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Why are young men attracted to already married women?

Didn't ever understand this thing as a women, so a curious enquiry.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I know several couples where men are younger than their wives, and some of them have remarried to already married once women. Men have evolved as a chaser and take pride in winning some thing which is more difficult. Since a married woman is already "won" by someone else. Snatching it from him adds to this sense of superiority. It is sure that married women's bodies are fully developed, and women who had sex and bore the children, reached the stage of completeness. You can easily judge it by looking at her face and body language. Her face shows confidence, fulfilment and happiness. Being grown up and experienced adds certain shades of personality and confidence. Many men like to date a more self assured lady than some one who is still learning the ropes of life. Married women (with children) have more count of estrogen representing femininity in the same way testosterone represent masculinity. Bodies of married women have more curves and they possess fully developed breasts that attract the men. Men default nature is to pass the genes in population. He wants to ensure that he should have offspring. Married women who already posses children is guaranteed that she is capable of bearing children, she is capable for giving love and care not only to her children but also to her partner. All though married women is forbidden sweet fruit but all those which are sweet and attractive do not mean that they are good and healthy. They can be poison. I would however advise you chose not to get involved in it at all. Affairs can often seem so easy in theory, and so very complicated in reality. Doing this you not only blemish her husband honour, respect and reputation but also wrong to her kids because being involved with you, she can not give that much love, care, consistency and time to her children which they deserve. So please do not destroy the life of innocent children and her husband. Better to marry virgin woman who can love you and your children and be honest to you and your children. When you marry to virgin women then she also become married woman with your kids and this thing also attracts you more than poisonous forbidden sweet fruit

    • This question is asked by a pink anon, but you say it like his a guy. And just for the sake of conversation men donot go for women who was already won that is not honour. I feel that married women look more caring and they offer you help and support and cookies lol especially the food the caringness could attracted like they have been provided and with love

  • Men want what they can’t have. Infinitely more attractive.

    • @loves2learn so do women i think its a human thing to want something were told we can't have :D

    • I don’t disagree with that. Lol. The grass is always greener.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Honestly? Because they can be incredibly hot.

    Sexual and emotional frustration makes for some of the best sexual motivators, there is very little that compares to the thirst of a cheating woman.
    I know it's asshole behavior, but it's frankly some of the best sex I have had and that's why I have often sought them in the past.
    It's hot and it just makes me feel good and desired, that's really all there is to it for me.

    I worked summer jobs as a tourist animator specifically for this reason.

  • Basically, mane men are attracted to all kind of women... so many men happen to be young, and many women happen to be married already... so it happens.

    For a person to be married doesn't have to make that person less attractive, and at the same time... being attracted to someone doesn't have to be more than just that, being attracted.

    Also, there are many people scanning around for others that are open to cheating, and the ones that cheat, of course, are the ones in relationships.

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  • When I was 16 and a half 17 years old I went out with an older woman and then three more after that but there's just something hot and sexy about a mature woman either making love to her or fucking her and her telling you that that was amazing and she's never felt that good before is just a total major turn on and then they're willing to do whatever you want them to do it just gets really hot

  • Attraction doesn't change because a person is taken. Their attitude towards the person should, however.

  • I have slept with married women, but with single women the most. For one thing, they are attached, and are NOT likely to leave their husband, especially with children involved. There is the 'risk' involved and that adds to the 'thrill" if you will. Secondly, the married woman is more experienced, and my best sex was with a married woman with quite a bit of sexual history.

  • I don't know but when I first got married, all of a sudden I had a couple of women actually ask me out. They were both pretty hot and if I wasn't married I definitely would have gone out with them.

  • Wanting what they can't have.

  • I guess it's because she's unattainable and having her would be taboo. I never understood the appeal though.

  • Leave those women alone

    They are spoken for


    Why do people break the law?

  • It's simple if you look good as couple and enjoying good life and showcasing love and happiness they want it for themselves they might imagine themselves in your husband's place.

    Now you shout on your husband ferociously and tell me that still those guys are attracted to you 😂 then that would be something

    • Also women at your age are at the prime of womanhood and sensuality

  • Because men are more visual so if the married woman is physically attractive that’s your answer. Also just because someone is attractive doesn’t mean we should do anything about it.

  • I think it is because she is mature enough to understand a man's feeling and desperate enough for male company. Sorry about the choice of words

  • I have been and more than once, lol.

  • I don’t think I am, but attractive people are more often dating so there is that.

  • Porn usually

  • It doesn't matter if they're hot.

  • Because the majority of attractive Women are taken because they are beautiful, Not because they are simply taken.

  • attracted to what is worth keeping. They know she is of worth therefore are attracted to her

  • After marriage girls looks more beautiful
    And they know they are sexually active

  • It can be very exciting

  • Attraction doesn't change whether they are old or married.

    I love milfs, I don't really know why, but I love them and find them more sexy

  • men attracted to any women guess its preselection that means they might be good also doing it with another mans woman is kinky

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