Just wondering why women are called sluts and disgusting for not being a virgin even though she has slept with only one guy before. But guys who have a 600+ body count like Andrew Tate for example get praised and called "The top G" and stuff like that. Why?
NOBODY shames women for being virgins or non-virgins! This must be a "you" thing.
Men get shamed for being virgins over the age of 21 because it's implied (incorrectly) that they must be losers or incels who women all hate because they can't get laid. And women are only shamed for being sluts and whores because sluts and whores spread STD's around, unwanted pregnancies, unnecessary abortions, break up families, and contribute nothing of value to society.
It's EXTREMELY hard for most non-Chad men to get laid, and EXTREMELY easy for just about any feminine looking woman to get laid. That is why men get credit for having a lot of sex; cause it's incredibly hard. And women get shamed for having a lot of sex; cause it's incredibly easy and she's likely spreading STD's, adultery, and unnecessary abortions around.
But nobody shames female virgins or male players, for the reasons I said.
A man who's having a lot of sex could also spread STDs and is comitting adultery. And by the way women are being shamed for not being virgins all the time. For example in some countries like Iran for example it's so extreme that if a father finds out his daughter isn't a virgin he throws her out of the balcony. And boys keep on saying in school for example that women who isn't virgins are sluts even if their body count is 1. And search in YouTube "women need to be virgins" and you'll see this fat American guy talking about it. All the men in the comments are saying that women who have had sex are undesirable.
A man COULD potentially spread them, but like I said, very few men get to have sex often anyway. Where as any woman can get laid anytime she wants. So that man would have to be a 9 out of 10 Chad to even be in that position and usually such men don't want to stop having sex, so they tend to be extra safe and not catch anything so they get to keep having sex. Where as slutty women, especially the lesser attractive ones, don't have to be so cautious. I don't know what weird country you must live in where women are shamed for not being virgins (if they aren't sluts or whores), but it ain't the English-speaking Western world. Maybe you're from France or Senegal or something. No one gives a f*ck what backwards crapholes like Iran thinks about anything. Men don't want women are sleeping with everything that moves as DATING partners. That is accurate. But if they just want cheap empty sex, they'll go to a slutty woman. Some women cannot separate these two ideas from each other. Only a few hyper-conservative men, expect to find a virgin woman in 2022, and if she is one, she is seen in a positive light.
First of all, this isn't about not being a virgin. It's about being promiscuous, and it really comes down to one thing. Men hold women to a higher standard with respect to promiscuity than women hold men. I've never understood that. But the answer is not men lowering their standards. Women should raise their own standards for men.
Promiscuity is never a good thing, regardless of gender. But it seems it bothers men more than women. It's not a choice, really. We are genetically programmed to be turned off by promiscuity when looking for a mate because we know instinctively that promiscuous women are less likely to be loyal life partners and less likely to be good mothers to our children. And statistics show that instinct is correct.
Hypocrites. And sadly not only men, I also got slut shamed by women. It's just fucking stupid!
I agree.
It's not hypocritical when one gender can get laid literally whenever they want and never have to be lonely or feel alone, and the other gender has 90% of tis population ignored and seen as undesirable, and only the top elites of their gender can even get laid more than once in a blue moon, to begin with. Nobody in the West even shames women for not being virgins, anyway. They only shame them if they're extremely promiscous, because it spreads STD's and unwanted pregnancies around. I'm so sick of women saying stupid sh*t with no context or understanding behind any of it, especially when they benefit the most from it, but one tiny little negative is enough to make them whine about it.
@McCheetah you really have some weird views on women. I'm sorry for you🙏🏼
Hypocrites. Sadly, men even believe their own bullshit.
They tell women they need to be virgins, never dated, never had a boyfriend or their first kiss but they themselves masturbate to porn and go sleep around, make out with girls and have had multiple partners.
Lmaoo yes. Plus at the same time she (inexperienced) better be like a porn star in the sheets hahaha smh
@melanieeeB Exactly! Men these days are trash, so are most women too. I'm not saying women are perfect, but the hypocrisy around men when it comes to sexual stuff in women is ridiculous.
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!We have feelings about ourselves as well, both being a virgin and not being a virgin. but boys get promoted/rewarded for their bravado in some circles whereas girls may get shamed. its cultural. were different... that's why.
Right, still hypocrisy.
doesn't seem to fit the definition. If there are differences, isn't there legit reasons why there's different expectations? women are the gatekeepers to bringing life to the world... babies. We know without strong support... can be in big life altering difficulty. Males are remote to that reality... having to hold, care for, feed the infant for many years. We can, but it's a different level of attachment and role. p. s. I don't think women should be shamed for their virginity either way, that's a maturity issue. but there's a reason it's a respected idea which is rooted in the past, before there was birth control. But there's no mistaking that women who get pregant at a young age face a dire choice of abortion (killing their unborn before they breathe... which is awful), having the child and diminishing their economic opportunity. Generally young guys who are the seed to that, 12+ years... run away from the responsibility. If anything, this is a testimony to the poor training of males as anything else. In that regard, it isn't hypocrocy as much as idiocy.
Because men and women are different, a man is like a key, a woman is like a lock.
I wouldn't want to marry a slut man ever, disgusting. If he ain't a virgin he ain't a diamond
Usually women are okay with marrying a "slut man", but you free looking for a good guy.
We shouldn't normalize slut men as a good thing. Those women deserve better than a disgusting man who has been tossed around🤢
Because it's easier for a woman to get sex then it is for a man.
Men get shamed for being virgins or even having any kind of dating standards.
A lot of women who complain about this particular double standard participate in it by choosing to date a man who's promiscuous anyway.
Doesn't matter, a man who has slept with so many women is a pimp, a slut unworthy of a virgin.
So why do a lot of women still choose to date these guys and shame virgins. A none traditional women isn't worthy of a traditional man either, keep your virginity instead of being hypocritical too. If you want a tall man, be tall too. Don't call a man a pedo for dating younger either, whilst praising women who date younger for 'having options'. Plenty of double standards exist and a lot benefit women too
I guess because, despite popular lefty belief, men can't get pregnant!
Maybe so
Because it’s a double standard. Guys are praised in society for having a high body count as that implies many girls want them. But girls are shamed for being even slightly sexual as ‘good girls’ are virgins until marriage. It’s bullshit in my opinion and sadly it causes some girls to close down emotions and natural feelings for fears of being shamed.
Is this what you are asking about?
Yeah sort of, I just feel sad about it. I am a virgin, but it hurts to see that other women that are not are treated so badly even if they've only slept with 1 person. I have this guy in my school who has slept with over 10 girls and all the boys look up to him and praise him for it. But he shames this girl who has had sex with him, but only him and no one else. Calling her slut and that she's easy and so on.
Then he is an asshole and I would question if he slept with any girls. Often the guys who boast are the insecure bullies.
Andrew Tate, is a fucking retard
Some things he say are true, but he is way to materialistic and he is a slut
No, nothing he says is true, it’s all bullshit, and he profits from it
Men and women are different. It's like asking why don't apples make orange juice. Lmao
It's still huge hypocrisy. Apples and oranges are different kinds of things, men and women are the same species.
Apples and oranges are both fruits. Men and women being the same species is irrelevant. They are not the same and it's not hypocrisy.
M'en aren't shamed for being a virgin?
I can tell you from experience that it's bullshit. And women are a big part of it.
You're wrong. Men do get shamed as well. Peer rpessure might be a bit less than women, but it does exist for us
can't answer why people think that way myself I would rather have a virgin then a slut, but slut is in the eye of the beholder
to me its bad and sin, if you lose your virginity before marriage, no matter if its male or female.
Same for me, I also think so. But would you date a non virgin who has repented?
I will only date her. but tbh won't marry her. and obviously no sex before marriage
I mean I can dat a none virgin girl. but its just like a very very close friends type relation. yes girlfriend boyfriend. but no sex surely.
Because women want a guy with skills and men want a girl with no skills.
Good question, probably that girls are supposed to be wholesome.
Why are men not supposed to be wholesome? I'd never want to marry a slut man.
I'm not sure. Some guys are
Men get shamed for being a virgin.
Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
AI Bot Choice
Superb Opinion