Why are so girls grossed out about guys masturbating to their pictures?

guys do it all the time even guys who are your friends it is a fact of life what gives them the right to control someones thoughts and fantasies how dare them
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  • I've done it I won't lie, but I didn't like it at all, I'd much rather tell a friend I'm attracted to her than masturbate to her photo, I'd just feel bad talking to her after.. Odds are she would understand. Besides I'm sure girls know when we want to fuck them anyway, at least with me, pretty much any attractive girl is on my menu currently.. Don't hate the player :P

  • Guys do it all the time? Since when? Just because you do it doesn't mean every guy has done it. I've never masturbated to pictures of any girl who I've known in real life. I can swear I've never jerked off to pictures of any girls who I've known or met and of course any female friends that I've had in my life.

    • so what image do you masturbate to just porn?

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  • Because now when we see you we have to live with the knowledge that you have thought about doing very dirty things to us and it makes us feel uncomfortable and sometimes even a little violated depending on our association with you.

    • a friend of my partner Hannah's was imagining things like that and actually sometimes really sickly doing some with a picture once lets say when she found out he was posting them on Facebook she was not happy and not like it and as you say felt uncomfortable and did feel violated The police nor Facebook were impressed and told to he was told to leave Hannah alone. It's pretty much the reason there are very pictures of Hannah except at my house she's very self conscious about herself.

  • Because it's private and not something you say to anyone. Knowing someone is objectifying you and visualizing you doing things you might not be OK or happy with is just never a good feeling. You keep those things to. yourself.

    • but what is the harm in telling if you already know it happens why does having something u already know being said bother you

    • @Asker Firstly we don't know this for a fact. There are plenty of guys who might not have thought about me when doing it. Secondly it's the same reason we don't go around telling people we just pooped or something. It's private regardless.

  • I model part time so can't control who masturbates to my image.

    With the men that I date and have sex, I actually LIKE that they do as
    I do likewise over their dick pics + every time I think about sex with them :)

    • do u like dick pic?

    • I DO :)

  • We just don't really want our friends to be thinking about us in that way. And if they do, we don't really want to know about it, haha.

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  • Would you feel the same way if a guy were masturbating to your picture?

    • I wouldn't care at all. Not a guy or girl. If there was anything to take from it at all it's that I'm good looking enough that out of all the possible people for someone to pick, they picked me.

    • That's cool. Would you care if it was one of your friends?

    • Most guys wouldn't care if their female friends were masturbating to them. I know i wouldn't.

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  • It seems like I just went through this debate. I've never done it and never will. I think it's rude to the extreme. It's a violation, like voyeurism. You are undressing them without their permission. They covered themselves up for privacy, and you violate that privacy.

    Use your imagination. No need to imagine a real girl you know. Have a little respect and be more of a gentlemen. How do you even look those girls in the eye after that?

  • I don't have to like it. If I feel disgusted that is my right.

    • C'mon, you're making some obese 70 year old very happy...

    • Zagor hahahahahaha

    • nothing wrong with feeling disgusted but remember u have to just deal with it because you can't control someones thoughts and fantasies women act like they want to control mens thought and fantasies for their emotional sake and thats just ridiculous that is all im saying

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  • If No love, no Show Nor do I want to Know.
    Good luck. xx

  • What gives you the right to control girl's reactions and feelings, how dare you.

    • i never said that but it seems like women want to control how men masturbate because of their emotional reaction and thats not right thats what im saying

    • You're saying women aren't allowed to react that way. "That's not right". I. e. you're trying to control girls' reactions and feelings, so you're no better. People are grossed out by stuff like that whether you like it or not. If you want to keep doing it then keep doing it. Just don't go around proudly telling everyone that you jacked off to your friends' pics. That's just weird.

    • women wanting to control the thoughts of men because they dont like something, is not right they just have to deal with the fact that some peoples thoughts make them uncomfortable

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  • A GAGer once messaged me to ask, "how does it make you feel to know that I am masturbating to your picture and cuming on your face". His reason for messaging me was because one of my responses pissed him off. My response was, "whatever floats your boat" and "how does it make you feel to know that the girl who pissed you off turns you on". I got no response back. His intent was to shock me. There's not much that truly shocks me and idgaf who you masturbate to.

  • I have no right to dictate your fantasies and private behavior. And I guess you have no right to dictate whether I am grossed out in response. If I don't have to think about it, I don't care, but I don't want to know that a guy I'm not attracted to is jerking off thinking about me.

  • Hmm, for a change, I'm going to try to look at this from their POV ^_^.

    1. Most girls have to worry and or think about this #daily (just a guess). I wonder "will some guy try to knock me out while I'm walking home alone tonight from work. All in order to try to do *insert creepy thing here* to me?".

    2. This goes right alongside #1, but I can only imagine how it must feel to be really #cool with a guy right. All for him to say "I #JERK OFF TO YOUR PICS BABY!!!" which will probably cause the girl to say "damn I thought I could trust him... he had me fooled". Ya know adding to her paranoia around that guy/s in general.

    Now OFC she may like it if she found you attractive that is. But on average most girls will be creeped out by it I'm sure LOL.

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    • walking home alone from work tonight*

  • If a girl says she thinks it is gross, she is not trying to control your behavior or your thoughts. You are suggesting either that

    1. she does not have the right to have an opinion about your behavior, or

    2. she does not have the right to express her opinion about your behavior.

    Are you suggesting #1, #2, or both?

    • she can express her opinion but these wacko feminazis want to control everything even the thoughts and fantasies with men and it makes me very angry

    • I am an enemy of the PC thought police, so I understand your frustration, but if you tell women they can't express their disgust about something, aren't you doing to them the same thing that you are accusing them of doing to you. Tolerance and free expression are not always as nice as biscuits and gravy.

    • im not bothered about them being mad i am bothered at these women wanting to control how men fantasize

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  • Im not. I don't care

  • I'm no grossed out by it. It's like some people don't understand biology now a days.

  • Whats the big deal with it!!! Let them do if they like it. Just ignore it. Its human fantasy and its harming no one lol :D

  • Because it's disturbing and creepy. That's like asking why are parents disturbed and grossed out by some grown man fapping to child porn. Any other questions?

    • better child porn than him doing things with an actual child right he is keeping his fantasy to himself what is the big deal

    • It's just as bad, if not even worse because somewhere out there horribe things are being done to those kids in those movies that helps him fap to him and he doesn't even feel bad or grossed out about it.

  • Do you have some weird desire to tell them? Why is that?

    • I believe in complete honesty

    • In the macro world, I too believe in complete honesty. In every day life, I do not believe in complete honesty. Do you walk up to every woman you find ugly and say, "Hey, I think you're ugly, and I'm telling you this because of my 'complete honesty' policy?"

  • It's weird that you want people to know of it

    • what is wrong with being open and honest with people especially women isn't that something you women complain about with men?

  • I really don't care..

  • I just think it's a bit gross and inappropriate.

  • I find it funny.

    I masturbate to male pictures too.

    Woohoo

  • "Why are so girls grossed out about guys masturbating to their pictures?"

    Let me ask you a question, would you be grossed out if guys masturbated to your picture?
    I'd rather look at porn.

  • I understand that it may not sound the same thing, but it would be a pleasure to me if a random girl said "dude i just masturbate about you" ...

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