Why are women who have been sexually abused as minors by men or lesbians always end up mentally ill or sexually promiscuous?

I have never been molested as a child by an adult, I know that molesting children can traumatize them for life but I never knew to how far the damage goes.

I suspect or hypothesize that most girls in America and Canada and Europe and Latin America are sexually abused before they become adults, this must explain why western countries have such an unpleasant sexual culture where women are encouraged to be whores by their peers (also were molested) or by celebrities. Little girls that are normal don't grow up wanting to be slags or mean. I think this is also why there's a growing number of young adult western men who are incels or unable to find a proper respectable adult virgin woman, because molested women develop a psychological taste in the men that abused her and it stick to her, they have babies with violent men , become unfit parents, and the cycle repeats.

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  • That's pretty accurate. Sex is a pretty common coping mechanism in the US because it's quick, easy, fun, legal, releases endorphins, gives you a sense of bonding, etc. It can also be a way of releasing pent up negative emotions.
    It's socially acceptable in many places here for people to become sexually active as young as 12 or 13 years old. Maybe not among parents but definitely among peers. When I was in school, they taught us about sex as early as 8 or 9 years old. I had friends who started having sex at 12.
    In many cases of sexual trauma victims, they use sex as a way to take back control. Some people do it because it makes them feel a sense of love or temporarily fills the void of loneliness. Others do it because it's just what they grew up with. Some people do it because it makes them feel better about themselves.
    I agree that we do tend to follow those patterns and it's extremely difficult to break. I don't necessarily think that all women who are sexually promiscuous were abused by adults or at all but definitely a large number of them probably were.

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  • A lot of times children who were abused grow up thinking that they were abused because they deserve it, and that their abuser chose them to abuse because they knew that they were going to be promiscuous when they grew up. So when they grow up, they act in a way that matches with what they think they are.

    • What do you mean they "know" they'll be promiscuous when they grow up?

    • I'm not saying they actually know, I'm saying that in a child's mind sometimes they believe that they must deserve what they are getting because that is who they are.

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  • In my experience and knowing a few females that were abused, they're exact opposite. They don't want anyone touching them. Took me forever to hug one of them. She still cringes a little when I do. She trusts me and all that but she's psychology f-ed up. So i let her hug first then i give her a little squeeze. But that's it.

    • That's not any better

    • According to who? She trusts me. Not many others. She has told me she trusts me. I haven't done anything to her except for the hug. But i let her start the hug.

    • If you're waiting till marriage to have sex that's one thing, but if not I don't see the point in being with her, you may as well have a same sex friend if you don't plan on fornicating with the molested woman.

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  • For real? Why? Simple. The mind of a child in no way it's ready for sex. Exposing them to sexual material, or even forcing them to have a sexual experience; beside being criminal, it's something their mind can not process. Is like expecting a cup of tea to hold up a gallon of water. It can't!

    • The reaction of those abused, depends of each person personality. Some became hypersexuals, others: hyposexuals

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  • Not always. No.

    • I hear that a lot and I literally cannot imagine how you get an innocent little girl who wasn't molested or exposed to innaproprate activity by her molested peers into growing up being a reprobate who catches and spreads herpes.

    • Well. It does mess many girls up. At the end of the day there is people who been through horrible stuff who are greet folks. At some point in life. People choose who they are. Some people didn’t go through abuse and they end up like that. Others did but didn’t do that.

    • How do you know they weren't molested?

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  • mostly to cover their dark sad history

  • I was raped as a minor and me liking sex no or "sexually promiscuous" as you refer to it was how I took back my life and the fear and trauma of bring raped... I rose above my fear and trauma by having sex on my terms and for some reason it did the trick