Why are so many girls concerned with having small boobs when there are so many guys that prefer them?

I see so many posts on here asking whether guys mind girls with small boobs, there are always lots of positive responses from guys who love small boobs.

Also, from a girl's perspective, what would you define as 'small'?

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  • Because it is always shown that how men get attracted much towards the woman having big boobs, how people laugh sometimes telling them that they have nothing to hide or they are flat chest, almost every men do stare more to those women who is having big boobs, whenever we talk any man they have always imagined playing with round boobs which definitely means fully grown boobs so these all reaction makes them to feel insecure.

    Small means what is not that much attention grabbing, what cannot be very much noticable while we are Fully clothed and if wore jacket or coat it's almost fully invisible kind, feels like it doesn't exist, feels like it's totally flat chest.

    • Thanks for sharing. Is it ok to ask whether you have small boobs and speak from experience?

    • I have small boobs and I also always feel insecure about it so I'm telling what I feel what I have experienced how people and society made me to feel more insecure about it. Both gender, female as well as from male, I got such comments from both. I have always seen guys losing interest in me after seeing my picture and in picture i really have beautiful face big smoky eyes what's always attracts but because of small boobs... My boyfriend loves me and get attracted to me more than anybody but still when I hear from him that how during his teenage time he was very much attracted to big round boobs girl it makes me feel insecure. When i ask him that boobs or hips and he answers he is boobs guy it makes me feel like I'm less. But actually it's not. He is attracted to me most than anybody but our experience the laugh from society and people, the difference in getting treated as not special, seeing our friends or other getting treated as more special because they are more curvy these all makes these insecurity more stronger that we often struggle with it and it becomes tough to overcome it and feel confident again about our body.

    • Many younger guys are obsessed with larger boobs - their taste hasn't matured and neither has their experience. You'll hopefully learn that you have amazing boobs that some guys will be specifically attracted to, especially if you gain the confidence to not worry about them - going braless in a tshirt for example, which is a hot look. I hope you learn to love your amazing gift!

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  • I am small. 30 AA in UK sizes. I love my flatties. Don't wear bras. Saves money. Thankfully, my guy loves me being a little titch.

    • He is very lucky to have your lovely small boobs. Are your nipples puffy or small too?

    • Small.

    • Are you confident enough to go out in a thin tshirt and no bra?

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  • Because they spend their whole lives constantly being told that "bigger is better"- and because bigger breasts DO get more attention, from men, women, and babies alike.

  • Media. So many publications, TV shows, etc. portray the hotter, more desirable women as the ones with larger boobs. In a lot of cases that's true (they wouldn't be pandering to that audience if it wasn't) but in no way is it a fact for everyone. But that kind of pressure can cause women to be unhappy with what they have.

  • I’ve got zero issue with mine and they certainly aren’t big.

    • Great to hear

    • Less baggage is the way I look at it XD

    • Do you dress in a way that shows them off (such as no bra in a tight tshirt) or mostly avoid sexualizing them?

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  • Seems like an intentionally inflammatory question to me.

    • Not intended to inflame, intended to help prove to women that some guys love small boobs!

  • Let me turn the question back on you. Why do so many guys think they need an 8 inch penis when so many girls say it doesn’t matter to them? Society glamorizes certain body traits as a requirement for beauty and desirability even though the reality is that those things aren’t important for a very large portion of the population. Just like a large penis is considered very masculine, large boobs are considered very feminine.

    • Good point of view. I do hear a lot fewer women on here saying the prefer a small penis though?

    • I think there are plenty who would prefer average size over too big though.

    • I can imagine that's true @sweetdripp (great name by the way) But it does illustrate my point. There will be guys on here that love A cup boobs, but very few if any girls who love a 3" erect penis. So it is kind of different I think?

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  • Because some men prefer big boobs and will shame people with small boobs that’s why 🙄🤦‍♀️

    • I've never done that and don't understand why other guys would.

    • I’m glad you’ve not done that

    • Being honest if I saw a girl with smaller boobs and no bra, I would have quite the opposite reaction!

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  • media: guys drooling over women with big breats and shows and movies making fun of girls with small breasts.

    • That’s the reason why us girls who have small boobs are so insecure

    • @LaurenM1997 lots of guys love girls with smaller boobs!

  • I can appreciate small breasts. One advantage they have is that they usually age better. Your small breasts will stay perky longer.

  • I really don't know either 😕

  • Many women feel self conscious as men often describe preferring largwr breasts. I would define small breasts by the way they look on one’s body. My breasts are physically small, but on my frame they look medium sized. I am 5’0, 100lbs, and wear a 28D

    • You're not wrong there, as a guy myself who can afford to be picky and fussy, if I was following my heart's desires lol, I'm a perfectionist for the slim and the bigger endowed than average aka gifted natural E's they're slightly bigger than DD's

    • You figure sounds lovely.