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Why aren’t guys more vocal?

Some are but majority aren’t. In case you didn’t know i’m talking about moaning. 😅
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  • Possibly because we don't think/realise it turns girls on the same way girls moaning does, or because we don't think it's that manly, and also because it doesn't really come naturally for us at all, like it doesn't mean we aren't enjoying it but it just doesn't happen in the same way it does for women, like if a guy masturbates for example he doesn't really make noise either so it's not to do with enjoyment or anything lol.

    • well it’s sexy as fuck. a guy moaning can make me cum so fast

    • Haha. Well thanks for informing me lol, never been told that and I'm sure many other guys probably don't know either. It doesn't really feel natural but I'm sure if more guys knew it pleased women so much then they'd do it more. 🙃

    • i wish more guys knew it. I guess i’m gonna have to keep telling them 😅

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  • Because 90 percent of our orgasms have been through masturbation. Mostly at home where you do it as fast as possible without any noise to avoid being discovered. Easier for women. They don't make a huge mess when they orgasm. No evidence.

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  • I wonder if it is a dominance-submission thing in some cases. I don't suspect that's the only factor. But I'm not so loud besides some grunts, hardly any moans, but I test 99% dominant according to some test. To sort of moan in my biased perspective is sort of giving up control, and I'm all about being in control until all but the final moments. If I was to make more sound it'd be a dominant way of speaking, telling the girl what to do, but I find that kind of jarring as well. So I don't make much noise. I try to take control. I let the girl make most of the noise.

    • If I go figurative, it's like I split her legs open. I am a quiet machine, a silent beast. She moans, not me. She responds to me. I don't respond to her.

    • I might be an extremity in this case. I don't even enjoy the cowgirl position for long. I have to grab her and start moving her to gain control, get frustrated, and lean up to lotus position where it is more mutual. And I still don't enjoy that for long, I have to roll her over to missionary or bend her over. I do not respond to her. She responds to me. To moan here seems completely unnatural to me.

    • I suspect more guys are more dominant than submissive though. Moaning at least seems submissive to me, like yielding your sense of control to the moment. I prefer to always be in control. That keeps me fairly quiet, and I suspect most guys are more like this than not more often than not.

  • They're probably too busy thinking "please don't cum in 2 minutes " 🤣

    • facts 😂😂😂

    • @J3nny Girl, Right?

    • Brb practicing edging and kegal exercises

  • I’m very vocal and talkative

  • I've had vocal guys, especially in the seconds before they cum.

    • well yeah. but i’ve heard a majority aren’t. i was just curious as to why not

    • @J3nny to me nothing is more exciting then hearing a guy say he's going to cum.

    • facts tho

  • I'm somewhat vocal but not excessively so.

  • I don't know i guess its better to keep it to yourself

  • Because we associate moaning as a feminine thing.

  • It doesn't sound hot

    • i assure you, it sounds hot

  • I'm more silent.

  • I do. The thing is I'm a shy yet when it comes to sex or when I'm horny in general, I turn into someone else lol. I start groaning (which is normal) but I also start talking dirty and then once finished I feel so ashamed of myself lmao

    • that’s sexy af tho

    • Oh really? I mean I do really say nasty stuff very nasty lol

    • oh yeah. groaning and dirty talk = A+

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  • I love moaning lol

  • Because a woman's moaning is an instinctual call for other males to come fuck her

  • It depends on the girl and how good she is

    • Are you vocal?

    • are you? but to answer yes

    • Yes very

  • Some guys are just not vocal

  • i was gonna answer this because i thought you ment like singing 🤦‍♂️

    • well that too

    • well in that case, i belive its becsuse it takes talent and a lot of courage to be able to sing. the most i have ever sung was humming to a song that was a favourite

    • that’s very true. it sucks when you try your hardest to sing well and others criticize it

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  • Well I can't speak from experience so I don't know if I'm vocal or not.

  • I’m super vocal when I cum I can’t help it

  • I guess for me, I'm too busy focusing on her noises l.

  • I love to moan when i am feeling it. Does moaning turn you on

  • Which get the maximum pleasure he goes vocal.

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