Girls, why can girls pick and choose who they want to have sex with and guys only lucky few get sex?

[rebeliouse]

[Caramalkisses23]

Not all girls have the privilege to sleep with whoever they want-- because some men aren't that desperate for sex. Possibly because they have no issues when it comes to dating, etc. However, if we are comparing all men vs women then the only difference I see is that most men are just willing to have sex with anything. Which is why men will pay for sex. Have you ever seen a woman pay a man for sex? No, but they will have sex if the price is right. And if you look at it like that- then women could pretty much find ANY man to sleep with not EVERY man. There's a difference.

[rebeliouse]

I have heard of women paying for sex but not as much as men do

[Crimsyjo]

Girls have unlimited option for sex if they are not fussy who they get it from. That's because there are plenty of men who will count it their lucky day if a woman offers up sex with no strings! But - I think, and certainly for myself, women won't have sex with just any guy. But plenty of guys would not sleep with any woman either I'm sure. So it's not quite that black and white.

I certainly can't have any guy I would want! But there are plenty of sexy young hot guys to pick from.

[Hawkes_Lady]

Most women do not have the choice or privilege of sleeping with any man they want. Men are just as picky and choosy as women are. Only your "hot" women have their choice of men, but even then sometimes not.

As a heavy woman, most men are not interested in me at all, they don't want to talk to me and they sure as hell don't want to sleep with me. I can't count how many times the question has been asked, just on this website alone, "How many men here would sleep with a BBW or an overweight woman?" and the answers are almost all the same, "Hell, no! Not for me. If they are fat they don't deserve anything." Or something along those lines.

[rebeliouse]

have you ever tried to change your weight?

[Hawkes_Lady]

Yes, obviously, I have tried to change my weight. I've gotten tired of the roller coaster. I can lose a few pounds and then gain them back with a few added pounds as a bonus. I have two medical conditions that cause me to have the weight that I have. I have had Polycystic Ovarian syndrome since I hit puberty. Basically, I carry extra weight around my middle, no matter how much I diet or exercise. Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) is a condition in which the ovaries produce an abnormal amount of androgens, male sex hormones that are usually present in women in small amounts. The name polycystic ovary syndrome describes the numerous small cysts (fluid-filled sacs) that form in the ovaries. However, some women with this disorder do not have cysts, while some women without the disorder do develop cysts. Ovulation occurs when a mature egg is released from an ovary. This happens so it can be fertilized by a male sperm. If the egg is not fertilized, it is sent out of the body during your period. In some cases, a woman doesn’t make enough of the hormones needed to ovulate. When ovulation doesn’t happen, the ovaries can develop many small cysts. These cysts make hormones called androgens. Women with PCOS often have high levels of androgens. This can cause more problems with a woman’s menstrual cycle. It can cause many of the symptoms of PCOS.

[Hawkes_Lady]

Treatment for PCOS is often done with medication. This can’t cure PCOS, but it helps reduce symptoms and prevent some health problems. What causes PCOS? The exact cause of PCOS is not clear. Many women with PCOS have insulin resistance. This means the body can't use insulin well. Insulin levels build up in the body and may cause higher androgen levels. PCOS may also run in families. It's common for sisters or a mother and daughter to have PCOS. What are the symptoms of PCOS? The symptoms of PCOS may include: 1. Missed periods, irregular periods, or very light periods 2. Ovaries that are large or have many cysts 3. Excess body hair, including the chest, stomach, and back (hirsutism) 4. Weight gain, especially around the belly (abdomen) 5. Acne or oily skin 6. Male-pattern baldness or thinning hair 7. Infertility 8. Small pieces of excess skin on the neck or armpits (skin tags) 9. Dark or thick skin patches on the back of the neck, in the armpits, and under the breasts

[Hawkes_Lady]

How is PCOS diagnosed? Your healthcare provider will ask about your medical history and your symptoms. You will also have a physical exam. This will likely include a pelvic exam. This exam checks the health of your reproductive organs, both inside and outside your body. Some of the symptoms of PCOS are like those caused by other health problems. Because of this, you may also have tests such as: Ultrasound. This test uses sound waves and a computer to create images of blood vessels, tissues, and organs. This test is used to look at the size of the ovaries and see if they have cysts. The test can also look at the thickness of the lining of the uterus (endometrium). Blood tests. These look for high levels of androgens and other hormones. Your healthcare provider may also check your blood glucose levels. You may have your cholesterol and triglyceride levels checked.

[Hawkes_Lady]

How is PCOS treated? Treatment for PCOS depends on several factors. These may include your age, how severe your symptoms are, and your overall health. The type of treatment may also depend on whether you want to become pregnant in the future. If you do plan to become pregnant, your treatment may include: A change in diet and activity. A healthy diet and more physical activity can help you lose weight and reduce your symptoms. They can also help your body use insulin more efficiently, lower blood glucose levels, and may help you ovulate. Medications to cause ovulation. Medications can help the ovaries to release eggs normally. These medications also have certain risks. They can increase the chance of multiple births (twins or more). And they can cause ovarian hyperstimulation. This is when the ovaries release too many hormones. It can cause symptoms such as abdominal bloating and pelvic pain. If you do not plan to become pregnant, your treatment may include: Birth control pills. These help to control menstrual cycles, lower androgen levels, and reduce acne. Diabetes medication. This is often used to lower insulin resistance in PCOS. It may also help reduce androgen levels, slow hair growth, and help you ovulate more regularly. A change in diet and activity. A healthy diet and more physical activity can help you lose weight and reduce your symptoms. They can also help your body use insulin more efficiently, lower blood glucose levels, and may help you ovulate. Medications to treat other symptoms. Some medications can help reduce hair growth or acne. What are the complications of PCOS? Women with PCOS are more likely to develop certain serious health problems. These include type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, problems with the heart and blood vessels, and uterine cancer. Women with PCOS often have problems with their ability to get pregnant (fertility).

[Hawkes_Lady]

I also have Graves Disease, which is a thyroid condition. I was told that my metabolism was working to hard and because of that I was finally losing weight but my heart was literally trying to beat out of my chest at 15x more beats a minute than normal. I was put on a medication that effectively killed my thyroid making it nearly impossible to lose weight no matter what I do. Add to that the medication I now have to take also has the side effect of making me have very low energy levels and I am dragging my ass through the day every single day.

[Hawkes_Lady]

In total, I have had to have about 22 different laser treatments and surgeries to remove very painful uterine cysts. And I will probably have to endure more throughout the rest of my life. All while having people judge me because I am (in their words) a lazy fat cow who doesn't know how to stop shoving food in my face. When in reality, I don't eat that much at all. I drink water, plain old water all day... and most days I don't eat breakfast, I have a sandwich for lunch, and then two small grilled chicken tenders and steamed broccoli and cauliflower for dinner.

[rebeliouse]

can u cut out the sandwich as bread is killer if you are trying to loose weight?

[Hawkes_Lady]

The sandwich was just an example. Most people eat way more than a sandwich, 2 little grilled chicken tenders, and a cup of steamed broccoli and cauliflower in a day, that was my point. I am a heavy woman and yet I don't eat very much. My medical conditions make it nearly impossible to do anything about my weight, though I still try to exercise every day and limit my intake of food. That being said, I fluctuate in weight up and down within a 15 lb ratio, no matter how much I exercise or how little food I eat.

[ushagomez]

Biology.

[Apple1996]

Very few women are lucky enough to have the choice of a lot of men. Most of us are limited

[Elliegirl]

There’s this innate biological and psychological desire to “choose wisely” not “widely” for who we want to open ourselves and our legs to because biologically sex for us could result in an 18 year, nine month commitment. I wish more guys would think like Lawrence Fishburn in “Boyz N the Hood” and understand and fool with a dick can make a baby. It takes a real man to be a father. Then you might understand our female minds a little better in why you think we’re so picky with who we have sex with. But we’re still people, so treat us like people and understand we get horny too.

[laly520]

lot of guys aren't picky
show em P***** n its all they gonna be needing even if that P**** belongs to some freak

[Anonymous]

Because girls are the gate keepers, we get to choose who gets access to us with that said guys have the option to take or leave it.