Why are women self conscious about their tits?

I hear question like is this a good size, do guys like them this size, are they too small?

I mean women complain that guys perv at their tits rather than looking into their eyes, I figured women would be greatful for smaller tits, not to mention less back pain and less needed to have a bra on under clothes if they are smaller.

Now I get why you like having them though during sexual activitieswith your partner. So help me out, what the deal here?
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  • I’m perfectly comfortable with mine, and I’m not small in that area.

    I’ve seen a lot of guys say they like small ones yet when they see a female with good size that’s not saggy and still skinny in the middle they go crazy and desperate. I know firsthand 😂

    • Well women say the same about guys dicks and prefer personality yet they still still prefer a bigger dick lol

    • I wasn’t complaining :) just stating a fact

    • I know, just saying though

Most Helpful Guys

  • Because pretty much every form of media is constantly talking about how incredible important tits are. And not openly, where you can argue with or dismiss it, but (relatively) subtly, so you start to doubt and wonder, and find yourself thinking, almost against your will, that your boobs really aren't as big or pretty or firm as they should be, and eventually you start worrying about it. This world is a very stupid place sometimes.

  • Seriously? As much attention as guys pay to boobs and you wonder why women are self conscious about them?

    • Yeah women are complaining about guy starring at their tits, so if they did have smaller tits they are more likely to stare at their eyes instead

    • You aren't bright

Most Helpful Girl

  • It has to so what's considered the social norm. Currently everyone loves curves. Bigger ass bigger tits. So naturally everyone wants bigger. Bigger is considered sexy. Therefore some women dont feel sexy if they aren't what's IN.

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  • Because we get the message from guys and from the media that they should look at certain way to be attractive, and if they’re too small, too saggy, or otherwise “imperfect” then we feel less attractive.

    • I get what you mean, it's like guys being insecure with their dick size if they can't messure up to what a woman needs

  • I guess it makes me feel old, and society doesn't like women looking old even though it's a biological process.

  • Because historically and currently the policing of women's bodies implies our direct social value is strongly attached to the appearance of our bodies.

  • Sounds like guys and their penis size lol

    • RIGHT 😂

  • Ask yourself why guys are so self conscious about their dicks, and you have an approximate answer.

    • I get where you coming from, it's just with dicks we have more self comsiois to deal with as if its not a big enough size it's not gonna pleasure the girl

  • Similar to how some guys are about their dicks

  • I would say basis on my personal experience. I had bigger breast when I was in my teenage years. My friends would shame me for this. Some guys would see my tits first and then talk to me. Sometimes I was ogled for my pair of tits. Also, when I was 15 a random stranger was on his cycle he grabbed my boob and ran away. I felt really scared. Now, I have lost weight and feel comfortable in my body. I am okay with my breast. But still tit shaming is making everyone conscious.

    • Though you see where I'm coming from though

  • Society and some people make it a big deal and shame women if their too small then it really gets under peoples skin and makes them feel like they need to change. Even if a person loves themselves that can still badly affect someone. My tits are not big but their not really small either. Their medium and i wish they were bigger because i have been shamed but my boyfriend is happy with them and that's all that counts.