Why are women so disgusted by virgin men?

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RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

I'm not - the only time I find issue with it, and I keep reiterating, is when a guy isn't a virgin by choice - and by that I don't mean simply "not finding the right girl." I mean the dudes who are desperate for sex, pursue it endlessly and can't get it. Not to kick a dude when he's down or anything but unless I can find a reasonable reason (which many exist), I have to stop and question why exactly women are turning him down exactly.

My boyfriend was a virgin when we met, he simply said he hadn't found the right girl and hadn't been interested in sleeping with anyone at that point. That's understandable. But when a guy admits to me (and yes, I've had a guy admit this to me) that he "hasn't been able to get sex for 8 years, not by choice" red flags kind of pop up in my mind.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

They're not disgusting, in my opinion. A girl may be discusted only if the guy is desperate for sex, masturbates all the time, tells creepy green jokes, wears a smoulder look that does not look sexy at all and looks real creepy.

girlwithquestions3 · Accepted Answer

I'm not but for others it's a thing on masculinity.

Intraluminal · Accepted Answer

For very sound sociobiological reasons.

As a female you can only have a limited number of children, unlike a male who can (potentially) have hundreds.

So, since you can't really increase the number of children you produce too much, your best strategy is to improve their quality as much as you can.

Since you can't improve your own biological quality, the only way to do that is by picking the best male you can to be your children's father.

BUT, what is the best male? How do you recognize the best male? The easiest and best way is too look at which makes it hers have chosen.

The flip side of that equation is that the males that nobody has chosen are the worst possible males.

Chico_brah · Accepted Answer

There's a siginigant difference between virgin men and virgin women. Most virgin women are virgins by choice being that they're the more selective sex. Most virgin men are not virgins by choice. If you're a virgin at my age, then I honestly wouldn't consider you a man. You have essentially failed to attract a woman enough to have sex with you and that within itself says a lot. Most virgin men are socially awkward and seem to be very unpleasant to be around. It has to start eating you up after so many years.

maddd4ever · Answer

I respect Virgin guys. and I like them more than those who are not. but if a virgin guy is a masterbater then I wouldn't like him anymore

jacquesvol · Answer

I'm not sure they are disgusted. Don't forget every non virgin was a virgin once.

catelyntje · Answer

I'm not it's mostly guys shaming other guys for this

Sluthater · Answer

Don't think they are disgusted but unlike women where the absolute fattest, nastiest women can get sex easier than the best looking man, a guy has to have at lest SOME game or be reasonably attractive to have sex. But, occasionally you get a guy who feels that sex should be with a special woman. Because men have a reputation for worshipping their dicks, women assume a male virgin has no game. Its almost like they need the stamp of approval from another woman. Even my 14 year old daughter who insists that she is saving herself for marriage told me that she wouldn't want a male virgin. She didn't want a man whore but wanted an experienced guy (2 or 3 women). I personally don't get it. In this day and age of cheaters and liars virgin guy=low risk.

DizzyAster · Answer

I wouldn't say disguested, but some might like a guy with experience. Some might like that fact you don't have any.

Bleepasaurus_RexEwww · Answer

I'm not lol I'm just disgusted of ugly fat virgin men

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Virgin: Socially awkward weirdo=Turn off. Virgin: handsome, kind, confident and intelligent= Turn on.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

I never understood. If a girl rejects you because you're a virgin she wasn't worth it anyway.  Or, if you want, just lie.

wrightontime · Answer

Virgin guys always end up slut shaming the non virgin girl because they didn't lost their v card to another virgin. This is what I did for years!

omykb1_one · Answer

luck of experience?

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are disgusted by themselves.

Anonymous · Answer

i like virgins i am virgin to and want to marry with a virgin guy. but it seems it is really hard to find one because most people lose it in young age and are shamed of being virgin.

Anonymous · Answer

There's something off about a guy over a certain age who is still a virgin. Why has he been so unsuccessful with women?

Anonymous · Answer

Actually, I'm not, I liek them.

Anonymous · Answer

They like guys who sleep around because they're "experienced".

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think disgusted is the correct word. I think that many women are leery of virgin men unless the man is a virgin because he chooses to abstinent. A guy who is 20 y/o or older and still a virgin is likely to have social anxiety problems, low self esteem or other emotional baggage. That is a turn-off for some women. How do I know? I lost my virginity at 21 y/o.

Anonymous · Answer

I think we're afraid that you don't have experience, and if we don't have to, it's impossible. We search guys who will please us and know how it works.

Anonymous · Answer

I won't ever date a man who is not a virgin. So a virgin man is the biggest requirement to dating me.

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason men are disgusted by girls who have slept around. Men are supposed to be experienced and women are supposed to be pure. Why? It's a mystery

Anonymous · Answer

Whores?

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