Girls, Why are women afraid to try new things in bed?

Every time I talk to a woman about what they would or wouldn’t do in bed or sexual things they would do they turn there heads and say hell no. They don’t even try and and sometimes we wonder if they like sex or not?
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  • I have a couple questions

    1) are you asking with the intent to test how far the woman is willing to go with/ for you? Or are you asking based on what you genuinely enjoy, what gets you off, or have always fantasized about?

    2) at what point are you having this conversation with the women? Are you asking prior to having sex with the woman? Asking during sex? Asking after already having sex with the woman?

    3) how many women have you initiated this conversation with? Or give us an example of something you asked that generates the, "hell no" response. Because I'd imagine that it depends on the woman, but also the scenario (s) you're trying to introduce.

    • Ok for the first question I don’t really know how to answer that it’s not for a reason I just don’t know what your asking? For the second question I would ask before even having any sex and even months or years into the relationship I have asked and it doesn’t hurt to just ask about it. I was asking because I didn’t want the sex to get boring or feel like she has to leave because it’s not good and wanted to spice things up. So I did what others would do we tried different positions and when I asked her about bringing toys into the bedroom she didn’t like it at first now she does. And is also trying more and more new ones then came a point when I asked the big question. For the 3rd question we had been dating 5 years at this point I asked the big question of hey do you wanna have a threesome and no it’s not one of those I get my rocks off I didn’t want one with her and another female I said how about another male and she said hell no. I just wanted to bring fun into the bedroom but I asked only one more time after that then never again.

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  • Everyone has boundaries and things they aren't comfortable with.
    Whether it's puke, scat, choking, Bdsm.
    Respect their boundaries, if not go on and find someone else with the same tastes as you.
    Just because we communicate our boundaries and dont like what you like doesn't mean we dislike sex.

    • And I didn’t say that I was just saying that it seems like most women are like that. But like I said I communicated with my girl she said she didn’t want to do that stuff then we moved on simple as that and had a great time.

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What Girls Said

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  • Just becauae a woman does not want to try new things in bed, doesn’t mean that they are not into sex.

  • Raised to be a certain way. Not comfortable with their body or sexuality.

  • no one has to try new things. anyone who can't respect that should not get sex

    • I agree but sometimes trying new things is good

  • Experience and the will to try new things comes from timing and the chemistry. At least for me. I can go from prude as hell with someone to open to anything with someone else. For women it is harder to express themselves with everybody.

  • I try new things most of the time, but just because a woman does not, does not mean she is bad at sex. For all we know another man like yourself messed up when she did and it will never happen again. You all can get too pushy.

  • Well what things are you suggesting?

    • Different positions different sexual things bringing toys in the the bed to try bringing maybe people into the conversation anything

    • Okay

    • Yeah it could be anything even brining other people into the conversation

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  • Even being married for almost 10 years my husband and I discuss different things we may or may not try. 2 hard passes for me are Anal and threesomes! Neither of us is into whips and bondage or shit like that so that isn’t an issue. We have been somewhat adventurous like doing it at the beach, at work, in the truck, in the rain or somewhere else in the house or other outside areas. But nothing to bring on a type of indecent exposure charge. Or anything like that.

  • You must be new to GAG

    • Nope been on a while

    • Are you a sub or a dom?

    • Both