Why are women so selfish, is it too much to ask that you make men feel desired and not treat sex as a chore?

You can't even compliment us.
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  • For me, it's not a chore. I'm not oblige to do it. I do it because I feel the intense connection and emotion with my man. I am loved. I feel secured and taken cared of.

    I think for the women you call selfish. I don't think it's really what they want. Being intimate is both personal, raw and powerful. Everyone wants to have that with a person. If a woman gives a selfish vibe, maybe she also gets the same vibe from the man. Remember a woman of today learns to only give what she just gets.

    • Women dont seem to reciprocate much

    • Why do men always think it's women's fault why we do things? Why blame it on us? Remember being intimate and doing the deed is partnership. Both of you need to exert an effort. Let's say you do things already, but you still think she doesn't reciprocate. Then evaluate yourself. Maybe for you, you're doing good enough, but it may be different for her. Since it's partnership, why don't you open up to her and discuss to her your problem. You may be surprised, she might say something also and she's just too shy to say it. Good communication is the key

    • Then why agree to date?

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  • I've never felt like sex was a chore and also give men lots of compliments

    • Thanks

    • Yeah I do get why you'd ask this question tho cuz a lot of women don't seem to eager to be wanting sex or to be giving them compliments. I have to imagine it's cuz they don't know how to treat a man.

    • @apple1996 you are the best ;)

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Most Helpful Guys

  • My girlfriend gets excited waiting for me to get off work so she can make me bust after a long day.


    There are unselfish women. You just to find them and be able to evoke that sort of attraction.


    Women aren’t the problem.


    Work on yourself.


    BECOME a prize.

    • Women are the problem bro, they'll agree to go on a date with you but act cold

    • Search up Casey Zander. He’s a dating coach. A lot of how I do things aligns with his philosophy. If you keep blaming women, you’re going to find yourself stuck where you are and nothing will change.

    • The fact that you have to go to dating coaches is proof that women are the problem lol

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  • Well, have you ASKED your woman (or women) about this? They won't know if you don't; women can't hear what men don't say. Warren Farrel wrote a book with that title that you might want to give a read to.

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  • Why generalize? Not every woman acts the same as the one or ones you have these experiences with.

  • You sound like quite a prize without any chip on your shoulder.

    • Because I want to feel loved by my SO? Are you ok?

    • She likely doesn’t want to have sex anymore because you’re the same anon who keeps pressuring her to do sexual stuff she doesn’t feel right doing. Creep.

    • Pressuring my SO for sex? Ok, I'll dump her and kick her out then

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  • ain't no chore to me because i love sex just need the right man to please for life. I always tell a guy of interest he's cute or in general if im attracted. Maybe its the women you've came across. Sorry.

  • Maybe because engaging with a man these days are worth a dime. And any good ones are priceless

  • i make guys feel desired

    • Mmmmm interesting

  • I came here for the salt mine in the comments

  • You are dating the wrong women. My wife is almost always willing.

  • bro if we don’t wanna have sex then deal with it. You can’t force anyone into it and then call them selfish if they don’t want to.

    • If you're gonna agree to date then dont be a bitch and give 1 word answers when i talk to you, or is that too much to ask?

    • Why don’t you just tell your girlfriend you don’t feel respected? Though at the same time, respect HER needs too. Neither one of you should be forced to have sex just because you’re dating.

  • I never treat sex as a chore. In fact I've not met a guy than can keep up with me! I do also compliment when deserved.

    • Excellent 👍

  • Women feel like society gives them a constant stream of shit for being sexual beings.

  • What are you on about?

  • Stop paying for sex?

  • There is some truth to this. My wife of 26 years treats it like a chore a lot of the time because it’s just not her thing.

  • Maybe that’s just you’re opinion. Treat her sexy. Take her out for dinner and play with her under the table. Have a little spark.

  • You're going after the wrong women, vet out the prudes well ahead of time.

  • Not all women are like that..

    • Just most

    • I disagree..

    • Idc...

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  • Because I don’t like sex soz