Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Most people think of men who are in a female led relationship or are obidient to their wife/GF as weak. Which is because female led relationships are very falsely portrayed by the midea.

What is a female led relationship?

People often mix them with femdom which are two different things. Femdom is a sexual fetish that involves a woman dominating a man or enslaving him and this is only a sexual thing. Female led relationships are not slavery. Both partners respect each other and love each other. A female led relationship is a relationship where the man admits that women are better leaders and he lets her have the last word in their decisions. She simply decides what they will do and he takes her permission before doing something.

Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Why it isn't a sign of weakness for a man to submit to a woman

Back in ancient times a mighty strong knight killed dozens of soldiers on the battlefiled and when he goes back to his kingdom he kneels infornt of his queen and submits to her. It doesn't make him weak he simply knows when to be strong and when to kneel

Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Why it's in fact a sign of strength?

Because naturally society gives men more privileges and what I mean by privellages is a man is expected to lead his wife and be the dominant one. When you give away your own privellages and accept to give it to the woman it's a sign of true love and strength.

It's a sign of strength when you aren't afraid of what others would think of you,you only care about what she thinks which is a sign of true love

Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Why be in a female led relationship in the first place?

Because I beleive women are smarter and better at leading,I feel more comfortable when a woman is in charge of something whether it is at school or in politics or in a workplace. I love the feeling of obeying women and pleasing them. Being a good Guy in a group of men who mostly hate women is a good feeling!

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  • Yeah, it was a great way to survive loneliness. You work to better the relationship and come out on top. I am now being told that i wrote a good reply. 😎

  • Actually, no. It is a massive sign of weakness.
    It shows you are still a child who needs a mommy. A female to help you live your life because you can't do it yourself.

    • Exactly. Telling it like it is.

  • This isn't a female led relationship its a submissive one. And while it may bring short term joy in the long term its not a good situation for either partner.

  • I buy the "smarter" part, not necessarily the "better at leading." When I see a woman who can evoke the same loyalty and passion from the masses as a charismatic man I'll rethink my stance. Leadership takes a lot more than being able to give orders and dress the part, and "Joan of Arc" types are extremely rare in real life.
    I agree that somebody has to set the pace or both people just drift around without direction. My understanding is that both partners can do that; men have the final say in some areas and women in others. It's teamwork. Your desire to get along for the sake of the other person must be stronger than your desire to have your own way all the time. If it isn't, your relationship fails. I won't go so far as to say that a female-led romance can't work; I'm sure it can in some circumstances. But I don't see it too often.

  • No one has to lead. The best relationships are partnerships where both opinions are given equal value, and disagreements are discussed clearly enough that a compromise is reached. This is just the flip side of another coin we're trying to change out into real cash, ya know?

  • Relationships should be equal partnerships. There can't be a “boss” in that type of relationship. This is unfortunately where 3rd wave feminism runs off the rails. Preach equality but really want supremacy. Much like the sexist teeshirt example above.

    • You are a feminist. Men are supposed to be head of the household. Thats how its always been. If you dont believe that you are part of 3rd wave feminism.

    • @bamesjond0069 fem·i·nist /ˈfemənəst/ Learn to pronounce noun 1. a person who supports feminism. fem·i·nism /ˈfeməˌnizəm/ Learn to pronounce noun the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. Nothing in these definitions includes rights of men or LGBTs or anyone else. Im a humanist. Humanism is a philosophical and ethical stance that emphasizes the value and agency of human beings, individually and collectively, and generally prefers critical thinking and evidence (rationalism and empiricism) over acceptance of dogma or superstition. Who says they are supposed to be heads of households? Who is the strongest to battle other people from taking your family or property is relevant any longer. By that logic, whomever has the ability to obtain a law degree, should be the head of house hold. As we fight in courts now.

    • Edit “isn’t relevant any longer”

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  • It usually doesn't make sense for a women to lead because women are made submissive from the start. Its true.

  • Dude, stop. You won't get laid by licking girls butts all the time.

  • *Reads the title* Does it matter who leads? More controversy. "Most people think of men who are in a female led relationship or are obidient to their wife/GF as weak." <- Have you met every people in the world that you have say most? If yes then you're lying. Or it's you who's assuming that's what they think since that's majority of people's choice because of how our brain is hardwired. It's not a sign of weakness. Who ever said it is? MGTOWs which you consider the majority of the world? Lmao. I remembered you bashing on women for their choices to be the submissive one. Aren't you ironic?

  • Relationships really shouldn't have one person having final say on everything. Both partners should share their thoughts, feelings, and opinions on things. And whether women recognize it or not, they (generalizing) constantly want their man to make decisions for them (typically simple things like where to eat, where to go on a date, etc). I also disagree on the idea that women are better leaders in general, there is a reason most political leaders are men.

  • Uh... Seriously still found this sexist the gender of the person who takes the lead doesn't make you strong or weak (and the parralel to medieval Knights kneeling before a monarch which fyi they swore to obey, protect etc... Does not support your case either as Knights belt just as much for kings and princes as Queens and princesses. When will people just drop this be strong crap and accept one person no matter the gender will take the lead its personal choice and mindset not gender that defines who takes the lead and does not affect mental or physical weakness in anyway.

  • a relationship should be a partnership, no one should be "leading it"

  • you are a female feminist hidden behind a male account

    • And you're a Male mysogonist hiding behind a female account

    • Lol nope

  • It means she's your true weskness hard 2 find

  • Except Queens aren't battlefield commanders. Being born into royalty doesn't make you a good leader. Unless you're queen Boudicca.

    Men make better leaders bcs we are.
    Men operate on logic, women on emotions.

    • Joan of Arc, fuckhead.

    • An illiterate peasant teenage girl. Not a queen and an exception. Fuckhead

    • My point is that you cannot genralize combat ability in todays Information world by something as silly as gender. Women can be just as strong as men, and the best partnerships are 2 people at their peak that compliment each other. To say a gender defines ability is idiotic and ignores the beauty and strength of humanity; our diversity. FuckHead.

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  • You’ve be promoted to feminist bitch boi

    • That's an honor

    • Good luck finding an attractive feminist xD

    • Her personality is what matters

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  • I dont mind, but if it something i really object to, or something i dont want to do then i won't. Otherwise i just go with the flow.

  • Being a bitch is not a sign of strength.

  • You're such a bottom feeder it's embarrassing. Whoever raised you thought you to not have any dignity.

    • If this is the case then submissive women also have no dignity

  • Tried it once Never again...

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