Why are quite a few guys attracted to the fact I got tied up before?

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something I've found odd although like it's out there, the fact they mention so obsessively makes me real curious. like this is something which happened at a summer camp summer before last, I was tied up in bikini, feet tied, hands behind tape on mouth hopping around the dorm until friend came short time later.

SjE78 · Accepted Answer

cos there are so many guys out there who are only interested in the sexual image they get from your experience, even when for you it wasn't in any way sexual... those guys cannot get their mind out the gutter and they seem to be the same ones who would happily comment on any woman's or even young teen's post/comment with a demand for a nudy pic...
personally if they can't be respectful... report then block them

BarryMcKohkner · Accepted Answer

Turns guys on because it makes them instantly think that you are open to more things in the bedroom and you won't be vanilla like some people are. Most likely, they also have some kinky fetishes so they feel like they could share them with you and not scare you away. Personally, I am not into the whole tying up thing. I prefer a little fight in my women. But hey, to each their own

iseekpinetrees · Accepted Answer

They obviously are into bdsm that's all. Many guys have rape fantasy in a sense but not actual rape just take a girl right then n there scenario

Hangry22 · Accepted Answer

Those guys are into BDSM more specifically bondage. They think that you will be willing to get tied up or will be easier for them to tie you up

Lliam · Answer

They imagine what they would do if they found you tied up wearing only a bikini.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I think it feeds their sexual fantasies of tying you up and having their way with you.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i think a lot of guys would like to have their way with you. you being helpless does sound like a turn on

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

The thought of you tied up in a bikini gets them hard

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

Gee, I wonder why. A beautiful woman tied up by a bikini. Why would that attract male attention, the enigma..

JFelix · Answer

Im gonna keep it, 💯 with you sex is constantly going through guys minds, and the fact you've been tied up before makes them exited because they think they can make all their fantasies from porn come true

ColHathi · Answer

I mean that sounds like an intro to a bdsm porn video. Ofc guys are gonna like it.

magiusX26 · Answer

it goes into bdsm fetishes quite often.

Makeushiver · Answer

Well it doesn't sound BDSM but it is a bit of a turn on. I've tied (very loosely with silk ties) a few girls for the purpose if giving them orgasm after orgasm until they are so sensitive they couldn't take any more and that wasn't a summer camp trick. If you ever want to try let me know

SavageGirl101 · Answer

They have some type of fetish for bondage and get off on it

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You seem to get tied up a lot, don't you?

Wise4myage · Answer

They are into BDSM and bondage?

RingOfFire · Answer

Men tend to be aggressive in their sexual desires. It's in their DNA to be sexual aggressors. So anything that resembles helplessness in a woman gets their sexual attention kind of like a helpless baby or wounded animal draws the heightened attention of a lion on the hunt.