Why can't I feel satisfied fully with my husband , he's everything I ever wanted but in bed he's boring what can I do , I Love him but need sex?

[BORICUALICIOUS]

[Anonymous]

You probably aren't compatible anymore.

At 36 years old my ex all of the sudden decided she wanted BDSM. I tried but didn't like doing it and eventually we split. I wasn't doing what she wanted and I felt like she was selfish in bed sometimes and not making me a priority either. Sometimes I found porn more interesting than being with her. I actually felt lonely laying in bed holding her. The marriage needed to end.

[Anonymous]

Women aren't attracted to any man they can, or have conquered. Being a husband epitomizes this. Fact is, even an identical man that wasn't your husband would excite you in bed...

He's boring because he's been conquered. His testosterone is also lower too (marriage causes this). And often women do not end up marrying who they are sexually attracted to...

[Emiliamazing]

Definitely start with a discussion of needs. He might have needs/desires that aren't getting realized as well. When you work through a situation together, the bond is strengthened.

[SnowedIn]

This right here. Yes. Talk to him. Clearly articulate your needs, even if it sounds awkward.

[Emiliamazing]

@SnowedIn thanks! Nearly every couple that we know has gone through this. Certainly no need to give up on the relationship.

[SnowedIn]

Yes!!!

[laurieluvsit]

The solution is called a Hitachi Magic Wand

Chances of scrubbing the stripes off your zebra are very unlikely... sorry :(

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you ever had this discussion with him?

[RolandCuthbert]

You probably should seek out a counselor before you do something you regret.

[20yearsolder]

Say exactly that, just in a nicer way. You know what honey, I want to spice this up. Let's try this. Are you basically missionary?

[Sixgunsound]

Bat your eyelashes at the judge take him for everything he’s worth including a reason to live, and go find a 10 year younger fuck toy as tends to happen.

[LiamSawyer]

Good sex requires good communication.

[AltGirl20]

Have you talked at l with him about it? Or would you rather figure it out without involving him?

[tfan1]

Tell him you love him and grab his penis. Tell him he’s wonderful but he needs some lessons and You’re gonna teach him and school is in session 😉👍

[JPresidente]

Try using a sex app where each of you has to list what they like, try sexy card games, lingerie, blow jobs under the table, car sex. Initiate these things and see what happens.

[BarryLiverstone]

If you need Sex the tell him

[BJP21]

Guys are visual, wear something provocative. Slut it up a bit (No Offense) Watch a realistic porn fantasy and see what you can do realistically.(This is where pornography can be educational)

[AimeeKyle]

Have discussions with him about what you like and practice. Try new positions/ activities. Gets some toys to play with together. Watch porn together before, during and after sex.
Over communicate and be open to feedback. Be vocal and tell him what you like as he’s doing it.

[Brando10222]

Take control and tell him what to do. Teach him!

[Shamalien]

Get a sex therapist both of u see em

[TheMoralCrusader]

Hit me up

[shanshu]

Tell him what you want sexually, 5each him how to please you orally if he's not doing it right

[nawtee_me]

You do know that in bed you can be in control just as much as he can. Get him hard and get on top of him, cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, or even give him anal without telling him first. You have to start somewhere and then move on to talking about other things sexually...

[Pterodon]

Then you’re not sexually compatible

[mT2359]

Don't talk to him about your needs... Talk to him like a friend and what are his needs... U guys can work on your marriage and it will work wonders on ur sex life... If u want to chart on him dur to sexual incompatibility, that ur call.

[In_Trance]

Have conversations

[CharlieDMX]

Sex is important. If that is missing you can't be fully satisfied