Why are some people so obsessed with losing their virginity?

They act like it's a curse
Why are some people so obsessed with losing their virginity?
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I don't know why
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I don't get it either
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Most Helpful Guys

  • 1. Sex feels good. It's pleasurable and a natural desire.
    2. Being unable to lose your virginity is seen as failure. Of course people want to lose it so they can prove they are desirable.
    3. Being made fun of for being a virgin isn't exactly entertaining.
    4. Sex is undeniably more appealing when you are young. Nobody wants to miss out on having sex when they're younger and more active.

    • 5. We have a biological need to reproduce.

  • Well you are asking questions about it, so you are clearly obsessed too.

    When you figure out why you care you will have your answer, until then stop projecting your own issues onto other people.

    • I'm not a virgin

    • So what? Why do you care if other people are virgins or not or how they feel about it? There are literally millions of other things you could be thinking about.

    • You're a genius

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Church taught me that my value to a man was based on my virginity. For a long time, I was obsessed with how to suppress my desires and to wait for the right time. Well I was in love with I gave my virginity to someone and even though we are not together, I have no regrets.

  • Because there's pressure to lose your v card at a young age

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I don't know why, that's a good question too

  • Fear of Missing Out. Also what BronzedAdonis typed.

  • Just social pressure and it’s dumb

  • I have no idea

  • It makes more sense to want to experience something than not.

  • Curiosity.

  • Not obsessed... just worried ill be seen as a weirdo..

  • They are scared of sharing intimacy

  • They feel like they’re not desirable since nowadays everaboda havin the sex

  • They think sex will give them a higher status, when it's nothing special if there are no feelings in between.

  • To fill a hole in their heart they need to fill a hole in someone else

  • I don't know why

    • I know why you don't know why

    • How did you know?

    • I can't tell you

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  • They fall prey to societal expectations

  • Because they think having sex makes them a champion.

  • Because it's fucking shit

  • They just worry if too soon or too late haha

  • in our society it is a signature of value
    whether the person likes it or not

    NOW IS SEX THAT BIG OF A DEAL
    nope

    once you have had it plenty of times
    you realize it is not a big deal