the vagina can become loose and they're desperate to do anything to be tight

Anonymous · Answer

It's not just compatibility between boy and girl bits. The penis is more visible, so that makes it comparable to other guys at a glance. What esteem it's worth comes from being bigger than other guys, it doesn't matter what her size is because that has little to do with how I'm seen in comparison to other guys.