Why are some girls vagina's wetter than others?

[Anonymous]

I had a boyfriend and in the beginning I would always get really wet during sex. After a while it stopped. I dont know why but it would be hard for me to get wet. Anyways, I found out he had cheated on me with his EX. His sister BF had told me that he really did love me but he had told him that his EX vagina was really wet and she sucked his penis really good. Obviously, the girl is experienced and has been around the town so I can see why.. Me on the other hand only ever been with him. Anyways, the situation has gotten ne really insecure about myself. I dont wanna have sex anymore because I feel like no man will enjoy it. Should I see a gynecologist or is this normal since every woman is different?

[Anonymous]

In the beginning you got really wet, then after some time it wasn't so much.
He was obviously doing something differently. When I'm crazy horny I get mad wet, when I'm just kinda turned on I'm nowhere near as wet. Sometimes my boyfriend pushes those buttons, sometimes he doesn't, but for when he doesn't there's lube.
This isn't your issue, it's his, and I'm not just saying this to make you feel better but you're much better off without him. The yucky bit about it, you say she's been around the block and you've had nowhere near as much, how's he gonna fuck her then come back to you after and have sex with you.

[Asker]

I know it's disgusting and it hurts to know that he would make it seem like her sex was better than mine thats why he cheated... smh. I really love him too. Its sad

[Opinion Owner]

I can imagine. Not that cheating would be better, but at least make it a girl who's actually worth getting caught for, like a step up. He's messed up his relationship just for sex, nothing more. I know it's easier said than done, but really, just walk away. Don't give your love to a man who can't do the same back. If you had a problem with his sex, you would talk, wouldn't go fuck out on him because you love him, he's not doing the same for you. As you've seen on this site, some guys really berate other guys for cheating. So you know all guys won't do that. Leave him for a step up, and find somebody who'll give you the love you give to them, nobody else deserves it.

[Asker]

I like your advice. THANK YOU!

[Tdieseler]

Or you could just invest in lube. Yea sure, guys don't like a dry vagina but the smart ones know its all about lube and the dumb ones, well they cheat with someone they left. you can't say you love someone then cheat on them because of an easy problem like a Not-so-wet vagina. its easy to solve that than it is to solve erectile dysfunction. so get some lube and scrap this guy. he's obviously shown that he's not willing to work on even the simplest of issues.

[Asker]

Yeah, thats true...

[Tdieseler]

the vagina/6th sense thing could be right too.. i doubt it but its possible. you said his ex is experienced, sometimes not feeling up to par with someones ex could cause a loss in confidence which can cause dryness. its a far reach but we are looking at all options.

[sirwilliamknowsalot]

when they where kids, they spent more time in the pool then other ones----> so a lot of water got up there.. similar to when water gets in your ears and takes awhile to get out. Getting horny just releases all of the water that is being blocked by the vaginal wall!

[chadsten]

Maybe your vagina was trying to tell you all along that he was cheating on you.

[traxlem]

This is so random it might be true... women have a 6 sense and it might be in their Vagina.

[Asker]

For a while I was anxious a lot but didn't know why... Maybe that was why.

[HonestWhiteGuy]

there's probably nothing wrong with you, he just sounds like a scumbag, move on and find a better guy.

[Anonymous]

It is normal, every woman is different, and it depends on many factors ranging from your hormonal cycle to what you eat. Vaginal lubrication is not so simple as a matter of arousal much like any other issue with the body and talking to a gyno will get you some feedback on what to eat if it's dietary.